http://forum.lowyat.net/ Tue, 10 Nov 2026 00:27:27 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/812947 Dear Fyi,<br /><br />i have a serious problem with my gf.Rather than just talking i love her,i more to get valuable advice from all of you(love expert).i know my gf from a friends. Then her elder sister also add me and try to joint me and my current gf.firstly,we have a lot pf topic to chat and quite sweet.but in the long term.i feel like we have a lot of distance between each other.Anyway,last time i quite egoistic but i started to change dy.but her egoistic is more terrible than me.(from my view).below are the problem i face:<br /><br />1.actually she don like my way of talking and everytime chatting thru phone,must say bye bye.(strictly cant miss it).if i miss it, i will been scolded like a doggie. Hwever,stm u really got urgent thing or what,u unintentionly closed it without bye bye.So. i also not the person who talking loudly like ah beng.my surrounded friends also not complaining my way of talking.she always say that my slang.s However,i try to adopt to her style of talking.<br /><br />2.She have a strict family.her mother don&#39;t let her out when in her hometown.she claim that she need to accompany her brother study.she even cannot answer handphone or sms because her mother say not good for health. So, her mother will confiscate her handphone away.(this is what she told me and i never seen it before)<br /><br />3.she study E&amp;E.so a lot of guy friends.for me, i sure a little bit jeolous.she can go her guy friend there study for 1 week and never go back her home.does it weird.she claim that got other gurl friends also.i ask whether their bf not mind.she say their gf even dint say anything.izzit nowadays guy dont mind their gf staying at guy house even bathing at guy house?we both are seldom can hang out together,but everytime she hang out with me,she keep on smsing even at home. the msg sound very iritated and i ask her when with me,less smsing can anot.she say while i sms, i still can chat with you.and everytime,i chat with her, her phone rang again and make me no mood to continue chat.One more thing,she always chat with her guy friends like talking with bf(more sweet than me).i ask you can u dont talk like that,she say she always talk with them like that.i really no idea dy.am i over concern?if for u all guys, ur gf talkng like this with her friends in front of you ,you will mind?<br /><br />4.Recently,she always go that same guy hse.stm overnite.she say claim that other gurl also aorund.Do their bf really not mind their gf always staying at guy hse..?<br /><br />plz i need advice.i try to trust her but i seem a little bit over for me.what u guy think...?am i too overacted and concern..?thankz you all 1st.<br /> andychung Cupid&#39;s Corner Thu, 09 Oct 2008 21:14:16 +0800