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Laser/Lasik or IPL Hair Removal

noobiejosh — Wed, 17 Apr 2013 11:03:19 +0800

Hi guys,

Dont really know if this topic is relevant here.... But need some help....

Anybody know of any clinics/medical centres that can help with laser or IPL hair removal?
Yeap, im looking towards lasering/IPL-ing the erogenous zone for me....

Anyone with experience? Probably can share with me as well.... esp the good ones....

Plan to go for one soon.

Thanks in advance!

Sex - maintain or enhance the relationship?

noobiejosh — Tue, 06 Nov 2012 10:31:30 +0800

As mentioned above.... Its gonna be about sex.

A little brief introduction of my life with my gf.

I've known this girl Z since 2002 (10yrs approx) and I had a crush on her since then. We were in high school at that time. I tried to approach her but I kinda was the quiet kind of guy in school.... Didnt really talk much to her neither did i make any drastic moves. All I could do was to admire Z from afar, looking at her beauty from another corner of the school... Passing by her classroom to just have a glance of her even if i didnt have anything relevant to do in her classroom block.

Cut the story short, i finished SPM in 2005 and practically lost contact. I've had a girlfriend from 2006 till 2011 for about 5yrs and ended up breakingup due to 3rd party issues.... To be frank, yes i'm a virgin even after a 5yr relationship with my ex-girlfriend... And i never once regretted being a virgin despite all the "looked-down-upon" by my friends.

August 2011, i met girl Z again over facebook and decided to give it a try.... I browsed her pictures and realize she was a clubber, occasionally or frequently i have no idea but i decided to try it out.... I got her number and tried asking her out, to a club. And yea, that was our first "date".....

Things progressed from there on, we both caught the spark slowly but eventually.... On a side important note, she's studying in a different state so it would be quite devastating to know that we will be looking into a long-distance-relationship.... Eventually, we did have some minor issues in the middle due to some miscommunication problems, but we're so over the issue.... And everything was smooth sailing and well going. She was like the best thing that has ever happened in my life... And I really really thank God for my new-found love... I soon begin to realize that she was also single for about 4-5 years... Meaning totally boyfriend-free. But with some minor flings here and there... (sex-less)

In February this year, we progressed so well, that we actually gave each other our virginity. Yes im just being frank, we both lost it that night... And it was seriously the best of the best that has happened... I never expected to get involved in pre-marital sex or whatsoever, but I never felt guilty, and neither did I feel bad or wrong... All I felt was that, to be one with the one I love was something that nothing on Earth will every come up to par with. Togetherness that is....

Everything was getting better and better.... She was like the perfect girlfriend.... We went for trips, holidays, even overseas.... Just the both of us. And to be frank, there were lots and lots of sex.... It was just beyond perfect. I was the 2nd happiest person in the world, with her being the 1st. Practically, we were inseparable...

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But recently..... This is where the problem comes in.... Recently we have had lesser and lesser sex... She always claim not to be in the mood, tired, headache, lazy, etc.... She rarely participates in sex anymore... Last time we both didnt have to initiate, we both wanted it, we both needed it....

I've tried talking to her, asking her why..... She keeps saying she doesnt need sex, and she doesnt have such a desire as I have.... We did argue about it, leading both parties to tears.... And all she says is that she doesnt need sex and doesnt have mood.... I dont know why the change....

She also said that.... She doesnt want to use sex to be the "tool" to maintain the relationship..... But I've told her that I'm not with her for the sex, and neither am I just with her for sexual pleasure.... I said that sex with her was the best thing that I've ever had and I'll always and only always want her to be my partner, in everything.

I've done what a guy needs to do... Pamper her, love her, assure her, flirt with her, be her man, be her 'slave', but it doesnt seem to work.....

A relationship requires give and take, I may give in to her not wanting sex, but at times is it hard for her to give in to sex for me?
What has happened??

Dear CCers, I really hope that I could be shed some 'light' on this issue.... I really love her, not just the sex.
Biggest question is, "Is sex the tool to maintain, or enhance the relationship?"

Regards all,
noobieJosh

P/S : I wont screw another girl, neither would I leave her due to being sex-less or less sex.... How guys? Please help......

Msian Company rejects MC?

noobiejosh — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 09:40:21 +0800

Hi LYN-ers....

As title above, my company actually rejected my Medical Cert (MC). Is this acceptable or is it against the law? Or are they actually trying to 'bully' me as i'm quite new (0.5yrs) working in the company only...

You know, 15/02/11 is a public holiday. So i went down to Johor to visit a relative and intended to come back to KL the very same day.
I fell sick, must be due to the journey, not used to travelling far.....

So i went to the doc on 15th evening, and the doc said that i have very bad inflammation, and he told me to get some rest & get meds. So he gave me TWO days MC on 16th and 17th.

I informed my HR + Manager + Colleague that i'll be on MC, on 15th itself.
In case you all scrutinize what happened to me,
Sick : Sore throat + Fever + Total loss of voice (Inflammation of the throat)
Toe : Overgrown toe-nail that grow-ed into the flesh. (Inflammation of the toe)

I went back to work on 18th Feb, and submitted my MC to my company. However, late last week (early March), they actually returned the MC to me and said that the company is not going to accept it as THE COMPANY IS BASED IN KLANG VALLEY but the MC IS FROM JOHOR.

I mean, what logic is this??

Any ideas anybody? I wont give in if they're doing this cause i'm a "newbie".
Regards all.

************************UPDATES 09/03/2011*************
now my company, tells me that it's their policy and all the bullshit......... conversation as follows :

Me : Boss, this MC, not valid at all meh?
Boss : Sorry not valid.
Me : But is official MC and i'm sick with medical bills and all.
Boss : Sorry not valid.
Me : But why?
Boss : Cause company in KL. Your MC in JB..... So not valid. We no ask you go JB to work, you come back with MC, so not valid. This is company policy.
Me : Okay.
**Now i'm gonna go see CEO.**

Sales Engineer position

noobiejosh — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 09:55:24 +0800

Hie LYN-ers~

2 months ago i was unemployed..... Went for an interview in a friend's company, tried to apply for technical engineer cause same position with my friend...

However when i went for the interview, they wanted me to go for sales engineer position instead....

Well, i took up the offer la~ since all-in-all not THAT bad package~

But then again.... doing sales.... or should i specify, becoming a sales engineer.... would there be a future?
Would i need to worry about providing food for my family?

How high can i climb up the 'ladder'?
Isit a good job?

I'm okay with the job scope but i'm abit worried about the days to come, aka the future. =)

All feedbacks are well appreciated. Thanks...

Asking for gf's hand for marriage

noobiejosh — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 10:06:47 +0800

HEy there lyn members~

Need some advice here~

I'm 21 this yr, gf's also 21.... already together for 5 years. Plan to get married in another 2yrs+, at that time i'll be about 24 and so will she.

Problem is.....
Isit an age too young to marry? I believe i'm financially alright now~ Getting my car in January'11

Also,
the MAIN THING i need help with is.....

How do i approach her parents to ask for their daughter's hand in marriage?????

I believe many here has an experience,
Help me out

P/S : it may still seem long, but then again, would like to know the 'procedures' if there are any. thanks =)

Pubic hair removal (detailed for men)

noobiejosh — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 18:56:54 +0800

Hey lyn members,

Probably this would be a wrong place to post this thread, or probably it was posted before. Don't really know where to find it though~

Alright,

I'm going for a holiday probably about 1week+ soon to the beaches and all~
Need some help with my pubes down there~

Yes many people have already talked about this but i would require further clarification....

I don't shave anymore cause its REALLY ITCHY after shaving, i went to "plucking" all the hairs out.
Its something like waxing, but its self-do so it doesn't cost much.

However,
After a week, there'll be lotsa red bumps~~

I'm afraid that if i go to the beach/swimming with my gf, the red spots will definitely be a turn-off. Any ways to remove pubic hair that doesn't result in red bumps???

I've tried many ways but apparently the red bumps keep coming out after 'plucking'.
Anybody can help me out a little, besides going for laser?

Hope nobody will flame~
Really need some help, holiday is in 2weeks time. Thanks guys.