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parking keluar line sikit = clamp/saman

leongqweasdzxc — Fri, 23 May 2025 09:34:53 +0800

[twt]https://twitter.com/attyusof/status/1925425152994812384[/twt]

https://x.com/attyusof/status/1925425152994812384

changing new car soon, should i change tyres?

leongqweasdzxc — Fri, 08 Dec 2023 22:57:48 +0800

changing to a new car soon...

but SA said will arrive maybe Jan, maybe Feb or late Feb...

depending on the shipment date, as of now still no news...

my tyres are currently like this already...

should i consider changing although i may only use my current car for 2-3 months...?

i use the car quite often on a day to day basis... so i predict it will only last for another month or so...

since 3 of them already touching the indicators already...

using cheaper reputable China tyres like Nexen for few months... is it okay...?

please advise...

number plate/interchange question

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

number plate/interchange question

leongqweasdzxc — Sun, 26 Nov 2023 15:22:05 +0800

hi guys...

just want to understand the procedure better....

so i bought a number plate online recently, and so far the transaction seems legit...

1. i paid in full, online transfer at his car shop
2. i received the JPJ official email of transfer of ownership, he did it on the spot through mysikap
3. the plate is direct owner, i believe he bought it and park it under a bike, because in the email its his details (both from the JPJ email and the bank acc)
4. i went to JPJ and manage to transfer the ownership to me, paid RM3 for it
5. i received the hard copy of the VOC, all in my details, and also got the model/year/specs of the bike
6. in the JPJ app, i can see the plate number i bought, its registered under my IC number now

but one thing i quite confused is...

is it normal for that person to ask back for the VOC...?

or its just for his own safe keeping/personal assurance that the person who now "owns" the VOC does not do anything stupid...? since technically im the "legal" owner of the bike now...

because when i asked why need to give back the VOC... his reason was the bike is not in KL, so they need to do inspection before sending it over...

he did say when its time to collect my new car, i just need to contact him 1-2 weeks before, as he needs time to send it for inspection...

civic

leongqweasdzxc — Mon, 30 Oct 2023 13:55:05 +0800

i want to ask...

if the car already has the infamous steering rack issue...

why people still buy this car...?

is it normal for watch shop to sell like this?

leongqweasdzxc — Sat, 22 Apr 2023 18:33:59 +0800

just checking with the watch enthusiasts here

is it normal for watch shops to sell the ones being displayed within the shop? although its wrapped properly, but im sure many other customers have tried it on or something.

rather than the fully sealed units

like for example, if you buy a phone, you go to the shop and play around with the demo, then you get a new sealed unit

does it work the same when it comes to watch purchases?

just wondering if i can request for a new sealed watch unit or it doesnt work that way and i should buy the ones displayed on the shelves?

edit: sorry forgot to add, its official shops like Tudor, Tissot, Tag Heuer, etc , not some kedai ah chong jam tangan you see from pertama complex or sungei wang, etc

4 years... lost just like that.

leongqweasdzxc — Sun, 23 May 2021 04:37:41 +0800

so my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me recently. but she has moved on within 2-3 weeks to a new guy.

she had to spite me by posting on social media few days right after our break up. but now full on mode posting. i have since unfollowed her everywhere.

the reason why i feel so lost right now is because i dont know if its my problem, or its her problem.

sometimes i felt like she was using me too for the past 4 years of our relationship.

some background of how our relationship is for the past 4 years:
- she never introduced me to her friends, family members are just bare minimum
- whenever i helped her do some difficult stuff that a man may be more comfortable with (like climbing high, window fixing, electrical, wiring, furniture moving/building, etc) - she never credits my effort to her family **
- and when her family asks, she said she is the one that did it.. all by herself, instead of saying like "my bf helped me" (sometimes it made me felt she put me in a position where her family may think im useless, when im not)
- dates: i paid for everything... EVERYTHING, she does pay, but once in a blue moon, and she rarely pays for the expensive dates.
- whatever she wants, i buy... phone, smart watches, smart tv, ipad, expensive phone cases, feminine stuff like make up, perfumes, facial stuff, etc, etc
- wherever she wants to go, i will be the driver
- vacation - we shared and paid but i paid probably 80%, she paid 20%
- house works - at first we did 50/50 and shared the tasks, but as our relationship progressed over the course of 4 years, i end up doing the laundry, folding, ironing, mopping, toilet cleaning, sending car for wash, etc, etc.
- got once she was hospitalized for a month due to a fracture and minor op, i was there for her every single day until the day she got discharged.
- future plans: we were still actively discussing them and we did put effort to do reach our goals

here are some of the things that i felt was quite negative:
- she wants to know how much i earn (but she shares hers too)
- she wants to control what i can buy (but after a while i told her that its not the right thing to do, and she didnt bother for some time, but the controlling came back after some time)
- sometimes when i ask why she dont let her parents know that i was there for her (related to point ** above), she will say "as long as i know you are here for me its good enough"
- she gets triggered whenever i chat with my female friends, despite letting her know many times that they are just my friends
- but she can chat with other guys, and when i purposely tease her about it, she will say "friends only"
- she likes to guilt trip me whenever i said something wrong or did something wrong
- she is never the wrong one no matter how the situation is
- and if she really is wrong, she will "manja" her way out
- if i did wrong, i kena her attitude
- when she needs help, she expects me to help her, then got once i just purposely kacau her by saying "if i dont want to do it?"
- she ended up saying "if you dont even put effort to help your gf then you're a crappy bf"
- when i need help, sometimes she will tell me off by saying "i may be your gf for the past 4 years, but it doesnt mean that i have the obligation to help you out".. wtf?
- she always said im a very very stubborn person and not willing to change, etc
- but i have changed a lot for her, not to suite her needs, but i also felt it could be a good change. thats why i decided to change.
- though it looks like it is never enough.
- few years back my family had some financial difficulties so i was also half providing for my family, so i ended up not being able to save more than i could, but now im okay as things are quite back to normal
- yet she bad mouth about me to her mom.. saying that im not financially stable. but yet i paid for everything? (i felt this is so contradicting)
- and im a little bit over my normal weight, so blood test wasnt that good either, she bad mouth me to her mom saying that my blood test results is worst than her dad's.
- but i got exercise few times a week and ensure i dont over eat on certain types of food over a long period (maybe im not putting 100% effort on this)
- recently just bought her an iphone12 pro and within 2 weeks she broke up with me
- prior to the break up she ghosted me, didnt communicate our issues face to face and she just initiated the break up over text. it made me felt so wtf on this.
- when i asked her after everything i've done for our relationship, how can she justify the break up. she just said "you CHOSE to do those things in our relationship, i have never forced you. you did them willingly"

i know these are already pure red flags, but before you all bash me, i was willing to overlook them as part of her imperfections, not sure why. maybe i shouldnt have, but i did anyway. probably blinded by love.

anyway, these are just a few lists of things that i can remember right now. there are more but i dont remember

the reason why i said i feel so lost is... i gave her my everything/all but her reason for breaking up with me is that im a very very stubborn person. (and then 2-3 weeks later posting about new bf)

so i felt lost because, i did so much, how can the break up be justified over my stubborn-ness as the main reason?

it made me felt like she has never appreciated me even once during the past 4 years.

some days i dont feel justified, some days im glad the toxicity of this relationship has finally come to an end.

some days i kept thinking how could she move on so fast. does that mean she has never really loved me for the past 4 years? or she just got bored of the relationship?

i understand that reality is very cruel, but i just dont understand why this has to happen to me. like what did i do to deserve this?

so i dont know, if its my problem? or its her problem?

am i really a bad boyfriend? or am i not doing enough? or she is just over expecting? or she is just selfish?

my friends said i over compromised while she never compromised past 5 fingers and lived like a queen.

i have reached a point where i felt i may have minor depression (or not, maybe i just felt like shit).. as my face/mood can be as pale as it can be on some days, even to my family members... though it will go away when my family was there to chat with me.

in the mean time i am healing myself by giving myself a lot of love (just sometimes will still feel like shit, like right now) and buying stuff that i wasnt able to buy before this.

advise needed.

method of gaining website popularity [Q]

leongqweasdzxc — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 18:28:07 +0800

Hi all,

is it a good idea to gain popularity of a certain website by giving out surveys?
if not, then what are proper ways to increase the popularity of a certain website.

retaking maths tmr (ulangan) :S

leongqweasdzxc — Sun, 12 Jun 2011 23:31:35 +0800

is it hard? past june candidates please advise.
thanks!

Regarding retaking SPM (serious question)

leongqweasdzxc — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 01:53:24 +0800

Hi.

I know there are a few threads here linking to the " Preparations of what to bring/Stuff to do to retake SPM subjects"

But that was a few years ago..

What should i bring/prepare to register for retaking SPM subjects? (as of 2011)

I am a 2009 candidate, but until Aug 2010 only the college councellors told me that i can retake SPM. (lol)

Thank you!