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1.67m - Is there any hope in life?

PerfectWorld — Tue, 27 Sep 2016 14:58:30 +0800

I am a guy in the height of 1.67m..
Everywhere I go,, i see dudes taller than me... Even having said that, girls are also mostly (50%) taller than me.

Is there any hope in life - to get a girl

As they say, the guy has to be taller than the girl... How can the short guy date a taller girl...

30 years old - is there really no hope in life

PerfectWorld — Mon, 21 Dec 2015 00:46:20 +0800

Looking over fb profiles these days, as you turn thirty, you start to see all your exes, friends, colleagues, relatives, and everything finding their better halves and / or married.

90% of them attached, 9% married, out of which 70% of them are ABOUT to get married.

Also, these days, so many girls, especially if they are pretty a little, gets attached or taken by the speed of light.

Its as if facebook has ruined our era on chances and opportunities. NO single girls who are pretty will remain single past the age of 25.
Hence, the 1% that are not married are, either, terrible looking, having HIV, or, a lesbian.

So, question is, is there still hope for us guys who turned 30 amd still single?

or are we all destined to die a happy death, just being alone.

Either way, no girls will read this anyway? So maybe just opinions of dudes who are attached may help.

Is life over?

No sarcastic remarks or puns just for fun pls. Do hope for comstructive feedbacks only. Thanks.

Do girls hate guys who watch animes?

PerfectWorld — Sun, 27 Jan 2013 02:06:47 +0800

Hi all,

on the topic above - i was just wondering?

Is it true?

Is it some kind of big turnoff if guys say they watch anime.

Sinking slowly

PerfectWorld — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 18:32:58 +0800

All,

I wonder there are times when you experience rejection from all areas of your life.

And I also wonder what is God showing me when I am going thru all these.

Nothing in my life seems perfect..

Rejected by the girl i like,

f***ed up by boss and colleagues in the office,

No family life,

Alone all the time,

No friends,

What on earth is God trying to play with me?

Am I forced to accept whatever I don't like

and put up with what God plans for me?

I am always very, very kind to everyone I know.. and I never say no to anything that anyone asks of me.

but all the time I only get shooting that I am this and I am that.

I never scold people, I never offend anyone.

It is just me being offended all the time, but I kept it in.

And the next reply from this post might most probably be "Whiner" any way.

If there is one thing that I can wish for this Christmas, that is Happiness - and everyone will at least smile at me for once.
- Genuinely.

Tears every day, with no tomorrow.

-Sinking slowly-

the cruel world

PerfectWorld — Sun, 11 Nov 2012 10:45:08 +0800

When there exist a girl in a community,,

If she is lenglui, nice and kind,

Every guy wants..

If she is not lenglui, not as friendly,,

Nobody wants..

For a perfect girl with all the right attitudes,

Even if is a split second's delay from a guy, she's gone.. Taken..
Coz there are so many fast guys in this world.

Not even a second for me to lift my finger and she is gone.

I wonder why this rat race must exist.

Inspiration, just wondering.

PerfectWorld — Fri, 07 Sep 2012 06:18:34 +0800

Hi all,

Just wondering on this suddenly, I am a 6th grader in Theory, 7th Grader in Practical (Piano) - ABRSM, Associated Boards of the Royal Schools of music.

I have been abandoning piano for some time, but ever since I have begun any ways, I realised that I am just following the syllabuses only,

I lack the skills for listening / playing by ear, as some of my friends can do it very well.

But lately, I desire to continue up to degree level and finish the ABRSM course.

But, despite completing the ABRSM course, I feel that I still lack something., that is the power of playing by ear. This is not taught in the ABRSM course usually...

I am aiming to teach.

Can I make it?

Thanks.
-Eugene-

Friendships

PerfectWorld — Tue, 21 Aug 2012 05:14:59 +0800

Hi all,

Just wondering what a friend is all about.

Why do we keep them, and what does it mean to really be a friend?

When we age, as we proceed further in life, none of us can deny the use of friends.

It is something that is necessary, we cannot live without friends.

But, however - what is a true friend all about?

I am working in a multi-national company, and I am always a go-getter, planner for things.
However, I feel sometimes that friends around me are using me for the money and convenience and a lot of things.

Because I have a car, and many of them don't, so I have to be a taxi driver (F.O.C. one) for them...

Not only that, but they always select their own timing for things - as in they want only their convenience for anything.

But it is me who really needs friends, I wonder why it is so hard to find real true friends close to you when you really need them..

Everyone is so picky and fussy with their time, while I can sacrifice virtually anything to make time for friendships.

I thought / reflected about this and I found that most probably I am very lonely and always want people to be around. They all have great families, surrounded by many networks.
During holidays, their contacts will be full of messages asking them out, and when they are off, they will have something or someone to accompany them in something.
When they get home everyday, their house is full of hustle and bustle of people - siblings of all sorts, parents chatter, aunties, uncles, relatives, etc.

I don't have them - I am a single child, which is not even close to cousins and relatives are all very far away.

High school friends all seem distant, and my last four relationships broke up in ugly manners.

It is just so, so hard to make friends - constructive, beneficial, healthy, relationships.

I'm at the foot of decisions that makes me need to take extra measures to get simple pleasures that everybody has.

Do you have a best friend?

How to show a girl love

PerfectWorld — Thu, 26 Jul 2012 16:24:02 +0800

Hi all,

I was given 5 minutes yesterday night to show a girl that I love her a lot.

I don't know what else to do except to hug her tight, and just kiss her. (but that didn't work)

How can we as a guy tell a girl that she means A lot, a lot, a lot.. and that she means the whole world to me?

- Eugene

Afraid that I'm giving her hope.

PerfectWorld — Wed, 02 May 2012 10:20:45 +0800

Hi all,

I recently met a girl online, and we started dating and hanging out.

The problem is, she looks totally different as she is online, its as if the picture posted online is a completely different person (Camera angle, perfect lighting, perfect dressing)
- Must say was a bit disappointed...

Problem is, she liked me the instant we met, but I disliked it - the inverse effect when we were chatting online (Me interested in her, she no interest in me)

Haven't been official or anything (yet), but since its like that, must I stop seeing her completely?

Can we still hang out as frens, only?

Dunno how to pop the question, afraid she'll b hurt.

26 and still single

PerfectWorld — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 02:53:45 +0800

Hi all,

I am unsure if this at all breaks the rules / guidelines on this forum, as I am new here (first time posting anything, kind of) so hence inform me if I have / had broken anything.

Ok first of all, I am 26 year old, guy, who is but frustrated with this life.

I am charming (with reference to many who has commented), loving, ready to help, jealous (at times), working wif a stable income, very independent, and willing to sacrifice lots for any friends.

Had 3 exes, all of which thought me some important lessons and I have learned myself to remove them.

All of them were rebound cases (in which the girl side has just broken up, and then later, out of desperation, came to me as a guardian angel, I was there, as a temporary "shoulder" - in which, they have actually gotten back to their exes after 1 year or two)
- The last one in which has just ended, was LDR (long-distanced), and with her showing no interest to meet me at all, I decided to end it up.

After all those years, I have sat back and thinking, why / what is wrong and how can I ever have a perfect one.

Recently there were a few who are interested in me but all those are aunties.
- Either that or, very, very, horridly looking.

I am just a very simple guy, whom many has said is good looking, but not very very handsome as I will be bragging myself, Just average, inspirational, nice, and willing to sacrifice for others and I do not have high demands for any types of girl.

I mix around a lot, hang out a lot, love to go for events, and enjoy meeting new people.
I succeed in my career, socially, and professionally.

And all I want is just a nice, loving, peaceful, average-looking girl.
Just somebody to love.

But I don't know why it is so hard.