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Never Ignore Small Signs Of Coming Betrayal

RUI — Mon, 28 Sep 2020 12:10:00 +0800

Your partner does something funny...It's more than likely, OVER...

Ur options are only left with VOLUNTARILY step up and mend whatever inadequacy without resentment even if it doesn't turn out ur way or cut loss.

Last thing u wanna do; is to confront. Cos u gonna end up the perpetrator and accused being insecure and etc simply because the fella is, intentional or not; oblivious of what his/her own actual intention. The chances that the fella gonna come to u and say "I'm sorry babes; what I did was inappropriate" is almost certainly ZERO.

WATCH THE SIGN

P.S. One field of engineering is call Preventive Maintenance. Often people sweep outlier in the sample under carpet. What makes an Preventive Maintenance Engineer successful is the one that takes the outlier seriously. Cos, when shit hits the fan; it's always the skeleton you hide in ur closet gonna get you.

How to reopen thread?

RUI — Sat, 11 Jan 2020 17:04:45 +0800

I just missed the fun...

Red-pillers and MGTOW's are a bunch of confused kids. There is a distinction between going their "actual" own ways and the red-pillers/MGTOW's way...

if u ask me, the red-pillers and the blue pillers are tantamount to pots calling kettles black. They are both weak in character and personality.

And the rest are people who, spend their time living and learning. Go the way they believe that's right for their circumstances. It could be an overlap of what red-piller and blue-pillers.

Are you so weak that you are incapacitate from independent thinking to even have the confidence and belief that you are doing the right thing?
Seriously?

One is treating women badly to get sex. The other one is treating women nicely to get sex.
And the result turns out both are denied sex. Now, go figure what's wrong.

Elizabeth Gallagher Taken on Trip Around the World

RUI — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 01:06:22 +0800

Man Finally Finds an Elizabeth Gallagher to Take on Trip Around the World

Read the last paragraph.

Are you gonna be a supportive "long term BF"
or
someone who is gonna say "SHIT, my gf is gonna bang that guy from Niagra Falls all the way to Kremlin"

Why men cheats on loyal women by Ebrahim Aseem

RUI — Sun, 06 Apr 2014 13:22:09 +0800

Show a girl you don't care and she will will chase you; show a woman you don't care and she will replace you.

So, what exactly are you looking for?

http://teremity.wordpress.com/2014/03/18/w...-by-kevin-hart/

P.S. I'm genuinely sorry to spill your bean if you are playing the bad boy card to get under girls pants .

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How do you guys feel about

RUI — Sat, 18 Jan 2014 19:25:04 +0800

As per topic, handmade gift like knitted scarf or the most expensive dinner.
which one is more preferable during dating stage?

What do you want from your partner?

RUI — Thu, 18 Apr 2013 19:36:43 +0800

I know half the dozen replies be either a pair of boob & vagina, maid or baby making factory which ANY woman can be. Is there anything that I missed?
I personally think that any women would hate to be wanted for just to be those mentioned above likewise men hate to be ATM and does all the shit job no?

Again I ask, what do you really want from your woman likewise men? Vagina & ATM? Anything else?
Answer to that question is gonna separate you from many others.

"Am I with the right partner"

RUI — Sun, 03 Feb 2013 13:20:20 +0800

QUOTE

During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..

Falling in love is passive. Sustaining love is not.
So, boys and girls!
who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO?

Feminism

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

Control Engineering

RUI — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 00:04:12 +0800

Question 1 :-
Anyone good with Control Engineering and model system using simulink?

Question 2:-

d model goes like dis
throttle Angle(Input)----->Throttle Controller / Body (Actuator)------>Engine (Process) ------->Crankshaft rotational Speed (output)

I need help modelling Internal Combustion engine...I'm stucked at modelling air intake system model where that air intake system is broken down to 3 sub-system...which are Mass flow through Throttle, Mass flow into engine cylinder and both are in function of d 3rd subsystem which in d manifold pressure...i know d first 2 sub system can b modelled as First order system...but i'm not sure about d manifold pressure...

anyone can enlighten me on dis???

Wat an idiot i can be...

RUI — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 13:27:48 +0800

I din do anything having d gal i like/love on my bed...
call me idiot, call me nuts...I'll just agree...I really have no idea wat i should do that time...
I'll get back to this part later...

I'm 21 years old going 22 dis year...and i nvr have a actual relatioship b4...mainly bcos of rational/logic thinking and expects alot from gf(lame excuse)...a more concrete one will b...i'm simply useless...and unable to give anyone sense of security...of cos, i'm pretty selfish/kedekut as well...

So my story starts off 6 months ago when i got lucky...i got a scholarship that send me half a globe away...
everything just got even better when i know more new friends here in scotland which are malaysian as well with basically the same head like me...

So, there r 2 gals within this group of fren...which i'm attracted to one of them...she is really my type that fits every criteria...I'm into her!!!
My life here in scotland is mostly party and club during d weekday n tour during d weekend...In this early period, all of us do spend alot of time doing things together, dancing, drinking, cooking and etc...well, name it...My common reaction with my traditional logic/rational thinking under "having crush" circumstances will automatically void me from fantasizing...logic will come up all kinds of possiblities how it won't work out n wat's my priority....To make it short, it din work dis time...and v got really close to each other...

I treat her n this group of frens very well...far better than how i treat my frens in malaysia...We got even closer when there were plenty of time just me n her drinking hot chocolate after d party...well, i think i'm falling apart n sorta really really into her...but i din confess to her until one day...We had a flat party n i got pretty drunk den...so quickly i disappear from lounge back to my room...sitting alone finishing my whisky...I start debating alone on "what i need and what i want"...The scope was whether i should go on wif the feelings to put focus on building up the relationship wif her or focusing on my studies...Suddenly she show up in my room, probably out of concern...but i din really notice her presence...So my self-debate continue to a point...I yell out "Why do i always get into this kinda problem...I tot i figured it all out by ignoring such emotion"...obviously, old trick won't work anymore...She heard it, n try to understand wat's the exact problem...

She : Wat's wrong???
Me : I'm an idiot...
She : why...
bla bla la...here d part i'm really idiot...regret saying it...
Me : U c, i always get into problem wif ppl like u...
She : Why??? Aren't v doing good??? What's d problem wif me???
Me : The problem is, I always fall for ppl like u...yeah, I like u n I like u very much...

That sentence defied all the logic n rational within me...I knew very well that she is an exchange student n v will b far apart when she goes back to her life 4 months...no way things will work out...Since that statement was made when i was drunk, i took the initiative to clarify wif her few days later...I explained to her that i meant wat i said...So she got interested and we kinda started talking about it...Somehow, d question of wat happen after 4 months arise...and she dowan a LDR...and i hv to admit that it's gonna suck...She indirectly rejected me saying no point burdening each other...and she doesn't wan to hurt me...well, it's good decision from her n I'm pretty much expecting that answer...But den, i dun hv solution for it...

V planned a group euro trip b4 that stupid confession i make...Things kind different between us after that...I still treat her really nice after the rejection, just like how i treat her initially...But, everytime v r having fun especially when just 2 of us...She will kinda retreat from d excitement n walk away...That trip was like hell to me...not to elaborate more about it...i think u guys get me...when v were back from d trip...I think i had already moved on after the rejection...sort of just give up n back to d logic me...

Then there was dis day...it was my friends b'day....we had a party as celebration...well, like usual...I'm a party animal, so i had fun...drank alot n got myself tipsy...n again, automatically i'll try to save myself from some embarassment n hide in my room and finish wat ever drinks left...She was den again in my room n resting on my bed...I was so drunk that i hv to crash... out of so many places on the bed to crash, i stupidly landed on d floor...Wat i remember that was she was saying something like "I dowan to hurt u..." in tears...I was too drunk, and it's so embarassing that she had to pull me up to borrow my shoulder...The next thing i remember, we were already cuddling n kissing on the bed...

Back to d first part...I din do anything having d gal i like/love on my bed...I mean whole nite on my bed, and i dunno where the logic from of not proceeding to the next step...I din regret much though...probably, all I wan from her is to let me love her...which i haven get n probably will nvr get...

After that, she do drops quite some hints for me to take action...like staying back later wif me everytime we had a gathering, allowing me to send her back her room, and etc...AND i din do anything...I'm overlooked these details by pondering on what happened that nite which contradict her rejection....that were d last few days she has wif me...and i think i fail her miserably if she was expecting me to take action...But there is once i asked her whether she like me...all i got was "Does that matters?"...

At the airport...I stuffed a bracelet into her hand-carry bag...and it's another embarassing moment for me again...she found it out...and asked me why...i was speechless den...all i said was "Remember me n the feelings together wif me"...

the last thing i got from her was a msg "Dun be sorry for things that have happened...be happy because it did happen"...

My head is still f#cked...even until now...I can't have myself back since she left...I'm still confused, I feel strongly to her n I dunno how I will b able to move on...the feelings just comeback everytime when I'm doing the stuff v done together last time...Even the time I spent drinking alone, I still hv her in my head... gettin drunk din solve it...I'm kinda !@#$%^&*( which i dunno how to describe dis feeling...

I dun think no one can help me but myself...but I still welcome watever criticism u guys gonna make here...

Need help regarding motored engine test rig...

RUI — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 02:57:38 +0800

so??? anybody hv any idea about it???
currently, i searched google n turned out nothing much....
hope there's sifus here that invented their own motored test rig for 2-stroke SI engine...

thanks in advance!

Edited : Some confusion...

Knoppix 3.8

RUI — Fri, 19 Aug 2005 20:56:50 +0800

can anyone tell me y i cannot load knoppix 3.8 in my acer laptop...
i hope the sifu in here can help me bout this..

another thing is how can i install knoppix in Window together???