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I feel so depressed

Ame~! — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 18:59:03 +0800

I just broke up with my 2 years ++ bf. The reason was that he was only happy at the outside but choking in the inside. I'm deeply wounded by this :'( he treated me like a princess before this break up. He bought all the things I love and the things I need, gave me his full attention and was there when I needed him. He said he still loves me but he wants to be free. To be able to meet new girls, hangout with new girls, chat and flirt without feeling any guilty. At first I won't let him go, cause I wanted to prove to him that I really love him and he was not useless as he thought he was but instead he begged me to let him go, yes he would feel regret later he said but for now his heart told him that he wants to be free. So, I let him go :'( can anyone tell me how to move on? I'm still hoping that he would take me back.

Like a puppy.

Ame~! — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 22:49:01 +0800

There's this guy in my class, which everyone dislike due to his behavior of not sharing anything that concerns knowledge e.g. past year papers solutions, how to solve question etc etc. AKA kedekut ilmu. For some reason, I knew that he tried to talk to me since last sem. The thing is, since we became friends, I had a feeling that he has a huge crush on me. Everytime I enter the lecture hall, whether I sit in front or at the back, he will try to talk to me. At first, I shrugged it off since a crush never last long but, he's getting on my nerve!

He randomly touched my head, caressing it, tilting his head whenever he's near me, acting manja-manja, sits wherever I sit and tried to sleep on my shoulder. I mean, even my close guy friends never act like this towards me except when they're joking and my bf took a month to be able to hold my hands. I just feel very uncomfortable being touch by him. I tried putting a sour face, and ignores him but still, eghhh. No response. My course mates are not helping either =.= They told me to take advantage of it and scores some tips for exams, forecast questions and share it with them.

Can you guys help me on how to handle this? How to tell him to back off a little? I feel he's somewhat like a puppy, tailing me around.

Confusion

Ame~! — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 08:58:54 +0800

Here's the story. My ex and I got into a huge fight last thursday. It was all because he lied to me. I asked him if he added any girls to his facebook to 'entertain' him while we were fighting before that. He said no but suddenly I saw a girl commented his profile and it made me furious because that girl once dissed me in fb because choosing him as my bf. She was someone I loathed in the past. I got really furious and asked for his password to see for myself what he did behind my back while we were fighting. He was scared and begged for forgiveness but due to his stubborness, still not giving his password, I blew up. I said all this time what did you think of me? Your girlfriend or your bank?

Because of that bank word, he turned the fight over. So then it was my fault. I hurriedly said sorry as soon as I said that but he didn't care, saying I bruised his dignity.

It's been two days. I'm not handling the break up quite good. He still texts me though. The first day after we broke up, he said he loves and misses me. When I asked what are we? He didn't reply. The next morning, I asked again. He said he cannot forgive me anymore and don't think we should continue our relationship. I cried. What was the point he said he still loved me when he didn't want to continue our relationship. Yesterday, he texted me again, asking for the location of a game store. 2 sms then I didn't replied anymore. I asked him again at midnight, are we really nothing? He didn't say yes or no. Just saying I'm a terrible person saying those words. His parents still thinks that we're together and he didn't have the heart to tell them we broke up.

Guys, what should I do? I already asked for forgiveness. I'm lying if I say I don't want him anymore but at the same time, he's confusing me. What should I do? My friends told me to give him a week. Let him misses you. Don't text him or contact him. If he doesn't contact you to patch everything in a week, it means he really means it.

Ring Size

Ame~! — Sat, 18 Jun 2011 01:14:05 +0800

Girls, I need a little bit help about the determining ring sizes. You see, I just reached 19th yesterday and my boyfriend is being so sweet and wanted to give me a white gold ring as a birthday gift. I'm a little confused about my ring size. Usually, I tried various rings to know my size but we're miles apart. He's in Kl while I'm in Sabah. He wants to buy one at Poh Kong or Tomei.

Technically, I need to know how to measure and the chart of ring size we, Malaysian used ( Us/Canada, Uk/AUSIE, China/Jpan, switzerland)

Thank you in advance