http://forum.lowyat.net/ Fri, 05 Jun 2026 04:22:24 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1590989 I started to chase this girl, S since early September. Things were really good at first, we had a few dates, dinner, movie etc. After our 4th dates, i decided to move up a level. Somehow, things suddenly change and i feel it become worse. For the last 2 weeks, she reject all my invitations to go out. I accept that she is busy so i didn&#39;t really bother much. <br /><br />This week, we will have a dinner gathering with few other friends as well. So, i offer to pick her up. She reject me (again), she told me she already ask another friend to pick her since he live nearby. I don&#39;t really feel anything at first, but my female friend, P ask me why i didn&#39;t offer earlier, i told P i did but S didn&#39;t give me answer yet. Then P start to put doubts in my head, P mention if S interested in me, S will accept my offer. <br /><br />Now i think back, S already reject 4 of my invitations. Do that mean she no longer interested in me? Or i was just thinking too much. love.beginner Cupid&#39;s Corner Thu, 07 Oct 2010 16:55:38 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1163615 A - the girl i like<br />B - a male colleague of A, already have gf, plan to marry next year<br />C - my very good female fren, a colleague to both A and B<br /><br />i know A for about a year and she went out for a date with me just a month ago. That was our 1st and only time, since then she been rejecting my few invitations. C was my &#39;spy&#39;, u know, to check whether A like me or not. i told C about the rejections, and she told me a disturbing news few days ago. A and B become very close together since a company trip just a week after my date with A. After the trip, they eat breakfast together, tea time together and go back together..everyday. Whenever A need a car ride home after work, B will always be there. All this info is told by C to me.<br /><br />I never knew anything wrong because A is still replying my msn and sms as normal. But after what C told me, i begin to think my rejections is because A might like someone else. C told me to move on and find another girl, which i begin to seriously considering now. <br /><br />My question is<br />1) should i confess to A? i know chances might be slim, but at least i got the answer before giving up<br />2) ask her about B, i know is stupid but i really want to know the answer love.beginner Cupid&#39;s Corner Mon, 14 Sep 2009 21:34:23 +0800