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I think nowadays having a million is not difficult

fk2222 — Wed, 31 Jul 2013 23:25:02 +0800

. Invest properties since 80"s. flip and roll from Zero. Monthly income 10k , expenses all paid by rentals.

/k/ which type of ppl are u?

fk2222 — Sat, 27 Jul 2013 12:38:54 +0800

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10151737110599218

Another hero succumbed..wimminz is winner!

fk2222 — Fri, 26 Jul 2013 18:14:31 +0800

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=546...&type=1&theater

salute salute 21 guns fire 1 2 123

I more and more like Najib liao...

fk2222 — Thu, 07 Mar 2013 21:02:28 +0800

He has the quality to lead us bro, let us lay trust on him.

Even in such crisis, considering as tiny war, he managed well in all area.

getting serious man, its time to UNITED.

fk2222 — Thu, 07 Mar 2013 11:42:22 +0800

http://www.mole.my/content/sabah-know-your-enemy-nur-misuari

cut off the pkr part its conspiracy but this guy seems is the man behind all these intrusion.

gosh, if he can do it, we can do it on Singapore too.

so now everyone got smartphone liao?

fk2222 — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 21:37:14 +0800

i think msia now 80% using smart phone liao...so everyone connected and becoming like south koreans liao?

actually proton not bad , perodua also

fk2222 — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 10:36:37 +0800

discuss...

nowadays proton also improving la, preve rm400 u can get edi by paying installment . what u want summore?

compare preve and vios, which u want more?

What language do u speak, in dream?

fk2222 — Sun, 03 Mar 2013 18:28:25 +0800

so guys what language do u use to communicate in dream?

Muji

fk2222 — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:23:20 +0800

Hi guys, anyone bought something from Muji outlet?

I bought a piece of pillow costing rm90 and its so gooding yo.

how about u guys? and how was the quality ? do u enjoy it? etc.

do u think nowadays 2nd hand value car vry worth?

fk2222 — Mon, 21 Jan 2013 20:32:37 +0800

http://www.oto.my/car-for-sale/28770/used-...de-kuala-lumpur

http://www.oto.my/car-for-sale/25880/used-...80-kuala-lumpur

look at these mercedes, it devaluated so much, more than 100% of its original pricing back then.

and do not forget we Malaysians last time use recon cars and take it as new car, idiotic move.

now pricing like very affordable edi...

if given u money will u buy this?

After months of researching, I came into conclusio

fk2222 — Fri, 02 Nov 2012 10:10:33 +0800

In developed countries, majority of the population earning the average or below median level of salary.

in south korea, they earn around 6-7k RM. but most population earn this ammount. ie 70% and there are some population earning even lower ie. 20% then only above 10%

so if u see, 6-7k like this....an american go south korea teach english earns around 1800 000 won. which comes to 1800 x 3 = rm6k.

what more those average worker...if teacher earn this less...

samsung is samseng

fk2222 — Fri, 02 Nov 2012 10:00:26 +0800

u see this samsung actually is state owned just like our felda la..

u see hyundai also state connected company who owns steel mill and even produce laptops and batteries.

u see kia is another product of hyundai la..

u see south korean why they so samseng.

they spam their products to the whole world with lesser price and quality.

they market on mass spamming.

u see samsung

how many products they have just to kill the market share.

all segments also samsung.

IN B4 SAY BYE to nokia, sharp, panasonic, sony, whatever elertcial stuffs u can think off.

so in conclusion,

msia should learn from them

be a samseng

i juz realize

fk2222 — Thu, 01 Nov 2012 21:29:25 +0800

the population of malaysia cainis is more than hk population ...msia ke arah kuasa dunia

nowonder so many tvb stars come down and promo astro on demand la

Are you single or in relationship/married?

fk2222 — Tue, 30 Oct 2012 23:12:30 +0800

http://www.econ.umn.edu/~vr0j/papers/incshf24.pdf

Job cuts is legal?

fk2222 — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 19:27:47 +0800

Hi All ,have been reading these news recently about vodafone, BOA and even Swiss bank are cutting jobs.

Is it legal to cut jobs like this? these people get retrenched got get any pay?

Seriously if these things gonna happen , very fast singapore also will get affected. then many malaysians working in singapore are the first to get job cut.

so i was wondering, is it legal to do this?

FB SUX Mark Zuck is a spy

fk2222 — Fri, 07 Sep 2012 13:53:57 +0800

To all my contacts, friends, I request from you, that with the recent changes in FB, now anyone can see things from people who are not in your contacts list. Just because a contact of yours makes a comment or "likes" in some activity of that person. I do not want people to contact me, and would like that they do not read and see all my comments and stuff, but I can not change this myself because facebook has configured it this way. But you can do it for me. PLEASE place your mouse over my name above (do not click), a window will appear and move the mouse on "Friends" (also without clicking), then down to "Settings", click here and a list will appear. Click "Comments and Like" and it would thereby remove the CHECK. By doing this my activity amongst my friends and my family does not become public. A Thousand Thanks! Paste this on your wall for your contacts, if you care about your privacy!!!

guys, drill inside, how much would u pay ...

fk2222 — Mon, 27 Aug 2012 23:08:50 +0800

how do u think her looks? rate it please!

why arsenal fan become like man utd fan d?

fk2222 — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 09:35:41 +0800

huh...barca lost away, its like....ok cool story bro.

still got 2nd leg ma...after tat only heboh heboh open thread everywhere also no late.

Zen

fk2222 — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 04:59:49 +0800

the best goal is no goal

“With the past, I have nothing to do; nor with the future. I live now.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Post written by Leo Babauta. Follow me on twitter or identica.

The idea of having concrete, achievable goals seem to be deeply ingrained in our culture. I know I lived with goals for many years, and in fact a big part of my writings here on Zen Habits are about how to set and achieve goals.

These days, however, I live without goals, for the most part. It’s absolutely liberating, and contrary to what you might have been taught, it absolutely doesn’t mean you stop achieving things.

It means you stop letting yourself be limited by goals.

Consider this common belief: “You’ll never get anywhere unless you know where you’re going.” This seems so common sensical, and yet it’s obviously not true if you stop to think about it. Conduct a simple experiment: go outside and walk in a random direction, and feel free to change directions randomly. After 20 minutes, an hour … you’ll be somewhere! It’s just that you didn’t know you were going to end up there.

And there’s the rub: you have to open your mind to going places you never expected to go. If you live without goals, you’ll explore new territory. You’ll learn some unexpected things. You’ll end up in surprising places. That’s the beauty of this philosophy, but it’s also a difficult transition.

Today, I live mostly without goals. Now and then I start coming up with a goal, but I’m letting them go. Living without goals hasn’t ever been an actual goal of mine … it’s just something I’m learning that I enjoy more, that is incredibly freeing, that works with the lifestyle of following my passion that I’ve developed.
The problem with goals

In the past, I’d set a goal or three for the year, and then sub-goals for each month. Then I’d figure out what action steps to take each week and each day, and try to focus my day on those steps.

Unfortunately, it never, ever works out this neatly. You all know this. You know you need to work on an action step, and you try to keep the end goal in mind to motivate yourself. But this action step might be something you dread, and so you procrastinate. You do other work, or you check email or Facebook, or you goof off.

And so your weekly goals and monthly goals get pushed back or side-tracked, and you get discouraged because you have no discipline. And goals are too hard to achieve. So now what? Well, you review your goals and reset them. You create a new set of sub-goals and action plans. You know where you’re going, because you have goals!

Of course, you don’t actually end up getting there. Sometimes you achieve the goal and then you feel amazing. But most of the time you don’t achieve them and you blame it on yourself.

Here’s the secret: the problem isn’t you, it’s the system! Goals as a system are set up for failure.

Even when you do things exactly right, it’s not ideal. Here’s why: you are extremely limited in your actions. When you don’t feel like doing something, you have to force yourself to do it. Your path is chosen, so you don’t have room to explore new territory. You have to follow the plan, even when you’re passionate about something else.

Some goal systems are more flexible, but nothing is as flexible as having no goals.
How it works

So what does a life without goals look like? In practice, it’s very different than one with goals.

You don’t set a goal for the year, nor for the month, nor for the week or day. You don’t obsess about tracking, or actionable steps. You don’t even need a to-do list, though it doesn’t hurt to write down reminders if you like.

What do you do, then? Lay around on the couch all day, sleeping and watching TV and eating Ho-Hos? No, you simply do. You find something you’re passionate about, and do it. Just because you don’t have goals doesn’t mean you do nothing — you can create, you can produce, you can follow your passion.

And in practice, this is a wonderful thing: you wake up and do what you’re passionate about. For me, that’s usually blogging, but it can be writing a novel or an ebook or my next book or creating a course to help others or connecting with incredible people or spending time with my wife or playing with my kids. There’s no limit, because I’m free.

In the end, I usually end up achieving more than if I had goals, because I’m always doing something I’m excited about. But whether I achieve or not isn’t the point at all: all that matters is that I’m doing what I love, always.

I end up in places that are wonderful, surprising, great. I just didn’t know I would get there when I started.
Quick questions

Question from a reader: Isn’t having no goals a goal?

Quick answer: It can be a goal, or you can learn to do it along the journey, by exploring new methods. I’m always learning new things (like having no goals) without setting out to learn them in the first place.

Another question from a reader: So how do you make a living?

Answer: Passionately! Again, not having goals doesn’t mean you stop doing things. In fact, I do many things, all the time, but I do them because I love doing them.
Tips for living without goals

I am not going to give you a how-to manual for living without goals — that would be absurd. I can’t teach you what to do — you need to find your own path.

But I can share some things I’ve learned, in hopes that it will help you:

* Start small. You don’t need to drastically overhaul your life in order to learn to live without goals. Just go a few hours without predetermined goals or actions. Follow your passion for those hours. Even an hour will do.
* Grow. As you get better at this, start allowing yourself to be free for longer periods — half a day or a whole day or several days. Eventually you’ll feel confident enough to give up on certain goals and just do what you love.
* Not just work. Giving up goals works in any area of your life. Take health and fitness: I used to have specific fitness goals, from losing weight or bodyfat to running a marathon to increasing my squat. Not anymore: now I just do it because I love it, and I have no idea where that will take me. It works brilliantly, because I always enjoy myself.
* Let go of plans. Plans are not really different than goals. They set you on a predetermined path. But it’s incredibly difficult to let go of living with plans, especially if you’re a meticulous planner like I am. So allow yourself to plan, when you feel you need to, but slowly feel free to let go of this habit.
* Don’t worry about mistakes. If you start setting goals, that’s OK. There are no mistakes on this journey — it’s just a learning experience. If you live without goals and end up failing, ask yourself if it’s really a failure. You only fail if you don’t get to where you wanted to go — but if you don’t have a destination in mind, there’s no failure.
* It’s all good. No matter what path you find, no matter where you end up, it’s beautiful. There is no bad path, no bad destination. It’s only different, and different is wonderful. Don’t judge, but experience.

And finally

Always remember: the journey is all. The destination is beside the point.

‘A good traveller has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.’ ~Lao Tzu

[addedon]February 17, 2011, 5:00 am[/addedon]http://zenhabits.net/no-goal/

feeling suicidal

fk2222 — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 04:28:35 +0800

/k/, ever in university time, you are final year law degree spend hundred thousand k come over study and complete the law degree. here, suddenly faced 'mental' lecturer, mark your assignment paper with a pencil, and 'merewet' till you can't accept and give you a borderline pass mark.

my results all the while is good, can say 1st or second class upper student. but now, because of this lecturer..mayb she mark our paper when she period or what, my dreams and hope gone and tarnished.

feeling suicidal man..wtf my 1st class 2nd upper dreams all gone, spend few hundred k come here...because this tutor and runed everything.