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How to control our financial

secretive — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 16:31:35 +0800

Many ppl say once we got gf, we will be broke esspecially guy
one of the reason we stay single because we dont have financial to get into relationship
let discuss how do u control your monthly financial that we wont be overspending every month and can save some money

actually i overspending this month
brought her a birthday present for RM417
almost half of my salary

IF u know there a guy chase ur gf

secretive — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 20:13:32 +0800

let say you know there a guy who like and wanna chase your gf. You also know who that guy and he is one of your colleague(he dont know she are not available anymore). And your gf, because of dont want to hurt her friendship with him. She decided to go out with him as friends only. That guy give her a bouquet of flower when they hang out.

What you will do? how you deal with your gf without any argument?
u know la...some girl sure will ask "Give me a reason why i cant go out with him as friend"

Ideas to "tam"(pujuk) your gf/bf

secretive — Sat, 30 May 2009 11:13:58 +0800

Okay, everyone sure got skills or ideas to pujuk your gf/bf when she/he is angry with us for some reason or unreasonable. let share your idea what to do. so we can use it when they are angry.

my idea are

1) candle lighting with word "SORRY"
2) Write a Sorry/Dont Sad & Be Happy with symbols or and hold it with ur sad/happy face, take a pic of urself and mms her (i did it before )
3) buy something for her - orang kaya's method....i no money to buy for her

these only i can think.....lack of ideas honestly i'm not good in "tam" (pujuk) ppl

My gf are really emotional

secretive — Fri, 29 May 2009 06:45:45 +0800

sometime i dont know why my gf so emotional.... suddenly change her mood to very bad. yesterday i go out with my colleague, last week she still ok and encourage me go out with them. but when i go out with them. her mood changed. she angry me because she been left out from joining us(because she know my colleague quite well too because she same dept with them last time before she left my company. i know my gf through them also).

she sms me, but i dont understood what she mean

"It ok, i know i shouldn't blame on u also. buti already told ui got bad temper from the very first day. A small tiny matter could upset me! but i am frustating y i always being forgotten, u got me? no u dont, i know."

what does she mean?i really dont know

now she still angry with me what should i do to "tam"(pujuk) her back?
guy...please help me../.....give some idea to pujuk her back~~~ thanks

First time meet gf/bf parent

secretive — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 23:29:59 +0800

ok...we all sure iwll have the first timer to meet ur gf/bf parent
what should u prepare for that meeting?
does we need to bring some gift/buah tangan/souvenir for them?
what kind os gift/buah tangan that we should give?
if budget around RM80-150....

how to touch her heart

secretive — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:02:08 +0800

hello ~~ it me again. i and my gf are still going on. but that competitor no longer calling her. after your (lyn member) advice. i already have a nice talk to her. she no longer pick his call. i wanna thanks to all lyn member that advice me and give me support in previous thread. NOW..... haha .... i just body itchy wanna make her heart melt. here my plan ~~~

Next week is our monthly anniversary .... on that day, i plan to make sandwich and put it into a lunch box for her. i will wait at her office. since her working hour earlier than mine. my question is ..... do you think she will touched?

those who got better idea..can share at here also

thanks all~~

a guy calling my gf everynight

secretive — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:35:54 +0800

Ok, the story is like this......

i just started my relationship with my gf about 2 weeks ago. I just know her for 1 month before we together. Got a guy, saw her facebook and start chasing her about 4 months ago. That guy still dont know that my gf got me. My gf also didnt tell him that she got bf (i dont know why, i ask her to tell him but she dont want).

Then of course, as a guy. when u see another guy try to spanaring ur gf. i think every guy will not happy with it. Just called my gf, and her call waiting. Then after she stopped. i call her again, she pick up the phone and i straight away ask her who is the caller, she firstly answered her friend. but when i ask for the third time then only she admit is him. i jsut answered "haizz...." (honestly i not in mood to chat with her anymore after know that). but still chatting with her a while. she say she treat him like normal friend only. because tat guy is her friend's friend and never meet him before.

she asked me back "what should i do if he calling me again?"

i answered " u can choose not ot pick up."

she "he will call back again ge mah"

me "ya lor..... tat y i say i nothing i can do and nothing i can say" "it ur decision to receive the call or not"

then she silent....

my question is.... for girls...am i wrong that request her receive that guy call?

I also got request telling him that she got bf and dont call her anymore? but she seem havent tell that guy about she got bf

I dont know what should i do now....should react "open minded" (tai fong) and let them chat?

or do u all have any other advice for me?

i dont want arguement with her esspecially for these week.... just beginning already start arguement..... haizzz.....

thanks.....

Proton Saga Air cond problem

secretive — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 23:07:17 +0800

My car Proton Saga Iswara 1.3L
when i travelling for long distance
at first the air cond is very cold...then when driving about 2-3 hours nonstop
the air cond fan like not working..... the more i drive, the less air blowing out
i only can hear the air cond's engine(is that call engine? ) sound noisy only
but i still can feel the cool.....just no enough blowing out

i already service my air cond and also change the switch for fan and temperature
i also change the temperature sensor already
but still the same.....

this month i need drive to Ipoh for wedding dinner and also fetching some girls
anyone got any idea what happen causing this problem?

thanks for your help ...sorry for my english

Change Proton Iswara Horn

secretive — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 16:17:58 +0800

Anyone can give me some direction to change my horn?
i driving Proton Iswara Aeroback.
i got a free Bosch horn for free from my friend
but i dont know how to change it.
please help..... thank you
million million thank you

Dance with female colleague

secretive — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 09:37:19 +0800

last night, i hang out with 3 of my colleague. she is single and i was single too. we a bit drunk and high. so when she dancing in front of me. she put her hand on my shoulder. so i put my hand on her waist also. then after a while she turn bac and dancing also. i hug from her back.

do u think i and her will become a topic in office if either one of my colleague say it out to others???

cos in office i look like very guai chai.. didnt talk much with other......

your opinion needed

secretive — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 10:31:09 +0800

I'm currently chasing a girl, she is my colleague but different dept. she also know that i'm chasing her but she telling me that she looking for husband and ask me not to come to her (which i think she not interest on me) . she 26 and i 25, yesterday we hang out together with her best friend. 3 of us go to watch movie and she sit beside me. when the movie till the middle, she laying her head on my shoulder. what this mean? are she hinting out that i still got chance or she just wanna laying her head only?