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my dumb gf how?

love_sick — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 22:14:53 +0800

we have been together around 4 years but we broke up in the end...
almost 1 year already but we r still friend...
sometimes we still meet up for lunch or dinner..

the problem now is she still wan to patch back even though we broke up 1 year already...

what holding me back is she is not really my cup of tea... but im touched for what she did for me..
like purposely come all the way up to kl from jb just to find me... it happened twice..
sometime still buy me present for my big day... all this while she just waiting for me to say YES to patch back...

good about her:
1. can do housework can cook abit
2. loyal
3. she pay for her own food and stuff (we used to be AA type since University)
4. no smoke no beer no clubbing
5. she willing to sacrifice her time for me...

bad about her:
1. she is dumb for me.. im one of the top student in Uni but she is those always fail subject type of girl..(maybe fail 1 subject in 1 or 2 sem)...
sometime if u hint her something she cannot get it... u have to say it straight...
or if we watch a movie together... i can understand the content but not for her...
sometime wan to share something with her also cannot... she cannot understand that kind of feeling...
2. No persistence (give up half way if some task too difficult for her)
3. don't know how to save money
4. straight forward ( she just say out what is inside her mind... dont care whether people understand or not)

I wanted to give her the chance to patch back last few days ago... but don't know why i just cannot say it out when im together with her...
she not really my cup of tea just that sometime i think it is hard to find someone that love u so much in the future... im so suffered for the past few weeks..
been thinking should i accept her back or not?? will i happy if i accept her back?? or will i regret if i reject her??

btw im 24 she is 23...

should i break up with my gf?

love_sick — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 17:27:36 +0800

omgosh i got a bad feeling again. i feel wanna break up with her again... we have been together for 3 years + both of us are around 25+

actually she is a good girl and simple minded... on the other hand, im a complicated person, i always plan or think something which is far away from now..

she always make me feel that she cannot catch up my foot step... sometimes even pull me back on my work...
for example ask me to do something when i was busy doing my work...

as time goes by... i feel like she is more like a small girl than my gf... 1 thing good about her is she is serious in relationship and she not those flower heart type...
she never say "break up" this 2 words in front of me before... but she don't really know how to catch my heart...

haiz i really don't know what to do...
1 thing good is she is really a good girl but sometimes i feel like she is not cup of my tea...
howwwwwwwww

when together with my gf

love_sick — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:41:22 +0800

why i always feel in this way this few months.... always in my mind "she not really that my type.. i wan to break up.."

but on the other side i always feel that i must tahan give her chance to learn as a good gf since im her first bf.... somemore she is a good girl...
we been together for 2 years already.. its not easy to maintain a relationship...

1 more thing i want to ask u guys... do u ever really have this in your mind before??
"U are the one im looking for, ill get you as my life partner"

how u response when ur bf do dis on u

love_sick — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 17:04:00 +0800

if u ger rest on the bed that time... then when ur bf come to u and touch u around like kiss ur lips and ears and touch upside down wat u ger usually response??

how come my girl like no response at all when i do dis on her?? she just continue sleep n let me solo

how if u have such gf?

love_sick — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 01:17:24 +0800

im her first bf and then she say alot of things she dunno cuz im her first bf.. we together for 2 years already...
but then she promised me she will learn it slowly...

but from what i observe she like dont have much intention to learn it...
sometimes i see some good example and ask her go read and learn it...
she will say okok but then she will take damn long time to read or learn... even will forgot sometime
she rather take the time to watch her drama or sleep... sometimes i really get pissed about it...

sometimes she make mistake and we get argue... later on even i get angry she also wont come and tam me back... in the end i still need to tam her back... i like wat the xxxx?? u make mistake and i need to tam u back...

i never scold her before until now... sometimes i say her abit infront of her then she will cry leh... then i need to say sry to her and tam her back again...
i really lost my hope already...

she also got her own good side... she will treat u eat sometimes... help u to wash clothe.. cook for u when i ask her to...
but we have different taste... she cannot satisfy me
i dont know what should i do now...sad~