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What she think?

nightshade86 — Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:30:09 +0800

For the one never touch or follow up my stories, ill make it simple

1) Started to court this gal last 8month.
2) Did chat through phone quite long, always is asking her life, she asking my past life
3) Confess to her on valentine day but fail...answer doesnt know me well
4) She study over-sea, so i fly to her place to c her competition, ends up like a doll at there for 2 days cause shes busy, but the next day we go c sunset....(romantic?? dunno also)
5) Came back did sms and call her, but the conversation i dunno how to continue, so mstly is im the 1 hang up......(dunno why infront or talk to her, im like cant speak out...did happen also when we walk near to beach)
6) but ast week, i send a "luv luv message" but the meaning is to delete all the luv to know the content...so im not sure she get it or not. After that, i sms her no reply...SAD
7) Yesterday MSN her, she did reply. And below is the conversation:-
[B]Me "busy isit? if so dun 1 bother u".
Her "yes, doing assignment, wanna chat , chat la"
Me : "if u busy dun 1 bother u lo"<------- i change my display message to "If u think i got no chance at all, tell me or give a hints then ill let go"
Her :"then dun chat"
Me : "lol, y so mean"
Her : "cause i kenot tahan u, very poh ma"
Her : " i say ady ma, can chat u still ask that and this. if i im busy sure will not reply u"
Me : "K then. Roger that" <-------------- Change display message "So the answer is no, then i know what to do ady"
Her : "Look like u still dun understand. u look blur "
Me : "ya im blur since i take the 1st step. like step into a big hole that doenst invited me"
Her : "Huh?"
Me : "ntg la, so hows ur life..assignment, assignment and assignment?"
Her : "ya, u le?"
Me : "after back from over-sea, busy with work, research and work"
Her : " Then good la...should focus on ur career"
Me : "got career but no one to share also no use.. "
Her : "u talking about me izit?"
Me : "no la, dun think too much. Concentrate on ur study"
(still long way but end for now)

So what do u gals things after the conversation? she totally no feel towards me or give me chance? I myself also confuse with her reply and etc...and i purposely change my display message to tell her indirectly what i think....

Advice PLEASE

Izit just normal or can go for it?

nightshade86 — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 15:12:48 +0800

For any1 did follow up my stories, i did say going to find her at Oversea.....
I did go but on the last day, we go out and eat then, she ask me wanna go c sunset since so near....we did go and watch the sunset together, but wat she thinking now? izit normal only or wat?

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Diary-all ur feeling because of missing her

nightshade86 — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 15:53:48 +0800

Did u guys ever started a diary just to write watever u feel towards a gal in it..the 1st time u meet her, till now???all about ur feeling towards her, how u all hang out, fun or not, and etc.........

CAUSE IM FEELING LIKE STARTED 1...LOL

if ady confess but

nightshade86 — Sat, 16 Feb 2008 09:53:29 +0800

Guyz, Cont old story..... After i confess to her, she say she doesnt know me very well..need time....?. So now, i dunno wat should i do....
Sms her like last time i do?or 2-3day sms 1 time??cause shes going to over-sea next week...wat we can keep in touch is by sms or call only..maybe MSN.......

im Confuse

nightshade86 — Thu, 14 Feb 2008 11:14:04 +0800

.......

Since is too long ady....i Just shorten it.....(too many viewer complain)

1) I know this gal 3yrs+ ago...but recently around 3mth+ only started to keep in touch back (cause of some misunderstood) but the 1st time know her i ady wan go for it, but that time shes not available....

2) Recently contact her back, i often sms at 1st, then she nvr reply and the next time reply give reason y never reply...but i never ask y she nvr reply.....the reason is she say busy so lazy reply, then she say she prefer talking then smsing....(izit means wan me 2 call?)...after that when she reply my sms, i call her directly....sometime 5-10min....then got 1 time 1hours+ and latest 1, 2hours+......

3) at 1st, all her frens though shes single, n thats y i show obvious move, and ends up i got to know she got a BF, but their communication is less ady...the male keep give reason like busy and etc....so she also use 2 it ady. she say got BF like no BF but she still wan that relationship wif that male....then i ask her if some1 come n confess 2 u "i luv u", she reply me c whos that guy 1st.....

4) on her last birthday on december, i got send her pendant as a gift and she wear it the next time i met her.....maybe is just normal la wearing the thing people give.....but i dunno wat she think la...

5) So on valentine, i got send her card + present...i nvr give flower cause all not so nice, so i create my own present, do message bottle and some stuff la.all i wanna say n feel towards her is inside the message bottle but there is still alot empty 1...so depends on when she will open n read it (or maybe she will not read it)

6) But if she nvr open n read it, means i got to make a move by next week or another 3mth cause shes going back uni 2 study....

Conclusion, i dunno wat that gal think and i dunno should make confess cause the time we together is not very long...i means hang around together not so long...just sms and call only.....

Ur advice is appreciated.....