Field Tactics - How to sweettalk a girl

pegasusxing — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 13:44:40 +0800

Every week we seem to see a few threads from guys who are clueless about how to start tackling the girl they like. Earlier Ezra and Noob13 both made valid threads about the strategies of how to get girls, now I will attempt to address the issue of what to do when interacting with the girl. And a key element of this is how to sweettalk well.

Now, the art of applying sweettalk is a fine and subtle one. Many people believe that throwing compliments right and left onto the girl will do the trick. For example: "Oh you look so pretty!" "You look gorgeous today!" "I would feel so lucky if i had a beautiful girlfriend like you!" and so on. This is known as the "shotgun" tactic, as all kinds of praises are tossed hoping that one or two will hit the target.

This may work on a small segment of the female population, but most girls above primary school will be able to see right through it. This is especially true for pretty girls who have heard them a thousand times before from their classmates/coworkers/random people on the street. Instead of blasting right and left haphazardly, a better idea is to be specific. "Oh that necklace really matches your dress well, it makes you look strikingly elegant today!" "You look like Taylor Swift with these new curls". With these more detail-oriented and specific compliments, the girl will feel that you are caring, and that these praises are not used on every girl you meet.

So, that is point one -BE SPECIFIC.

After this, another key thing to remember is to stir up anticipation occasionally. If you just tell a girl: "Oh your eyes are so watery and stunning", she may feel happy for a moment, but the feeling will not last that long. On the other hand if you remark:"Your eyes remind me of something", and do not continue, she will keep asking you what is it. In the end when you reply "the Milky Way at night" "A deep blue ocean" or "A toilet bowl", the feelings will last longer, as you have stirred up her curiosity.

If a girl asks you: "Am I pretty?", you can respond: "You look like this Japanese celebrity". 99 percent of the time she will ask which one. You can then tell her that you can't quite remember and when you think of the name you will tell her. The girl will then think of it often in curiosity, and by extension, think of you as well. She may also bug you on msn, where you can talk with her even more.

This is point two - STIR UP ANTICIPATION AND CURIOSITY.

The third thing to remember is to be humorous, and occasionally tease her a little. Don't overdo it, as girls are much more sensitive to teasing than guys are. Certain things are generally ok to tease about, such as shortness or blurness. Certain things are not, such as anything that would imply she is fat or ugly. It's not easy for me to expound about how to be humorous here, but reading more and watching more talk shows would help. You can mix in abit of teasing with the sweettalk to bring her up and down, making her time spent with you more interesting. Basically it's like giving her an emotional rollercoaster ride. Don't be predictable.

This is point three - SPICE IT UP WITH TEASING AND JOKES.

I sincerely hope my few opinions can help out guys who are more new to the dating scene, and I would appreciate criticisms and opinions from anyone. Let's discuss this together.

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Field Tactics - How to sweettalk a girl