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frequent travel to singapore

will_chua — Thu, 07 May 2015 12:07:18 +0800

Hi, I recently expand my customer database in Singapore and this requires me to travel there every month. I don't have an E-Pass or S-Pass, just malaysian passport
frequent travel there and stay for 4-5 days at time will get me into trouble or not?

Fancy Dinner or Decent Gifts?

will_chua — Thu, 13 Feb 2014 11:47:52 +0800

I am reconsidering my option after a talk with my gf in training yesterday. I said "gf in training" because we're pretty new, only a month old.
The talk was about her noticing how I seems to spend much on immaterial things, especially on food.

So it made me think twice of my initial plan.

I have this reservation for tomorrow's valentine dinner at a quite good restaurant in the bukit bintang area for the price of 500++. I want to just have dinner with her and a hand written card will do. i'm cheap haha..

My second thought after that would be a buying her the set necklace & pendant from Pandora, about 500+ too and cook, cuddle at home

If you were that girl. which of this would make you happier?

[tl;dr] Moved on or beg ex take me back :p

will_chua — Fri, 10 Jan 2014 13:52:13 +0800

Let me start from the very beginning,

I broke up with my ex of 6 years in Nov 2011. 3 months after the broke up I started flirting to my work mate, let’s call her Miss A, very homey type. The only child/bread winner in the family. I take it slow and after 6 months of courting which is sept 2012 I finally asked her (A CONFESSION lol) if she consider me as a BF. This after I left the company, afraid it might complicate works I decided to quit my job.
After all people has been asking if we’re in a relationship since the past 3-4 months I have been fetching her home every day, and if there’s function meet up/yumcha/ bbq I will show up with her. So people start to notice things.

To my surprise (or not) I was in fact, FRIENDZONED.

So this was the beginning, after she rejected my advance I was really broken hearted. Went drinking and hitting on girls, tried social media hook up. And on Oct 2012, I met this NEW girl in Penang.

This new girl, lets’ call her Miss J, was 9 years younger than me. Very pretty and very social. Came from wealthy family and has just broke up with her ex around same time with me. We were having soo much fun during my stay there that I literally dump my initial plan of hanging out with friends and extended my stay so I just get to be with her. We were on agreement however to not fall for each other, to not hoping for relationship. Since both of us still recovering from break up. LOL

Month after that, Miss J continue her study in KL and things went well between us, I did not take long and asked her to be my GF, she agreed and moved in with me in Dec 12. Very fast I must admit. Met in Oct & stay together in Dec.

But I was wrong, I wasn’t able to be in control of this relationship. And sooner she is talking to quite number of guys friend to ease her boredom and start seeing them. And I start to get JEALOUS leading to many argument. Adding to this strain was my financial problem, the job I had pay very less and finally in June 2012 I sold 1 of my car. Now that she has no more transport to use, she relied on these guy to pick her up or send her home and I belive this has made her quite or extremely close with one particular guy.

They start sending heat sms, flirt and WTF! when this guy went for vacation he trusted my GF his car. Parked on my spot. She even send this guy to airport and pick him when he back, she told me will be staying over with colleague but I had some feeling that she might be sleeping with this guy. Of course when I ask she said nothing between them but friends. Things went very bad and we broke up there and there. She moved out don’t know where, refuse to tell me and I wasn’t asking either.

Anyway this was months back and because of this I talked again to Miss A, she was there listening to ever crap I told her when I broke up. ask me out to get some air but I didn’t go. Lol I am okay now and want to move on, but I don’t know, unsure about what to do. I’m still bitter but very much still love my ex and want her back. SO:

Should I try to ask my ex back?
(Apparently she is not with any other guy at the moment, given choices I really want her back. I’m tired of starting anew. I want to show her how much I appreciate her not just by words but action, I don’t think she wants me back though )

Build that feeling with Miss A again
(Though friendzoned, when I told her that I will be committing myself to J earlier last year, she was broken heart. And a lot of our friends actually shock, though we broke off. Back then, we had a long talk and she did told me she does like me but wouldn’t want to commit since she was the only child. Afraid her condition might be turn off for guy. Bad experience with her ex BF too. She’s been single for 5 years, rejected another guy this year)

Or, grow pair of balls & move on… find a new partner.
(get back into the game, lol. I find clubbing these day is just damn tiring, and meeting new people? I have A LOT of disadvantages. I’m old, just started new job again & I don’t even speak Chinese)

Advise please,

Silent tears that last for hour

will_chua — Fri, 22 Mar 2013 15:32:46 +0800

We had a BIG fight that lasts for week because i thought she cheated on me.

During that period we were like strangers in our own home, she even packed and almost left as i told her I wanna break up. Anyway after series of chat we finally mellowed down and after 2 days of making up we back and have xxx

Passionate enuf but what confused me was AFTER the intimacy, like 5 minutes after cleaning up she's shedding tear, silent tear and it lasted quite a while.
IME girls tend to cry during the intercouse NOT after so do correct me if im wrong. I am dumb struck.

The tear, is it guilt tear? (means she does did something unfaithful? to me)
Or was it regret tears for making up with me (again)

What is it, it really bugs me

Am i being paranoid?

will_chua — Thu, 14 Mar 2013 09:36:59 +0800

my gf work night shift from 7.30pm till 3.30 am waitressing at 1 of the bar near bukit bintang.

on her 1st month of work i use to fetch her up daily, about 10km 1 way. on her 2nd months there she told me her colleague stay on our neighborhood so she can tumpang back. I still send her to work though.

After that she started to back home real late, like 5-6am in the morning because these friends go out yumcha after or play pool etc.

I have 2 cars and since i cant be free everyday to fetch her i told her to drive on her own sometime and it was a good option until it backfire to me.

Few week back these friend call her for help to fetch them home as they're drunk, she was already at home that time. Beg me kaw kaw that she needed their help going home sometime so best she help them. So i agreed

Then i get to know these friends are male and theres 4 of them. Heavy drinker/smokers
She told me those late morning she come home in the past are similar situation where had to drive their car and send these guys home after drinking and even tell me their house interior (mean she has now step into these guy house)

We had a big fight that day, i was very jealous and ask her if there were any perverted action but she defended herself as none. So okay i quiet down
This morning, she was on off day but we were up till late, then she ditch me around 4am to meet this friend. I was so infuriated

I mean WTF!!

she go out with them every single day and only back when im going to work. Even on her off days she go out with them just because i couldnt.
What hurt me most is why everyday? I am okay she going out after work but come on. Not every single day.

Do you all think she might be cheating on me?

I have no access to her mobile, even if occasionally i got these guy conversed with her in Chinese which i a banana cant read shit!

Thank you for your time, please comment.

Game Development (Copycat of existing mmorpg)

will_chua — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:01:31 +0800

Hi all...

I knew there is a freelance section somewhere but I prefer this thread. hehe!
As the title said I need a damn! super! 100%! copy cat of this existing mmorpg browser based game. However I do not want their current improved gameplay. I am referring to their gameplay during BETA build. (about 5 years ago, they have been through 2 build since then so it won`t be obvious )

Work on this project should include:
Overall website layout / graphic design
Coding of entire site
E-commerce solution implementation (ability to accept payments through CC/paypal)
Ideally, custom site backend/DB setup and design
Website safety implementation
SEO/advertising

For now the budget will be MYR1500.00

GoDaddy to Certified Hosting

will_chua — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 16:03:04 +0800

Hi all,

I exported my blogspot to wordpress and use go daddy hosting & purchased the domain name there, however my details is now published to the world with my full name, full address, email & even my mobile no. I purchased the domain privacy but it seems no use + go daddy dun hav online support ppl. fuk!!!

I`m thinking to transferring my domain name + hosting to http://certifiedhosting.com/ since i`m planning to purchase another 1 with them but i do not know how

Any advise..

Blogspot to self hosting

will_chua — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 18:21:40 +0800

newbie question kay..

my music blogspot is flagged inappopriate or spam, tho i`ve requested review it has been 2 weeks and no reply from blogger so i`m thinking of hosting it on my own now...

Thing is.. if i self hosted it can i use the same blogspot template, content, links, post and other stuff or would it be wiped off completely? damn!! i`ve been running the blog for 3 months now. so it would be pain if all my post wiped off.

I checked a hosting site and the domain is still available so i`m really thinkingof it as i only has 5 more days before blogger de-activate my blog.

Advice pls..

I need a website-can someone help me do it?

will_chua — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 13:13:50 +0800

Hi all, I have been collecting HK comics (in malay though) like Wira Tunggal, Pendekar Laut, Pedang Setiawan and all since 1993, some of it are cockroach bitten but still in good condition.

I wanted to upload and share it with the public and i want a site like mangafox.com
Edit: I`ll consider paying for the services however MY BUDGET is less than RM 300