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Cant sleep after watchin this..

[eXorCist] — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 00:00:45 +0800

Comic

If you guys want the full story, let me know.. i will post the follow up here.

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NOt sure is virus or malware.

[eXorCist] — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 12:34:16 +0800

I currently am using window xp. You see, my comp recently has been infected with some kind of virus/malware. Where popup will keep appearing, and when i see the processes that is running in the background.. there is this 'ojofec.exe' that is multiplying and i cant even end its process.. ANyone know what should i do?

Passion in music.

[eXorCist] — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 15:17:07 +0800

Got a question to all the musician sifu here. How to differentiate those songs into pop/ R&B / ballad / country music and etc. Sometimes i wanna categorise my song but i dono what type of music it is. So, got any tips to help me do tat?

Late Night Stories Group

[eXorCist] — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 01:34:08 +0800

Come share any of your ghostly encounters here.

Actually have u all heard a very old story? A guy riding a motorbike met a girl. He saw the girl was all alone in the bus stop and look kind of cold and scared. Being a good heart person, he went and ask her why was she loitering so late in the night.

The girl wanted a lift back home. SO the guy was nice enough to send her home. When she got one the motor, he felt the girl was shivering cold. So, he gave his jacket to her and successfully gave her a ride home.

Next day, he realised he forgot bout his jacket.. Then, he went back the house only to hear from the mom that the girl has actually died few months back. The guy didnt believe, so the girl's mom brought him to her graveyard only to find his jacket on top of her tomb.

The guy tat got too scared and fall sick and died 3 months later.

Real story!

Other stories

Hi /k, ur professional judgment is needed again.

[eXorCist] — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 02:17:20 +0800

[YOUTUBEwide]MCCmY5It7CE[/YOUTUBEwide]

Do you think they are real? most of this photos are taken during the time when there is no photochopped software.

[WTB] buy ipad 2

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

dear /k, urgent need an answer

[eXorCist] — Tue, 05 Jul 2011 18:17:56 +0800

Anyone know whether lowyat has ipad 2 white colour 32gb wifi/3g?
If got need wait how long to get it?
Dowan wait too long one.. ><

Help me judge real or fake, dear /k

[eXorCist] — Thu, 30 Jun 2011 00:52:53 +0800

[YOUTUBEwide]2EnyqbYvrzU[/YOUTUBEwide]

[Guide] Overcome loneliness

[eXorCist] — Mon, 20 Jun 2011 12:45:34 +0800

We often are alone in life. Some people even experience loneliness, or the feeling of isolation, even among larger groups of people. And, on the flip side, other people have no problem spending hours in isolation without feeling even slightly lonely. Our needs to connect with other people, animals, and experiences vary. However, the key word here is connect. If we feel disconnected, we experience loneliness.

The other side of loneliness is rejection. Rejection may come from a job, or a friend who no longer wants to be friends, or in the most painful of forms in a romantic partner who does not feel the same way about us as we feel about them. Rejection often is simply another partner stating that the fit is not appropriate. But, either way, it may hurt to be rejected and may also cause feelings of being disconnected; therefore, experiencing a feeling of loneliness.

Both loneliness and rejection cause a feeling of being disconnected that leads to feeling sad, alone, not "good enough", or even depression or despair. These feelings and reactions are part of human psychology. These feelings also lead to a certain amount of dissatisfaction and lower our overall happiness and ability to succeed. Yet, it is not necessary to remain in those states. WE DO control our state more than we often recognize. The cure for either of these problems, from my personal experience and in coaching other people, is a matter of adjustment to the perspective which we hold that creates the feelings of loneliness. There are also concrete actions we can take to resolve these feelings.

So, I've built a list to follow whenever I feel I'm in that state, as a reminder to the state that is empowering and leads to higher success in relationships. You may find it useful to you in your own pursuit of continual happiness.

1. What do I believe about me?

Often times, when I feel rejected or lonely, I am accepting a belief that I am not a great person, or that I don't offer much or attract what I want. Being great, offering the world a lot, and being attractive is actually a state of mind as much as reality. The key here is to say "I'm a great person!" and "I can and do attract what I want." In reframing this state, right off the bat, we start to focus on loving our own self first, which is key before we can ever attract the love or state we wish to attract. It begins in our own self! The key message here is: YOU ARE LOVED!

2. If feeling rejected, then the following statement also helps to repeat: "I'm a fun, exciting, terrific catch" and "I'm a worthy partner and people love me!" Again, this is reframing rejection to acceptance and love. Did you know that the average human body contains enough energy over a lifetime that, framed in recent financial value, equals $81 Billion dollars. Last I checked, that's a lot of money. Money is energy. Therefore, our energy is HIGHLY valuable. The key message here is: YOU ARE GREAT and VALUED!

3. Think of the positive things people have said to you in your past. I keep a positive statement journal any time someone says something I find positive about my character. This is a good time to review that list. The gist of my own personal list comes out to accolades like "you're the wisest man I know," and "you're the fun guy!" and "you've inspired me more than you know," and so on. So, keep a positive statement journal. Then, in times when you need a pick-me-up, you'll see all the great ways you contribute to other people's lives, and realize that you are indeed making a difference in the world. Key message here is: YOU MATTER TO OTHERS!

4. It is possible that rejection or being alone is simply part of your path in this present human existence. What I mean is, that perhaps any of the tough times we go through have been given to us to prove that our FAITH is GENUINE. When people lose hope and faith, they look down, and stop believing first in God, second in themselves, third in others. We may lose faith in God because we fail to see how God is active in our own lives. We may lose faith in our self because we feel as if we failed at something. We may lose faith in others because people don't live up to our expectations or break their word with us. Having no faith is a state that leads to unhappiness. If you want to be happier, rediscover your faith. The best way to do that is to LOOK UP! That's right, look up. I have a friend who plays drums at my church and he likes to say "look up and show your teeth to God!" meaning: look up and smile! I like the idea, as it is impossible to consistently feel down if you're looking up and smiling. Keep in mind that it truly is our own EXPECTATION of certain things that problem wasn't met that created the feelings we experience. Therefore, if we alter the expectation, we can alter the resulting feeling. A way to reframe an expectation is to simply RELEASE expectation. This is what unconditional love is all about. Being nice without expectation of ANYTHING in return. To give so freely is the essence of love. And, believe it or not, love helps us rediscover faith. It starts with the first step, the first action. The key idea here is: HAVE FAITH IN GOD, HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF, HAVE FAITH IN OTHERS.

5. Another part of altering our perception of being "down" is to simply not give it the time of day. In the movie and book "Gone With The Wind", the lead character, Scarlett O'Hara often found herself in difficult situations or in situations that could have made her feel negative or in despair. Rather than accept that state, she'd always say, "I don't have time for that today, I'll just think about that tomorrow." The idea is: tomorrow never matters as much as today matters. The counter expression to that concept is an expression I learned in sales, "some do, some don't, NEXT!" There is also the thought that "tomorrow is a new day" so whichever of these works for you, use it.

In my own life, I chose to write down the following: "I don't have time to think about disappointment, loss, worry, lack, pain, sorrow, lust, sadness, greed, envy, hatred, rejection, or any other negative or perceived evil. Instead, I will focus on the counter of these: happiness, gain, calm, health, fulfillment, love, acceptance, appreciation, and other such things."

The key to this perception is: recognize that YOU CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS. HOW WE THINK CONTROLS HOW WE ACT AND FEEL.

6. In the same line of thinking, try this: "My thoughts ARE and CAN overcome ALL sense of failure, loss, or negative, transforming them to success, gain, fun, joy, excitement, success, and love." The key here is to not allow negative room to capture your thoughts. In keeping your thoughts on the positive, you will create happier and more positive states. Remember this phrase:

"In the morning, there is joy." What defines us is how we act and exist through those circumstances. We can choose the action and how we exist more than we give ourselves credit. The key to joy is: KNOW ALL CIRCUMSTANCES CHANGE. HOW WE ACT IS WHAT DEFINES US.

7. In order to create more happy states, we need to create a mindset of celebration. Most people celebrate holidays (honoring special acts and achievements), birthdays (honoring other people we love), weddings (honoring other people we love), and so forth. Isn't it possible to find something to celebrate every day? Don't we feel happy and excited during celebrations? Personally, I decided to celebrate the wind, sunrises and sunsets, ocean waves, trees, rain, and fog. This enables me to find something to celebrate each and every day. How do we feel when we celebrate? For me, I want to be happy, loved, and successful making a difference with my life. I want to dance, play music, make love, and celebrate life. The key here is: CELEBRATE WHAT YOU LOVE! CELEBRATIONS ARE THE ACTS OF HAPPY PEOPLE.

8. Some words to not result in success. For example, wishing and trying for things indicate an underlining worry that it will require "luck" to make it so. In eastern philosophy, you often come across ideas such as George Lucas borrowed with the character Yoda in Star Wars: "There is no try. There is only do, or not do." Replace "I wish" and "I'll try" with "I do" or "I am" and see how this enables more positive momentum. The key here is: RIGHT ACTION STARTS WITH RIGHT THOUGHT. THINK IN A WAY THAT LEADS TO RIGHT ACTION.

9. When we feel rejected or lonely, we are often not living according to our own internal guidelines, ethics, beliefs, or morals. Are you taking a stand for what you believe in? If not, you're out of power. Sometimes, we need a reality check. If we are to be "in integrity", then we must stand for and follow the actions we believe in the most. The key here is: BE IN INTEGRITY WITH YOURSELF and OTHERS WILL BE IN INTEGRITY WITH YOU.

10. Sometimes, it is valuable to look back. This is why I keep that positive statement journal. One thing that people have said to me in the past is that I am a trustworthy friend. That means a lot to me. I know that I have personally helped and "been there" for countless people. I've loved people deeply and influenced so many people in a positive way. What ways have you "been there" for people? The key in looking back is to know that YOU MATTER TO OTHERS VERY MUCH.

11. Along with faith, hope is often lacking with we feel lonely or rejected. A way to recognize hope is to recognize that we can manifest when we are in integrity. Here's a mantra I developed for creating more hope: "I believe in my abilities to realize and manifest what I set my mind on."

If you lack hope, you lack a view of the future. A way to create a view of the future is to create mind maps, linking inter-related ideas until you can see the interconnectedness of your actions. Then, extend those maps to goals on things you wish to do, how you wish to be, and what you want from your existence. With new goals, as you begin to manifest more and more, your hope for the future will grow as you realize that your faith in God, your self, and others, manifests in positive results. The key here is to HAVE HOPE FOR A POSITIVE OUTCOME EACH DAY.

12. When we are alone, lonely, or rejected, we often do not feel that anyone is with us. According to the Bible and other religious texts, no matter where we are, God is within us. Therefore, no matter what our state, we are NEVER alone! Whether obvious or silent, carrying, prodding, and shepherding us through challenges is the great force of conscious energy seeing us through our challenges. The key here is to recognize: WE HAVE A PARTNER IN GOD.

13. Another challenge for some people is having someone or something to care for, such as a pet. I recently experienced a loss when my cat, Maggie, disappeared one night and did not return. Maggie and I became good pals over the past twelve years, and she saw me through many fun and exciting times. Maggie hung out with me when I'd work on this website, read a book, or just other times. She slept on my bed most nights. Maggie was very smart and intuitive. Sometimes Maggie helped me through sad times, too, where having my furry friend to hold and purr and make me feel better was all I needed for comfort. I miss Maggie, but some day will get a new kitten when I am ready and will fill that place for my own life. In the meantime, I go to the animal shelter and pet the kittens there to offer them some love and care. I also play with my parent's dog, Hans. What pets do you have? Caring for a pet is often the missing piece in feeling complete and happy -- especially if you are single. The key idea here is: CARE FOR OTHERS, INCLUDING PETS, AND YOU WILL NOT FEEL ALONE. Also, pets accept us pretty easily for who we are.

14. Another key is to remember the spice of life: LOVE and LAUGHTER. The way to more love and laughter is to give, to share with others, to be kind, smiling, and creating good vibes to laugh at the silly and wacky things that happen in our lives, to play, to enjoy each other and situations, to create, to believe, to reach for ASPIRATIONS in life and then MAKE THEM SO!

You know, we often don't need to be legends to be successful. We also don't have to be accepted by everyone we meet. We can create what we want in life. We just need and want to love and be loved. YOU ARE LOVED! So, GO FOR IT! Get what you want out of life and be the person you were born to be.

P.S. - I personally found this quite helpful to me. After suffering from the rejection, it took me about a year to get over it. As now when i read this, a lot of it make sense. Anyway, just hope this article could help some of you all out dere. DONT give up, LOVE yourself or you dont not deserve to be loved by others!

Really funny joke i just read.

[eXorCist] — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 18:12:08 +0800

One day, a couple decided to create a new facebook account. So, they are required to enter a password in doing so. The husband thought it would be funny to put "penis" as the password. AFter he press enter, the wife laugh histerically because the computer reply him this.

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ahahahahahaa.

Window 7 Theme for XP

[eXorCist] — Wed, 09 Mar 2011 15:33:44 +0800

As stated in the title, any pro can guide me to do that? I trying to do that but i scared it may corrup my computer files.

P.s - Sorry for making new thread. I try searching but cant find any threads on this. ><

Wifi problem

[eXorCist] — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 12:21:27 +0800

Not sure whether there is any thread about this around, but i been having problem with my iphone wifi connectivity lately. I was able to detect the wireless i intended. There was a tick next to it.. But when i try to browse for any website... there would be an error stating that i am not connected to any internet connection. anyone know what problem it is?

btw its IP4

Query on Prices and Specification

[eXorCist] — Wed, 06 Oct 2010 00:56:46 +0800

Hi, may i know when is the right time to buy a laptop. You know, when the new processor laptop are launched and the old model will drop price. May anyone tell me when will it be?

CIMB assignment topic

[eXorCist] — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 21:28:19 +0800

Hey, as mentioned in the above title...i am currently doing a reserach on CIMB group on the whole..Can anyone me out especially on their marketing strategies (4P's)

Video License 3.0

[eXorCist] — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 14:37:46 +0800

Hey, i just downloaded a movie via bit comet...

and when i tried to play it, a message pop out saying that i have to download video license 3.0 in order to view this video...

so, anyone has the link to download it? and izit free where i can watch the movie after i download and install that video license 3.0?

CPU not starting

[eXorCist] — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 23:15:21 +0800

As stated above, my desktop cant start and it gave this sound when starting, "toot toot,.....toot(8X). Anyone know how to solve this problem. I was using it fine until it suddenly hang. So i restarted it and the problem started.

Customizing Vista Sidebar

[eXorCist] — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 17:22:43 +0800

as stated in the title, can anyone teach me how i can customize my vista sidebar to look nicer. The current theme i see until sien liao. Hope got pros can give me a little hand. XD

p.s = sry for opening a new thread on this. I cant seem to find my answers using the search function.

Opening PDF file using firefox

[eXorCist] — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:50:10 +0800

As title said, i recently upgraded my adobe pdf reader to version 8. The problem is now that whenever i use mozilla firefox to open a new pdf file, i get 'failed to launch acrobat' msg, anyone can help me solve this?

MSN live messeger theme

[eXorCist] — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 22:24:58 +0800

Can anyone teach me how to change my msn live messenger theme?

About changing Logon Screen

[eXorCist] — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 16:35:48 +0800

Hey, i just logonxp file from deviant art. Now the problem is, wad do i do from here to change my logon screen.
Sry for creating a new topic cuz i couldnt search for a thread that can solve my problem.