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how to make this girl understand that i like her

barackobamasuxdix — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 18:57:54 +0800

hello.. i give up already.. ive been dropping this girl some crazy hints that i like her but somehow or other i dont know whether she doesnt notice or she just doesnt like me.. we've known each other for 7 years now and we do occasionally hang out and like go makan and stuff.. i feel like ive been dropping so many hints already to her that i like her..i dont know if shes waiting for me to come out and tell her directly..

that day once when my friend was drunk he went and told her that i really like her..and all she replied was "i know".. not knowing this because i didnt find out abt this till much later and in between i had asked her out to have dinner and she came along and pretended as if nothing had happened.. later on when i found out abt it from my friend i was so embarassed.. can anyone please tell me how to find out if this girl likes me back or not ..

that day i went to her house to finally tell her and ask her out but i cldnt do it becasue her housemate was there.. and i read in all those manuals on the internet that when u ask a girl you have to do it when shes alone.. im going crazy..please help.. i also dont think i want to lose her as a friend becasue of this ... thanks

Is this relationship worth pursuing

barackobamasuxdix — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 16:35:50 +0800

Before i start, i want to apologize for my nick. It's actually a dupe nick and at the time i created the nick i couldnt really think of anything else and just wanted something attention grabbing.

Theres this girl i have known for 7-8 years now and we have always been friends up to this point.I have always liked her from earlier on when we first met but I have never told her. I did however confide in her friend who i know in turn likes me but i never liked in that way. I told her never to let this girl know how i feel because i always felt that i could never risk her knowing because i value her friendship too much. In between these 7-8 years we've both been in a few relationships with other people.

Now recently, i broke up with my girlfriend and we went out clubbing once together during the weeekend with our other friends as well. I dont know why but i feel that she is sending me mixed signals. And after that day we went clubbing together, she has now started completely avoiding me. Although i feel like that day when we went clubbing i never really made a move on her or anything. We did dance together and after clubbing went to a friends place for an after party and we were close and all.

But now, like a day or two after that weekend she has started completely avoiding me and she doesnt reply my msgs on YM. I have stopped bothering to call her or sms her. The girl that i like, she also knows my ex-gf and we basically move around in the same circles and have the same friends and stuff. We also have another difference in terms of being of different races.What i want to ask is, is this relationship worth pursuing at all?

[addedon]November 19, 2008, 4:37 pm[/addedon]i dont know if anyone remembers, but i did break up with my girlfriend due to a lot of advise from people her asking me stop leading my girlfriend on and telling me that i was selfish and a jerk. I went through hell during the breakup but it was worth it in the end, because i feel that now at least i can live my life with a clean conscience. so thank u ppl

In love with someone else

barackobamasuxdix — Wed, 05 Nov 2008 13:52:35 +0800

hullo.. before i go any further i want to let u know that this is a dupe account but what i am posting is as real as it gets.. i am a 26 year old guy and i have a girlfriend ive been in a relationship with for about 2 years now .. the thing is i know that we are not suitable for each other in so many ways but i know that she really loves me and wants to be with me..so in a way, im with her because im afraid i wont find anyone else that will love me as much as her..

another thing is all my life ive never made an effort to actually get to know anyone i like..ive mostly ended up in relationships where the girl approaches me.. theres this girl ive liked for a long time now in university.. ive known her for about 7 years now...we've just mostly been friends and ive never ever told her how i feel about her because its always been the wrong time..either shes in a relationship or im in one with someone else... and we also like stopped being in contact with each other for short periods of time in between, but we started being friends again recently and i realize that i still have a lot of feelings for her..shes a lot more level headed and clear minded while my girlfriend seemingly always acts very childish and immature to me...its definitely not like u guys probably think..oo i'm leaving my gf for some other girl just because i think shes more pretty or beautiful..its not always abt that..

i guess the thing that worries me about leaving my girlfriend is that im afraid of the future and if im going to actually find someone who likes me as much as her.. and also i dont know whether this girl that i like actually likes me back or just likes me as a friend..but i dont think its fair for me to be looking to be in another relationship while im already in one because i dont think i am that kind of person..

sometimes i feel like im selling myself short and also wasting my girlfriends life by being with her.. duno why so life complicated laa.. pls advise and pls share any experience any of you may have..thanks..

edit: paragraphed as per request below..sorry wanted to paragraph earlier but im not really good at composing ...