http://forum.lowyat.net/ Fri, 26 Jun 2026 06:25:27 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5042033 The loan is currently under my name. But when I purchase the house, I put both my name and my wife&#39;s name on Sales and Purchase agreement. Now I would like to remove my wife&#39;s name from the title. What is the procedure to do this? Can I do this myself or need a lawyer? Please advise. hellboy84 Property Q&amp;A Thu, 15 Oct 2020 14:51:26 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4967569 I am married for 10 years now. I have 3 kids with my wife, the youngest is 7 months old. Our relationship had always been hit and miss as we fought alot but I try to save it for the sake of my kids. 3 years ago my wife had a miscarriage and after that she was depressed and due to the depression, she became aggressive and our family was broken. My mom was staying with me and she left the house after problem with my wife. I tried to help her, talk to her and be supportive to her. She doesn&#39;t believe that she is depressed and didnt want to meet a psychiatrist. The only way i could help her is to overcome her sadness which is due to the miscarriage. She got pregnant again and we got a son 7 months ago.<br /><br />We are not sexually active for almost 4 years now, yes we have sex but its like once every 3 months. Only time she was active is when she wanted to try for baby. Lately, I have lost interest with my wife. Even before the baby was born, she preferred to sleep in the guest room. She said its easier for her. After 17 months now, she is still in guest room and I am in our room. We dont have any intimacy for the last 17 months. I do love her because she is the mother of my child. And I am not going to divorce her for the sake of my kids. I dont want my kids to live without a father and a mother.<br /><br />3 years ago, i befriended a lady who i know from work. She is from overseas and she came down for a short project. We became friends and we have been talking on social media once in a while. She is a divorcee with a kid. Lately i have been developing feelings for this friend. She have been very supportive and we have shared alot of our struggles and life events, both of us have confessed what we feel for each other. I have never been with any other girl other than my wife since i was married. Even this friend, we have never spent time together apart from at office when she was down. <br /><br />I am not sure what I am doing is right or wrong. I feel like I am cheating my wife but at the same time, i feel like i need some happiness too. What should i do? hellboy84 Cupid&#39;s Corner Mon, 25 May 2020 14:15:48 +0800