Cheating bf?

green racoon — Sun, 25 Oct 2015 04:22:02 +0800

My bf and I have been going out for about a year now but we hardly ever date lately (the last time we went out alone was a month ago). We usually have time for each other on weekends and we almost rarely go out on weekday nights coz he wants to work OT to earn more money. I gave him the benefit of doubt that he does need the money and that he's busy preparing for this Professional exams so he really needs to concentrate on preparing for his paper and having to work at the same time.

But about 2 days ago, and this is where you have to love the Internet!! I found photos of him attending a show. What I am hurt about is that he didn't tell me about it (not so much about asking me to come along). When I scrolled back to our Whatsapp messages on the night he went for the show and he played it off pretty cool and had me fooled to make me think that he was at home all tired from his day's work and having to prepare for his exams.

Don't tell me saying that he wants to have some "quality time" with his brother coz they both live together with their parents. His brother brought his gf along and their best friend tagged along too. We do still message each other every day but I feel cheated that he would do something like this behind my back to me. I'm not expecting him to report to me every damn thing he does but why would he do such a thing? Is he just clinging on to me for companionship and nothing else?

Thoughts?

Which is it?

green racoon — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 22:29:09 +0800

need serious opinion please guys?

I kinda dated this guy for quite a while now. i know i shouldn't play with fire since he had/has a gf. I said "had/has" coz the time i was with him, he has already had 3 gfs. and no, he wasn't seeing them all at the same time. He was with them at different points in time but i was "with him" when he was dating these girls..

After i while, i figured that i'm never going to be his gf, we decided to be friends but this obviously did not work out well, we will still end up acting like a couple in the end. So i decided to call it quits for good and told him that we should not keep in touch anymore. All he could say was "Ok", though i was already anticipating this answer, i was still shocked and hurt that all he could say is "OK". The next day however, suddenly he said "thanks for taking care of me and being there for me when I needed someone by my side. You made my life most happy"

i haven't answered him but what is he trying to indicate? is he still trying to "recover" some ego by hoping that i will go back to him, or is he just saying it for the sake of saying it?

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