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Romantic bday surprise for a guy

nemonemo — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 02:19:30 +0800

Hi,
I'm trying to give my bf a surprise on his bday which is on 25th December.
Ideas please.

When to let go in a relationship?

nemonemo — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 17:08:37 +0800

I heard this topic on Mix FM today on when to let go in a relationship but I had to rush to work and didn't manage to listen to the radio. I'm just wondering when do people normally decide to let go in a relationship.

Interesting places in Sabah

nemonemo — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:40:53 +0800

I've posted up this under Travel & Living but there aren't many active users so I've decided to post it up here again.
I'll be going to KK in Dec with my ex( broke up recently) and I really hope to patch things up with him. Hope to have a fun time there but both of us have never been there. Heard from my friends that it's pretty hard to travel from one area to another.
Any places of attraction and food that we shouldnt miss out in Sabah? Plus, where to get cheap and good accommodation? It's kinda like a budget trip as we're both students.

Breaking up and I can't let go

nemonemo — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 00:57:01 +0800

I've dated this guy (my first love) for about 7 years and we've been in LDR for3 years. It wasn't easy but we've made it through.
He's the type who doesn't find the need to communicate when I'm on the other hand enjoys talking. Due to our lack of communication, I felt as though his love for me wasn't deep enough and I asked for a break up in early July. He apologized and convinced me that things will be better but I wasn't in a good mood due to other problems. I was somewhat cold towards him. In august, I started sending him messages but he hardly replied and I called him end of August and he told me that his love for me has faded and we should just remain as friends. My tears started to flow as though my tear glands were not functioning. Till now, middle of October, I still can't seem to forget him. Is tat true that time will heal?
He's now very cold towards me, avoiding me but we're going for a trip together in December. I'm really confused on what's going on.
I miss the way he cared for me when I was sick, those meals that he cooked for me and the time we spent together.
I don't know if there's another chance to patch things up or should I just move on... I did not appreciate what I had till I lost it.
The thing is we're going for a trip together end of the year when he's back in Dec
I'm going crazy... I just can't seem to move on. Pls give me some advice.

23/11 : I just found out that he started smoking after we broke up and it's very heart-breakening to hear that. Last time before we got together, his cousins taught him smoking and he started a little. When we got together, I told him that I didn't like guys to smoke and he actually stopped and he was against smoking ever since.
and now i found out he's smoking again. Nothing that i can do coz he's still cold to me.sigh.