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iphone unable to connect to yahoo mail

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

iphone unable to connect to yahoo mail

happy_gal — Sat, 18 Aug 2012 21:56:40 +0800

urm not sure if this is the right place to post my issue but i hope there is somebody out there who could help..

for past 1 week am trying to connect my yahoo mail from my iphone bt it kept giving me server unavailable message.. what happen??.. what should i do?..

i tot my password is wrong bt then i use laptop connect to yahoo mail, successful...

any advice on what setting i should do in my iphone?.. my iphone model is iphone4...

Toyota vios driver seat

happy_gal — Mon, 06 Aug 2012 18:41:20 +0800

Ok I jz got my new vios last sat so on sat itself when my bf drive halfway n eject the seatbelt it will have sound of "beep" then he ignore and keep driving like for 5 mins the sound changed to faster beep..

Now when I drive n halfway I unbuckled the seatbelt no more sound woe.. Can it be spoil Liao by my bf cuz tht day the beep too long ?..

Haih damn heartache on my new car..

Videographer for actual day

happy_gal — Fri, 06 Jul 2012 23:35:10 +0800

Hi I'm gonna have my wedding on sept 16th this year however I'm looking for budget videographer who can help me shoot ..

I'm on a really tight budget so hopefully I can get a deal fm anybody who can do the job for rm250?.. Not sure what's the market price now la.. Just know I'm damn damn tight..

Based on the price I dun mind to get some beginner or if u got experience with other then wud b better la..

any photographers out there?...

happy_gal — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 15:23:02 +0800

hi,

i would like to look for an affordable photographer (when i mean affordable i mean anything below RM500).. cause i have already gotten the main photographer u will be the 2nd photographer which i considered as backup..

i need another 1 more cause i understand most of them say that 1 photograher during wedding cant catch all the images completely.

Most welcome those who are in final year photography courses who would like to have part time small income.
if you have any sample of your work, also can let me have a look at it.

PM me for more details if you are intrested.

Wrong info given by other

happy_gal — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 18:50:44 +0800

Sigh I Damn angry.. I had a situation in which the information was provided by another party and needed my hod approval so I specifically asked the person via the phone.. And then got my answer..

Feedback to my hod and he didn't apprOve he wanted more clarification .. After whole world hu ha then got to know in the end the earlier message relayed to me was incorrect and I was like what the tut--.. Am damn angry cuz it made me feel like I'm the one who misunderstood N wrongly updated my hod!.. I damn angry

Wen I spoke to the person boss (higher position then the person who relayed the info) the boss tried to protect her and say so this is a case of misunderstanding la.. Walao so it's my problem now??!!.. My biggest regret is I didn't ask tht fell via email black n white confirm cuz she like Damn confident whn informing me!!..

Now I dunno how to face my hod when he ask me tomorrow!!.. I dun think it's my problem cuz I've asked her very directly.. Sigh.. I Danm hate this feeling when they say something n meant another when I bring to bosses!!.. Geram

colleague problem

happy_gal — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 18:02:16 +0800

ok we are all colleague cum friends.. so there is quite a big group of us ALL girls group lah.. there is 1 who is the eldest is also the secretary lor.. fine no problem previously she always like to "zat" ppl .. and sometimes she really make me (or at least i know another girl) feel like dun wanna join them.. which happened previously another girl in the group she go and talk talk talk until that girl really damn upset and dun wanna join us for few weeks then after that ok d..

generally, yes i am considered happy and those "i dun care what u say" .. which is true cause initially also she always say me lah bt then i jz brushed it off lor..

long story cut short i went for some short holidays (in between i think the group didnt have any clown so attention wasnt on me anymore)... came back, wah everyday lunch shoot me with her scarcasm.. ok initially also dun care..

then more frequent.. daily everytime i say something... she being super scarcastic.. FINE.. was starting to get mad already.. cause there are some things when ppl will have their limit .. so she was already touching my limit everyday everytime i say something.. so i started to keep quiet during those times..

finally, got 1 day i really beh tahan alraedy i told her ur scartic level is getting beter and better hor.. irritating... then after that i continued to not talk lah..i mean we all are colleague cum friends do u really hav to make SOMEBODY especially those in a group to be the target.. which i reckon usually they do..bt then cant be always me rite.. i tried to defend bt trust me ... when 5-6 ppl are together, u can never win them..

then now its like she showing her black face to me, i also showing my black face to her.. and the others apparently didnt knw whats happening and didnt realize we are not talking cuz nobody actually know.. i show her black face cause i hated the way she was treating me .. she show me black face cause she is those really ego 1.. if u dun talk to me, i wont go and talk to u also.. those chuen 1..

now i feel angry and sad cause hey i dun think im in the wrong lor cause common sense tells u that if u keep aiming for that person sooner or later also it will make that person ANGRY.. arrgghh..i admit lah i siu hei ok..

now its like i have to purposely avoid her and the group with excuses like oh i've got somebody else to go with for lunchie.. bla bla bla.. damn shit lor.. damn angry also and i also ask myself why should i go "dai seng hak hei" to smile and talk to her again when she gimme this shit and all.. bt on the other hand, i am going to have to distance myself from the group which i feel i shouldnt as well cause ... after all they are still ok lah..

haih... there really cant be true friends within colleagues... ??... and now when she talk the words like GOT BONE.. arrgghh..

cupcakes

happy_gal — Thu, 15 Sep 2011 19:34:49 +0800

Anybody knows where got nice and affordable cupcake to buy?.. i want those that we can personalized with our own messages and designs with some 3d design geh..

can share the website with me?..

thankyou...

which one better?

happy_gal — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 11:18:53 +0800

jz wanna know which location is betteR?.. between putra perdana and lestari perdana... both also malay area.. nt to say im racist bt then i actually prefer not to lah if possible.. personal preference..

intention is to rent out mayb later on oni stay in.. budget is oni at 300k and below; corner house.. i know u must think that we're mad to want such house looking at the housing boom now.. hence, the location surrounded by malays.. which if ask me to stay, i really feel like.. urm... nt so keen lor..
dun wanna buy and regret..

what u guys think?.. or dun buy at these location at all? buy condo?..

thought of buying condo cause investing returns is better... bt then will get tied down for next 5 years... we have other plans for the coming 5 yrs dun wanna be tied down..

what u guys think on buying lestari perdana..??.. heard that seri kembangan has lotsa projects on going and they are going to develop that place really big o..

Bandar puchong jaya-next to ladang horcraft sch

happy_gal — Mon, 01 Nov 2010 14:34:04 +0800

i would like to know what is the rental price for Bandar Puchong jaya near the ladang horcraft school the 1.5 storey house?..

cause i happen to know this previous owner who is sellign the house ... im nt sure if it is a good buy o nt cause he's selling it at 290k .. and if i take it, i pay 10% downpayment, i have to pay installment of Rm1041 per month...

i heard the rental is about Rm800 at most therefore, i have to add in bout 200+ per month.. im buying it for investment bt for the time being, renting it out seems to be not earning money..

im banking on the house appreciation.. in which after 10 years it oni appreciate 90k... i know the location is superb as i loved its convenience...

any opinions? i havent buy it yet bt many ppl are rushing for it and the owner is giving me priority...

friends...

happy_gal — Sun, 10 Oct 2010 17:58:52 +0800

ok, i jz wanted to say.. i've known this girl since back in F3.. she used to be very nice quiet and nice.. been sitting next to me in class for 3 years till we are form 5.. being an introvert myself i dont have many friends at that time so her company was very much appreciated..

then came to college we went our both ways.. she found a bf during college and practically went on dating and was rather happy during her dating days ... i seldom hear from her either...
kinda lost contact for that 3 years down the road till we came out to work.. we started contacting each other back last 3 years ago..

So we both moved on with our lives that she got married and i've got myself a partner.. then things started to change.. see, before she got married, she confided in me saying nt sure if he's the guy.. bla bla bla.. bt still continued to marry him.. then marry already complain gets worst... starting off with her husband, to her parents in law, to her brother in law, to the house her husband buy, to the renovation... and now she's pregnant.. she complains that her bb is her burden..

the other day i really really was freaking angry with her because she complains non stop.. (our communication is via email lah) so i jz scolded her saying u complain about everything around u bt have u looked at urself ... u should change ur perception and look at things differently... do u have any idea how many married couples ARE DYING to get bb.. and u.. u complain saying that it takes ur life away and ur bb is ur burden.. (nt to mention what kinda life she has i dunno nt like she's clubbin o what...) so i also scolded her saying that im jz sick of her complaining and whining... everyday everything has to be something bad..

then she jz said that aiya we all are friends oni i tell u all this lah... u think i simply tell other ppl out there meh.. if u feel i very "FARN" then i dont tell liao lah... i dun complain liao.. then she says "u dont understand because ur nt married.. .ur nt staying with parents in law... u wont know de..."...

then after that she doesnt want to reply the emails anymore (got another friend 3 of us) always email each other geh everyday... jz chat ... bt now seems like she's angry lor..

to be honest, after she's married i can also say that she's changed 360degrees in which i previously was feeling kinda down with my bf and then she made things even worst by saying things that didnt helped at all... stepping me more making me feel even worst.. like "aiya u know lah ur bf also nt those very talkative 1.. can do business meh, those wanna do business all also the mouth must can talk 1".... i seriously was quite angry with the words that she used lor.. there's a lot more hurting things that she said bt lets not jot it down here.. i dont really tell her whatever probs that i have now becuase i know she will jz make things worst..

so the replies was actually a little bit to make her feel what she did to me.. as in a little revenge.. bt then sigh... i dunno lah.. i dont wanna lose a friend lor.. nt like i've got sooo many long lasting friend around..
i feel relieved because i dont need to hear some whimpy complaining on how bad her life is.. how terrible it is.. it is definitely a relief to me bt on the other hand, i dont want to lose such a long time friend..

feels bad a little though...

talking bout ex company

happy_gal — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 14:40:42 +0800

I want to know am I doing this correctly or not..

I’ve recently shifted over to a new company doing exactly the same thing as my previous company. And this industry is small everybody knows everybody else.

Problem is my ex company has lotsa secrets as in a lot of things going on and the new company geh ppl especially my manager will occasionally ask how’s things there… people there.. products there.. and I jz outta my mind say what came across it.. like I told him how bad things were… I told him the managers sucks.. HOD was having some problems whole dept process sucks..

Then I jz wondered is it ok for me to backstab my ex company so much?... I feel bad because im afraid later the ex company ppl get to know that I am backstabbing them and say that I am giving outsiders bad impression of them.. blacklist me.. to me that ex company benefits is really good and I might go back there next time when I am about 30+ time to settle down..

The main reason why I join this new company is because I wanted the exposure and the salary increase.. benefits in this new company is not as good as the old 1..

on the other hand, I also don’t want to let the new company ppl see that I am still SOOoo into the ex company cause if I cant leave it them why join this new company in the 1st place?.. rite…

i need a rant...

happy_gal — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 13:51:05 +0800

im nt sure if this is the place for what i wanna say bt then... oh well... i feel so sad with my mom ...

i dunno why other ppl can have this supportive mom who will go all out to support them morally ... bt then my mom is always giving me the hard times...

mind u im already 25 bt still staying with her.. she treats me like as though im this fella with no feelings that she can blast her ugly hurtful words to me.. dun ask me to go out and stay because as of now, my dad has already mentioned he wont let me go out stay until im married..

previously i have this brother who is damn stingy even to all of us, the family members. Then my mom was saying our house furniture like sofa, tv and fridge needs to be changed cause its old and worn out. So i said i will fork out 1k for u if u can get ur son to also fork out 1k for u.. which makes the amount to 2k..

of course i know her son wont give her the money lah ... i say depends on u lah.. if u can get it then i will give u.. recently my bro house was under reno and my mom was like the supervisor lah she was in charged of the reno and everything which is damn hectic 1.. come home also didnt have time to cook for us.. that whole month or 2.. she's running around..

in the end, my bro house was successfully rented out and he gave her rm1k+ from the rental (which is also a 1 off payment) for her efforts of supervising the entire reno ...

now my mom is blaming me because i didnt give her the 1k.. when bro has already given.. i say its different .. he is supposed to pay u because u did a job for him.. he is SUPPOSED to pay u..

my intention was to get my stingy bro to fork out from his own pocket money which he will never will and i jz want to let my mom know how stingy and selfish he is..

she doesnt get it.. now she's saying im the one who never keep my promise.. i jz talk oni.. and she always feels that her son is damn good.. much better then me..

and then she started to say im poor because my bf comes from a poor family ur condition is so bad.. u become stingy..
everything she says will start to relate to my bf who comes from a poor background and then eventually she always assume that
i will become as poor as a church mouse and start to look down on me.. u know, everytime like this mooncake festival i buy her mooncake and she even expects my bf to buy for her.. cny she expects me to give her money and expects my bf to buy her cny stuff.. my bf is good enough to come to our house do the plumbing, correct the doors in our house.. even help her stupid son to run errand (jz once oni lah)

can u believe it.. i really tahan her for 2 years already since i started with my bf.. so this morning im damn angry because she again brought up this matter and say that my condition makes me so stingy because im poor.. mind u.. im nt poor as what she's saying lor.. i've bought my own house bt i plan to rent it out and get the money..

i've thought of getting out of this place and then stay on my own.. bt then im also afraid lor.. my family is in kl.. and i shift somewherelse in kl.. really i feel like to get out of this place bt im afraid..
i admit that im quite scared of the big bad world bt then my mom is really pushing me to shift out...i cant live with my bf
because his family is also in kl.. so shifting in with him is a nono...

i've never lived out before... cause college was also in kl no need to stay outside..
and i also cant tahan why my mom look down on ppl so badly.. she has never liked my bf nt because he cant earn a living himself
because his family is from a poor background.. he has a degree .. he's working in a bank... and he plans to go out and do his own
business... until now she has not 100% accepted him and i believe she never will... she even look down on him because the business
that he do, she says is going to be very difficult.. next time when u are poor u dont come and beg money from me.. thats what
my mom said to me..

i really dont understand why she is like that.. she really is heartless lor.. i damn angry lah why some other girls can talk to their
mom really good like heart to heart bt then i never can and never will do it because everytime i jz want to rant about something she
will definitly say because he is poor and u made a wrong choice.. bla bla bla and starts scolding me... i believe that everybody
has their own weaknesses bt his family being poor is not his choice...

i was previously brainwashed by her until i wanted to breakup because i cant stand the preassure she is giving me.. she press me until
i cant breathe that time...

now she is pressing me for money.. i am damn unhappy because outside when she tells ppl, she wont say anything good about me..
everytime she tells my auntie and uncles is about how bad my bf situation is and the whole world knows that my mom doesnt like him..
she has never told the whole world how stingy her son is...

ahhhrrrggg....

i need a rant!

happy_gal — Thu, 26 Aug 2010 21:02:03 +0800

i need a rant.... sigh.. i've just joined this company A for 1 month+.. my senior want to go on block leave so he asked me to go do presentation on behalf of him.. its a simple 1.. which i think i will be able to do it..

then before he left, he asked me to go get the sign off from all those HODs.. he has emailed all the HOD before he left... FINE i thought things are done i jz need to give those HOD a call and ask them to sign off...

blardy hell the presentation is togheter with another team lets call them UAM.. that is their product their project so basically they explained on the entire product then i jz come in and talk about the process flow of the documentations.. which they (UAM) has already covered... me presenting is jz a repetition so i felt damn stupid why am i even there... jz to show face?... blardy helll....

then today was even worst they even forgot to introduce me which i didnt want to step up anymore because whatever im supposed to say is already covered so that lady suddenly realized i was there and said OMG!! i've forgotten about u.. how now? i jz tell her its ok whatever i am supposed to say u've aleady covered it.. bt actually i damn angry ask me to go there all the way bt then in the end didnt do the presentation.. i know its my bad because i didnt step up and say anything bt then i jz got no mood lor..

then another thing is he ask me to go get the sign off bt then today when i called the HOD,, kena scold she was asking where is the information?!!! where is the factsheet?? u dont expect me to signoff without giving me a finalized copy on the project !!!... wah kena scold for nothing.. i said the information is already sent in the email is it not sufficinet...?? she say nobody informed me on this!! i havent even read yet.. WHAT THE f*** u havent read is ur problem what i need the signoff ...

i really feel like to blast this to my manager lor saying im nt happy with the things are with my senior... he tai chee things to me bt in the end .. end up ppl complain nt enough information.. .or else ask me to go presentation is redundant... ppl already presented already.. what for i go...

MBA or prof certification?

happy_gal — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 09:23:52 +0800

nt sure if this is the right place bt i want to know which is better for career?.. taking a MBA studies or taking a professional certification like PMP?...

im in the project management line... thinking of going back to study bt im nt sure which 1 to take.. i have a friend who have jz completed her masters she told me that doing masters didnt really benefit her.. so she adviced me to take professional certification instead wor..

any opinions?... whats the industry requiring now?...

wedding planner

happy_gal — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 16:59:16 +0800

Hey all,

Just wanted to ask anybody know of a good and affordable wedding planner that plans everything from ROM to the big day itself?...

Any websites of the company to intro?

Bikinis

happy_gal — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 23:53:30 +0800

hey girls.. jz wondering do u girls know where to buy bikini for fuller breasts girls ?.. like as in the cup oni.. im a 34D.. sometimes E.. if wacoal is E..

i want to buy those bikini that can cover like 3/4 of the breasts (without any meat spilling out.. how to explain)... any shops?.. i dun quite like to purchase online cause i cant try it.. when it comes to anything to do with bras be it bikini, bra, shirt, top.. i want to try geh wor..

suggestions?.. so that i can go check it out...thanks..

should i hang on or leave him?..

happy_gal — Thu, 20 May 2010 00:39:23 +0800

Im really really feeling down and sad right now.. it all started previously when i started noticing that my period was a lot lesser then usual and i had abdominal cramps so i decided to c the doc which was today.. went to the hospital to consult the doc.. i know that the doc which is a gyne will definitely ask me if i am sexually active or not.. yes, im nt married yet and i am sexually active however, my main concern is that my mom!!..

i know she is concerned on me and im sooo afraid my nightmare will come true that when i enter the consultation room, she insist to follow... thats what happened today.. she asked me previously did i do it bt i lied to her.. i said no... today when the doc finally asked, i said yes.. and there she is in the consultation room..

now all hell break loose.. my mom is from a kampung therefore, the kampung mentality is still there.. girls cannot give their virginity before marriage.. then she started her verbal abuse against me (she has been verbally abusing me ever since i started with this guy) ... started to say that im so cheap ... and started to think thats y he didnt marry me yet because i've given it to him thats y he doesnt bother about marrying me.. bla bla bla.. i feel sooo suffocated... i feel that it is my right to have my privacy and it is my rights to have my own life and secrets.. im 25 already ... i will be her daughter forever bt i want to grow up and decide on my own ...

i sms-ed my bf and told him that during the checkup my mom already knows that we both are sexually active, and there is a lump in my uterus... it can be a baby it can be jz normal meat... i've asked the doc and the doc says no, babies dont grow in that area of the uterus its more likely a meat only.. so i decided to test my bf saying that it can be early pregnancy...

he mentioned that he will be responsible over it bt he wants me to confirm 100% that it is a baby before he makes the next move... and i told him that now my main concern is my mom who is abusing me mentally and i jz feel so bad.. he jz say no matter what i will support and love u we face this together.. the problem now is that im at my home and he's at HIS HOME... he is nt the person who is being verbally abused... he's nt the person who has to face this...

i regret that i didnt strongly push my mom away when she wanted to follow me... i tried to stop her bt she insisted to join... however, i dont think i can stand this abuse any longer... what should i do?...

i feel that it is best to breakup with my bf and jz be single for the rest of my life because im pretty sure my mom wont be able to like my bf at all considering the fact that she knows wht happened now... and over the years no matter how good my bf tries to be or tries to keep her happy she will never be happy and satisfied over him... both parties will suffer...

on the other hand, i feel like if i were to breakup with him, the abuse wont stop there because she is HERE... im living with her and as long as she still breathes she will continue to haunt me with hurtful words.. i totally regret bt what is done is done..

what should i do to stop my mom from telling me hurtful words to furthur degrade me... ever since i started dating with him (its been 1.5 yrs now) she has never stopped mocking me and degrading me till i feel like to run away from her... get as far away as i can.. i dont hate her, jz cant stand it anymore..

i didnt buy a car because all these while im using the family car.. i bought a house and its going to be ready next year end.. should i start to buy a 2nd hand car now and when my house is ready, i shall move in there alone...??... is this a good idea?... i was planning to rent it out and gain some investment over it.. seems like the future for me is bleak now..

PS: Serious advice only..

land to buy

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

land to buy

happy_gal — Fri, 14 May 2010 16:14:45 +0800

hi... it has been a search high and low for my bf who wants to buy land.... he has been searching for land which is for non malays however, it is either too expensive or not suitable..

i myslf have experienced it searching... damn difficult bt then i see those malay reserved land damn cheap and is soo suitable for my bf business...

so im jz wondering is there any way that we can buy the malay reserved land even though we are not malay?... and btw, why reserve for them who dont want to buy?.. cant they open to all....