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Hold someone's hand when u r crossing road

stacial — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 16:50:23 +0800

Hi everyone =D
I would like to know about the following questions..

Guy :
Do you hold your friend's hand (girl) when u r crossing the road with her? dare ma?
How do you feel & wats ur reaction if a girl hold your hand when she is crossing the road with u?

Girl :
Do you hold your friend's hand (guy) when u r crossing the road with him? depends on who is guy first ? lol..
How do you feel & wats ur reaction if a guy hold your hand when he is crossing road with u?

Thanks!

Yesterday noon when me & my funny cute friend were crossing the bz road sumwhere in KL, i held his hand when we crossed the road.

Friend : Silly , suddenly i felt u r so 'gentleman' , this is the first time girl hold my hand when crossing the road.
Me : Hello boss! u never hear of holding ppl's hand when crossing the road is a good manners ? u r lucky today hou mou .... *laugh*
Friend : Hou lor, im the luckiest one. But u r lucky oso ok, got handsome guy's hand for u to hold. *laugh*. Hey silly , now only i know that your hand is actually so soft one . *laugh*
Me : Oooii oooiii oooiii... enuff lor u .. next time dunwan to hold your stupid hand jor , talk so much .
Friend : Jangan la marah.. later lunch all on me k ! Ehhhh, not bad huh... next time i should be a gentleman hold ppl's hand when crossing the road .. good manners huh . learn from miss stacial one.
Me : Ya la ya la... very de MAN la.. haha..

Ready to be the winner?

stacial — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 16:26:16 +0800

If you are someone who is

-have got humour,cheerful,fun and friendly personality
-positive , mature and presentable
-have interest in horoscopes / fengshui
-a fan of Jay Chou

Next , impress me with your best answers

1) Are you confident to sell a Sony Ericsson hp to a Nokia manager? How?
2) Where do you expect to be 20 years from now? What are your strengths and weaknesses?
3) How gentleman and mature are you when come into love? How do you rank love ?

A winner who is able to impress me with best answers , i am keen on to know you . A drink for you too . my treat.

*No asking for posting picture as this is not a thread searching for life partner. Just looking forward for good answers from intelligent forummers here. Just join if you have full of good ideas / answers *

deadline : to be confirmed

Try your luck ! Thank you & Peace !

Make up

stacial — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 18:31:48 +0800

Hello handsome&pretties!

Well, i guess we all know there are girls
i) still look great eventhough never make up (make up will make them look prettier , but if without make up they still look great)
ii) look great only after make up ( before & after make up are so much different)

here,my fren said he likes a girl.he dated this girl a few times, everytime they went to date, the girl will make up very nicely. (foundation,fake eyeslash,color contact lens,eyebrows touch up,lip gloss) . juz like a little princess. yesterday, me and my fren went to pasar malam (nite market) then what a coincidence we met the girl at there oso. he was kinda shock that he cant really recognize the girl (the girl never make up that time).

fren : so so different geh ..
me : aiyo, u banyak complain . when gal make up, u say so much of thing , when gal never make up, u oso wana say so much of thing.
fren : no la , juz feel surprise oni. the power of make up.. geng!
me : kanasai la u. u dun tell me that u wana change ur decision not to go after her after seeing her juz now. gal make up juz to look good
feel more confident oni ma, you should appreciate the gal effort k . if no make up, oso dun complain la, dun u know wat is natural beauty.
fren : no la . do i look like that type of person.
me : ya, you r ! haha

Sometimes when gals make up, guys wana complain .. y make up so much
Sometimes when gals dun make up, guys oso wana complain.. y never make up..

Yeah, there are guys who prefer gal with make up & there are guys who prefer gal without make up..
which one are you ?

Who u wana date with?

stacial — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 16:37:39 +0800

There are a lot of good women out there, even though it's not always easy to find them. Here's a list of women with traits you should actively look for and that would make any guy happy

Miss Sweet

Miss Sweet is a woman who's positive, content with her life, always upbeat and just a blast to be around. She's a genuine person without a b!tch bone in her body. She's always truly happy to see you and you find yourself looking forward to spending time with her. Miss Sweets are usually snapped up out of the dating market right away, so they're pretty rare. But if you can find one, you've got a real treasure on your hands.

Miss Equality

This type of woman is a true feminist not one of the radical man-haters, or the hypocritical pseudo-feminists who think that equality means "I demand equal rights and an equal salary, but a man still has to pay for me." The Miss Equalitys of the world genuinely like men, and understand that equality means equality across the board, from holding the door open to fighting on the front lines. They believe that a relationship should be a 50/50 partnership, and are more than willing to shoulder their half of the responsibilities and dating expenses just because it's the right thing to do.

Miss Sexual

You should be so lucky to encounter one of these! Miss Sexual loves men and loves sex and makes no bones about it. She's not selling it, she's not using it as a tool to manipulate men she just naturally craves it. For this reason, most other women hate her, because she's giving it away free of charge. But men love her because she's a free spirit who's actually honest about her sex drive. Very rare, but worth searching the ends of the earth for.

Miss Best Friend
Closely aligned with Miss Sweet, Miss Best Friend is another joy to be around. She's the kind of woman you're totally in sync with you like the same things, watch the same TV shows, enjoy going to the same places. You can spend five minutes with her and think you've known her for years. She's always on your side, laughs at all your jokes and calls you just to say "hi" because she genuinely misses you. She's great just to hang with. A word of warning, though with Miss Best Friend, you have to make your sexual interest known from day one because if she gets it into her head that you are going to be "just friends," it's almost impossible to change her mind.

Miss Straightforward

This is the type of woman who knows how to communicate. With Miss Straightforward, there are no games, no expecting men to be mind readers, no behavior based on ridiculous, female-biased advice from articles in Her World. Miss Straightforward will pick up the phone and ask you out. She will do what she says she will do not say one thing and do just the opposite. Although she may be blunt at times, at least you'll know where you stand and you'll never have to spend hours trying to decode contradictory or emotion-based female behavior.

Miss Independent

This is a good woman to find if you don't have a lot of time to invest in a relationship or you're the type of guy who needs a lot of space. Miss Independent has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She's the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn't need a man in her life. And she certainly isn't looking for men to solve all her problems or blame when things don't go her way.

Miss No Pressure

While many women are chomping at the bit to get married, Miss No Pressure hasn't fallen prey to any such agenda. She's happy just to be with you. So you don't get any "Where is our relationship going?" or hint-dropping about the future or window-shopping at the jewelry store. She may want to get married at some point, but she's in no hurry she thinks that if it happens, it will just happen naturally.

Miss Secure

Miss Secure accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad. And she feels the same about you. Miss Secure doesn't need constant attention to shore up a sagging ego, has tons of self-esteem and is always going in her own positive direction.

Miss Personality

Miss Personality is a great find. She might not be up for first prize in a beauty contest (although she could be), but her intelligence, wit and sparkling presence just light up the room, and she draws people like a magnet. Her personality is so charming that it easily overcomes any deficiencies she might have in the looks department, just because she's so great to be with.

Miss Low-Maintenance

The rarest of the rare, Miss Low-Maintenance is the most atypical of modern women. She really doesn't care about how much money you have she just likes you for yourself and not for what she can take from you. She's likely to be a true feminist, and will gladly pay her share of the dating expenses. If you can find a Miss Low-Maintenance, hang on to her for dear life!

Miss Right for You

A lot of guys choose women who are "arm candy" good-looking trophy girlfriends who bolster their status among other men or counteract their own insecurities. That's all well and good, but if you find a woman who makes you happy, regardless of looks, age or social status or what any other guy thinks then you have definitely won at the mating game.

So...
Dude : which one u like?

Babe : which one is u ?

Zodiacs kaki corner

stacial — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 01:41:56 +0800

Aries

Adventurous and energetic
Pioneering and courageous
Enthusiastic and confident
Dynamic and quick-witted

On the dark side...

Selfish and quick-tempered
Impulsive and impatient
Foolhardy and daredevil

LIKES
Action
Coming in first
Challenges
Championing Causes
Spontaneity

DISLIKES
Waiting Around
Admitting Failure
No opposition
Tyranny
Other peoples advice

The spring equinox, March 21, is the beginning of the new zodiacal year and Aries, the first sign, is therefore that of new beginnings. The young ram is adventurous, ambitious, impulsive, enthusiastic and full of energy. The Arian is a pioneer both in thought and action, very open to new ideas and a lover of freedom. They welcome challenges and will not be diverted from their purpose except by their own impatience, which will surface if they don't get quick results.

Aries subjects are courageous leaders with a genuine concern for those they command, being responsible people, it is rare that they will use their subordinates to obtain their own objectives as leaders, but occasionally it does happen. They do not make very good followers because they are too "take charge". They may be unwilling to obey or submit to directions for which they can see no reason, or with which they disagree. They are much concerned with self, both positively and negatively - self-reliant but also self centered (sometimes) and concerned with their own personal advancement and physical satisfaction. Their immense energy makes them aggressive and restless, argumentative occasionally, headstrong, quick tempered, easily offended and capable of holding grudges if they feel themselves affronted.

As the first sign in the zodiac, you, as an Arian (as you are referred to), is to simply "get something started and lead the way". The Sun in this zodiac position gives your will free rein to express itself. You could be doing this in the form of some leadership role, or by forcing others to look at themselves in a new way. You can accomplish this by knowingly carrying out a deliberate act in the name of some cause that moves you. A negative effect of this sun sign is that you could sometimes unknowingly make it hard for others to relate to you, as you really are.

In your personal relationships Arians are frank, direct and candid, and make enthusiastic and generous friends. You are liable to have a high sex drive and make passionate but fastidious lovers. There is, however, a negative side to your associations with other people. You can easily be irritated by slowness or moderation in your companions and, though yourselves sensitive, ride roughshod over the sensitivities of others. The intensity of your sexual urges can drive you to promiscuity and a Don Juan-like counting of conquests of the opposite sex. It can also trick you into early unwise marriage which may end disastrously. Arians are highly devoted to their children, even to the point of laying down their own lives, so that they might live. You will not find a more defensive and loving parent in all the zodiac.

It is preferable to be aware of your pioneering spirit and not disregard it. For in acknowledging it you not only enjoy life more, but you avoid being pushed around by others. Your nature is usually push or be pushed, with little middle ground. This can at times be objectionable to others, but you must have the freedom to act, rather then just thinking about it, getting pent-up in the process. At all costs you need to avoid negative emotions such as resentment, regret and self-pity, for they would deny you what is essential to your nature: straightforwardness.

Mentally Arians are intellectual and objective, but can be in rare situations bigoted and extremist in religion and politics. They are good champions of lost causes and last-ditch resistance. They are quick-witted but sometimes foolhardy and over optimistic, lacking thoroughness and the ability to evaluate difficulties in the undertakings into which they often rush impulsively. The great need of Aries natives is to exercise an iron self-control, to discipline the qualities and tendencies of their character to the advantage, not the detriment, of the society in which they move.

As an Arian, you like a challenge that will stir you to action. This challenge may just be frustration; or at a more controlled level, you may have clear direction and know what or whom you're fighting for. If your direction is not clear, then ask yourself and listen to your inner voice. You will come up with an answer. An Arian without a direction in which to go, or a without a cause to fight for, would be against your nature and make you more a "sheep" then a ram!

Arian, do not be afraid to be forceful, for this is the very core of your nature. If you feel fear in your heart, then look for a history of negative events in you personal history, such as violence or abuse from others. Being fearful may also indicate a household in childhood that negated independence and personal initiative in you. This could have inhibited your natural urge to go forward into life as the leader and champion you were born to be. Conversely, such bad influences could also have led you to be overly forceful, or to be unsympathetic to your own need and sensitivity.

You make good athletes and climbers, doctors, explorers (of new ideas as well as uncharted territory, the latter in these days including adventuring into outer space), soldiers, sailors and airmen, and leaders, though awkward subordinates, in industry and politics.

Much as you are the Ram, there is still the little lamb in you, which means that at times you would attain your goals more easily by gently giving in without resistance to the demands of a given social situation, rather than getting your horns entangled in something larger and more powerful than yourself. This is a talent akin to knowing the difference between what you can change, and what you cannot. This of course takes patience, the acquiring of which is definitely your greatest achievement, along with your sense of your own inner softness.

Taurus

Patient and reliable
Warmhearted and loving
Persistent and determined
Placid and security loving

On the dark side....

Jealous and possessive
Resentful and inflexible
Self-indulgent and greedy

LIKES
Stability
Being Attracted
Things Natural
Time to Ponder
Comfort and Pleasure

DISLIKES
Disruption
Being pushed too hard
Synthetic or "man made" things
Being rushed
Being indoors

The Taurean's characteristics are solidity, practicality, extreme determination and strength of will - no one will ever drive them, but they will willingly and loyally follow a leader they trust. They are stable, balanced, conservative good, law-abiding citizens and lovers of peace, possessing all the best qualities of the bourgeoisie. As they have a sense of material values and physical possessions, respect for property and a horror of falling into debt, they will do everything in their power to maintain the security of the status quo and be somewhat hostile to change.

Mentally, they are keen-witted and practical more often than intellectual, but apt to become fixed in their opinions through their preference for following accepted and reliable patterns of experience. Their character is generally dependable, steadfast, prudent, just, firm and unshaken in the face of difficulties. Their vices arise from their virtues, going to extremes on occasion,such as sometimes being too slavish to the conventions they admire.

On rare occasions a Taurean may be obstinately and exasperatingly self-righteous, unoriginal, rigid, ultraconservative, argumentative, querulous bores, stuck in a self-centered rut. They may develop a brooding resentment through nursing a series of injuries received and, whether their characters are positive or negative, they need someone to stroke their egos with a frequent, "Well Done!" Most Taureans are not this extreme though.

They are faithful and generous friends with a great capacity for affection, but rarely make friends with anyone outside their social rank, to which they are ordinarily excessively faithful. In the main, they are gentle, even tempered, good natured, modest and slow to anger, disliking quarreling and avoiding ill-feeling. If they are provoked, however, they can explode into violent outbursts of ferocious anger in which they seem to lose all self-control. Equally unexpected are their occasional sallies into humor and exhibitions of fun.

Although their physical appearance may belie it, they have a strong aesthetic taste, enjoying art, for which they may have a talent, beauty (recoiling from anything sordid or ugly) and music. They may have a strong, sometimes unconventional, religious faith. Allied to their taste for all things beautiful is a love for the good things of life pleasure, comfort, luxury and good food and wine and they may have to resist the temptation to over indulgence, leading to drunkenness, gross sensuality, and covetousness.

In their work, Taureans are industrious and good craftspeople, and are not afraid of getting their hands dirty. They are reliable, practical, methodical and ambitious, within a framework of obedience to superiors. They are at their best in routine positions of trust and responsibility, where there is little need of urgency and even less risk of change, and a pension at the end. Yet they are creative and good founders of enterprises where the rewards of their productiveness come from their own work and not that of others.
They can flourish in many different trades and professions: banking, architecture, building, almost any form of bureaucracy, auctioneering, farming, medicine, chemistry, industry Taureans make good managers and foremen surveying, insurance, education and, perhaps surprisingly, music and sculpture. They make an ideal trustee or guardian, and can attain eminence as a chef. Some Taureans are gifted enough in singing to become opera stars or to excel in more popular types of music.

They are more than averagely amorous and sensually self-conscious, but sexually straightforward and not given to experiment. They make constant, faithful, home loving spouses and thoughtful, kindly parents, demanding too much of neither their spouses nor children. They can be over possessive and may sometimes play the game of engineering family roles for the pleasure of making up the quarrel. If anyone offends their amour proper they can be a determined enemy, though magnanimous in forgiveness if their opponent makes an effort to meet them halfway.

No other sign in the zodiac is closer to earth then Taurus. The main objective in leading a Taurean life is primarily (though not entirely) to maintain stability and physical concerns. Your inner spiritual sense longs for earthly harmony and wholesomeness. When you fully understand this, and work toward this end, you will no longer need to blindly reassure yourself with external possessions and comforts. A realization that finding this inner peace will cause all of the above mentioned positive things will overtake you and your life will be very full.

Ultimately the Taurean needs to discover their truest, deepest and highest values. When they know what is truly valuable, they are no longer chained to people and to things that have to do with lesser values. The greatest indication of value to a Taurean is beauty, which cannot be owned, only appreciated.

Gemini

Adaptable and versatile
Communicative and witty
Intellectual and eloquent
Youthful and lively

On the dark side....

Nervous and tense
Superficial and inconsistent
Cunning and inquisitive

LIKES
Talking
Novelty and the unusual
Variety in life
Multiple projects all going at once
Reading

DISLIKES
Feeling tied down
Learning, such as school
Being in a rut
Mental inaction
Being alone

Gemini, the sign of the Twins, is dual-natured, elusive, complex and contradictory. On the one hand it produces the virtue of versatility, and on the other the vices of two-facedness and flightiness. The sign is linked with Mercury, the planet of childhood and youth, and its subjects tend to have the graces and faults of the young. When they are good, they are very attractive; when they are bad they are more the worse for being the charmers they are. Like children they are lively, and happy, if circumstances are right for them, or egocentric, imaginative and restless. They take up new activities enthusiastically but lack application, constantly needing new interests, flitting from project to project as apparently purposelessly as a butterfly dancing from flower to flower. To them life is a game which must always be full of fresh moves and continuous entertainment, free of labor and routine. Changing horses in the middle of the stream is another small quirk in the Gemini personality which makes decision making, and sticking to a decision, particularly hard for them.

Since they lack the quality of conscientiousness, they are apt to fight a losing battle in any attempts they make to be moral (in the widest sense of the word). Their good qualities are attractive and come easily to them. They are affectionate, courteous, kind, generous, and thoughtful towards the poor and suffering - provided none of the activities resulting from expressing these traits interferes too greatly with their own lives and comforts. They quickly learn to use their outward attractiveness to gain their own ends, and when striving for these they will use any weapon in their armory - unscrupulous lying, and cunning evasiveness; escaping blame by contriving to put it on other people, wrapped up in all the charm they can turn on. In their better moments they may strive to be honest and straightforward, but self-interest is almost always the victor. If things go against them, they sulk like children.
Also like children, they demand attention, admiration, and the spending on them of time, energy and money, throwing tantrums if they don't get what they want. They reflect every change in their surroundings, like chameleons, and can become pessimistic, sullen, peevish and materialistically self-centered if circumstances force them to struggle in any way. If the conditions of life become really adverse, their strength of will may desert them entirely. They can become uncertain of themselves, either withdrawn, or nervously excitable worriers, sullenly discontented, hard and irritable, with "Self" looming ever larger in their struggles. On the other hand their versatility can make them very adaptable, adjusting themselves to control the world around them by means of their inherent ingenuity and cleverness.

Most Gemini have a keen, intuitive, sometimes brilliant intelligence and they love cerebral challenges. But their concentration, though intense for a while, does not last. Their mental agility and energy give them a voracious appetite for knowledge from youth onward, though they dislike the labor of learning. They easily grasp almost everything requiring intelligence and mental dexterity, and are often able to marry manual skills to their qualities of mind. Their intellect is strongly analytical and sometimes gives them so great an ability to see both sides of a question that they vacillate and find it hard to make decisions. But their intelligence may very well be used to control and unify the duality of their natures into a most efficient unit. If faced with difficulties, they have little determination to worry at a problem until they find a solution - they will pick the brains of others. In their intellectual pursuits, as in other departments of their lives, they risk becoming dilettantes, losing themselves in too many projects which they follow until they become difficult.

In love they are fickle, not intentionally so but because of the basic inconsistency of their emotional nature, which has an amoral aspect to it. Their is a side to Geminians which can become deeply involved emotionally, and another, hostile to sentimentality, which stands back from a romantic situation, laughing at it and the protagonists in it, including themselves while analyzing it intellectually. Gemini subjects take nothing seriously. So, in love, in spite of their temporary depth of feeling, for the intensity of involvement lasts only while it is new, they are superficial, light-hearted, cool, flirtatious and unimaginative in the understanding of the pain they may give others. They like intrigue, the excitement of the chase, but once they have caught the prey, they lose interest and look around for the next creature to pursue. In less serious situations they make witty, entertaining companions, good acquaintances rather than friends. Even at their worst they are never dull - there is usually playfulness below the surface, and they can be brilliant conversationalists - but they can also be quarrelsome, prattlers, boasters, liars and cheats.

Geminians can be successful in many walks of life though their general characteristics tend to make them unreliable. They are often skilled manipulators of language, in speech and writing, and may be: debaters, diplomats (though in politics they are more interested in theory than practice), orators, preachers (brilliant rather than profound), teachers, authors, poets, journalists, or lawyers. In business any work which combines quick-wittedness with a change of surroundings suits them; working as a traveling salesperson, brokerage work, or dealing with the public in any capacity is right up their alley. Because they are dispassionate, logical, rational and analytical they make good scientists, especially in the fields of medicine and astronomy. They can also make excellent members of the Armed Forces, for they take danger no more seriously than anything else and can earn themselves a reputation for devotion to duty and heroic acts. In the arts they may excel in music, painting and sculpture. They make good psychic researchers of a sceptical kind. Negatively they can degenerate into confidence tricksters, thieves and even adepts in the black arts.

Cancer

Emotional and loving
Intuitive and imaginative
Shrewd and cautious
Protective and sympathetic

On the dark side....

Changeable and moody
Overemotional and touchy
Clinging and unable to let go

LIKES
Hobbies
Romance
Children
Home and Country
Parties

DISLIKES
Aggravating situations
Failure
Opposition
Being told what to do
Advice (good or bad)

The Cancerian character is the least clear-cut of all those associated with the signs of the zodiac. It can range from the timid, dull, shy and withdrawn to the most brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be found through the whole range of human activity. It is a fundamentally conservative and home-loving nature, appreciating the nest like quality of a secure base to which the male can retire when he needs a respite from the stresses of life, and in which the Cancerian woman can exercise her strong maternal instincts. The latter tends to like and to have a large family. `Nest like' is an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian home, for its inhabitants tend to favor the dark, mysterious but comfortable type of house which has something of the air of a den about it, a place which belongs to the family rather than existing as a showcase to impress visitors.
That is not to say that the Cancerian is unsociable, just that for them there is a time to socialize and a time to be solitary, and this is part of the apparent contradiction in their nature. Outwardly they can appear formidable - thick-skinned, unemotional, uncompromising, obstinately tenacious, purposeful, energetic, shrewd, intuitive and wise, sometimes with a philosophical profundity of thought verging on inspiration. Their intimates, however, may see a very different character, one with a sympathetic and kindly sensitivity to other people, especially those they love. They are able to identify with the situations of others because of the keenness of their imaginations. They are often over-imaginative and prone to fantasy, sometimes trying to shape their lives to fit some romantic ideal. They are appreciative of art and literature, and especially of drama, where the spectacle and ebb and flow of action and feeling particularly excite them. They may themselves possess considerable literary, artistic or oratorical talent. Their sharp ears and talent for mimicry can sometimes give them success on the stage, though their tendency to be emotional may make them overact. Interestingly - because they give the impression of being down-to-earth - they are often fascinated by the occult and are more open to psychic influence than the average. If they can reconcile the personal conflict of their urge to be outgoing with the reserve that causes them to withdraw into themselves, then at best they can inspire a generation, especially the youthful part of it, by their idealism. A job in which they can express this, and in which they can do well, would be as a leader in a youth organization.

In their personal relationships they are mentally a mixture of toughness and softness, often emotional and romantic to the point of sentimentality in their fantasies; but in real life and in marriage, their loving is not so sentimental but tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs (and they may do so, for the male in particular is open to sensual stimulation), their first loyalty remains to spouse and family, of whom they regard themselves as the protector. Both the
Cancerian man and woman love unreservedly, giving much and asking little in return - in fact, one of the most important lessons they have to learn is how to receive gracefully. They are too easily influenced by those they love and admire, and swayed by the emotion of the moment. They are also loyal friends, the negative side of their faithfulness being clannishness, the narrow patriotism of "my country right or wrong"; and closing ranks in suspicion and coldness toward outsiders.

Cancerians have a retentive memory, particularly for emotionally laden events which they can recall in detail for years afterwards. they are strongly governed by childhood memories and since they live intensely in the past in memory and in the future in imagination, a chance meeting with someone for whom they had an unrequited love, even if they thought they had conquered the feeling, will easily rouse the emotion all over again.

The Cancerian has many potential faults. They can be untidy, sulky, devious, moody, inclined to self-pity because of an inferiority complex, brood on insults (very often imagined), yet are easily flattered. They can be tactless and difficult yet, because they are normally ambitious, they will curry favor by floating with majority opinions, outlooks and fashions of the day. As a result they often change their opinions and loyalties and, indeed, their occupations, and lack stability. They are easily corrupted and, because they are convincing romanticizers, can make successful confidence tricksters. Their romanticism in another sense make them ardent supporters of causes, for example a football team with whose heroes they can identify in a world of fantasy.

Their abilities fit the Cancerian for a wide range of occupations. As they are interested in what people are thinking and able to judge what they can safely be told, they can be good journalists, writers or politicians, though in this last capacity they are more likely to remain in the background rather than attain prominent positions of power. They may, indeed, change their party affiliations. They can serve in other departments of public affairs, especially those which involve looking after others, for example in any kind of service from welfare and nursing to catering - their own love of comfort and good living makes the Cancerian an excellent chef or housekeeper. They sometimes have a penchant for trade or business and are often successful as a captain of industry. This is because they are excellent organizers with a good sense of value and economy which they may combine with a flair for inventiveness and originality. The romantic side of their natures make them enjoy grubbing about in places where exciting discoveries may be made (old stamp collections in attics, etc.), and if they can do this professionally as a secondhand dealer or specialist in antiques, they will be happy. More common occupations which suit some subjects of Cancer are real estate broker, gardener and sailor.

Physically they are average to below average in height, with a fleshy body and short legs in comparison with the rest of them. Their hair is usually brown, their faces round, their complexions pale, their foreheads prominent, their eyes small and blue or gray in color, their noses short, perhaps upturned, and their mouths full. They sometimes walk clumsily.

Leo

Generous and warmhearted
Creative and enthusiastic
Broad-minded and expansive
Faithful and loving

On the dark side....

Pompous and patronizing
Bossy and interfering
Dogmatic and intolerant

LIKES
Speculative ventures
Lavish Living
Pageantry and Grandeur
Children
Drama

DISLIKES
Doing things safely
Ordinary,Day to day living
Small minded people
Penny pinching
Mean spiritedness

The Leo type is the most dominant, spontaneously creative and extrovert of all the zodiacal characters. In grandeur of manner, splendor of bearing and magnanimity of personality, they are the monarch's among humans as the lion is king of beasts. They are ambitious, courageous, dominant, strong willed, positive, independent, self-confident there is no such a word as doubt in their vocabularies, and they are self-controlled. Born leaders, either in support of, or in revolt against, the status quo. They are at their most effective when in a position of command, their personal magnetism and innate courtesy of mind bringing out the best of loyalty from subordinates. They are uncomplicated, knowing exactly what they want and using all their energies, creativeness and resolution to get it, as well as being certain that they will get whatever they are after. Their followers know where they are with Leonians. Leonians think and act bigger than others would normally dare; the ambitiousness of their schemes and idealism sometimes daunt their followers, their practical hardheadedness and ability to go straight to the heart of any problem reassures those who depend on them. If Leonians meet with setbacks they thrive on the adversity.

On the whole they are powers for good, for they are strongly idealistic, humane, and beneficent. They have powerful intelligence and are of a broad philosophical, sometimes religious, turn of mind. Those who are devout may become very obstinate in upholding traditional beliefs and will cling tenaciously, but with complete sincerity, to practices and doctrines which liberal thinkers regard as absurdly out-of-date. These will be found as the 'lions' of industries, and in the forefront of the cutting edge of technologies.

Their faults can be as large in scale as their virtues, and an excessively negative Leonian can be one of the most unpleasant human beings imaginable, displaying extreme arrogance, autocratic pride, haughtiness, and excessive hastiness of temper. If jealously suspicious of rivals, they will not hesitate to use cunning, lies and trickery to discredit them. Self-centeredness, greed for flattery, boastfulness, and bombast, pomposity, snobbish superiority, and overbearing, and intolerant disdain of underlings; to whom they will nevertheless delegate the carrying out of minor details in their grandiose schemes, and from whom they are not above borrowing immoderately if an occasion necessitates it. Any of these can be characteristic of Leo.
Add to them a passion for luxury, a lust for power, unlimited sexual lust, and emotional indulgence, and a character emerges that no one would want to know either in public life or private. But their pride may go before a fall, as uncontrolled impetuosity is likely to bring them low. Fortunately it is rare that a Leo is so undisciplined as to give way thoroughly to this list of vices, and their tendencies to them are usually balanced by an innate wisdom. Those who are afflicted with them also have the intelligence it takes to consciously and actively overcome them.

In professional life they do well at any vocation at which there is room at the top. As politicians they are content with nothing less than a powerful position in government. In business they may be the chairman of their company's board, or at least directors or managers. They are excellent organizers and overseers, often laying the groundwork for new projects. If from the artisan ranks of society they will aspire to become the boss, partly because they are ambitious by nature, partly because they dislike manual labor, preferring to take charge of others doing it. If artistic, Leos can become stars of stage or screen (their bent is serious rather than light drama), maestros as musicians where they will gravitate toward the grand instruments or activities, such as the organ or conducting of orchestras and as painters; anything grand in conception and scale appeals to them. Leo women make exceptionally good welfare workers.

In his or her relations with others the Leo type is open, sincere, genuine and trusting. Outgoing, spontaneously warm hearted and plain spoken, though never lacking in kindliness, Leos are more disillusioned than the average if let down by those they trust. They are not good judges of character and are inclined to favoritism and an exaggerated faith in their followers which too often ends in disappointment. They have a strong sex drive and are so attracted to the opposite sex that they find it hard to be constant; they can be so intensely sexual as to become dissolute. They may have numerous love affairs for their love of pleasure and beauty is liable to drive them from one attractive partner to another. They are very much inclined to deceive. Their marriages may fail for the same reason, yet they are sincere and generous to their lovers while love lasts, and will remain attached to their homes so long as it is run for their benefit. They demand service but are incapable of giving it.

Virgo

Modest and shy
Meticulous and reliable
Practical and diligent
Intelligent and analytical

On the dark side....

Fussy and a worrier
Overcritical and harsh
Perfectionist and conservative

LIKES
Health foods
Lists
Hygiene
Order
Wholesomeness

DISLIKES
Hazards to health
Anything sordid
Sloppy workers
Squalor
Being uncertain

Virgo is the only zodiacal sign represented by a female. It is sometimes thought of as a potentially creative girl, delicately lovely; sometimes as a somewhat older woman, intelligent but rather pedantic and spinsterish. The latter impression is sometimes confirmed by the Virgoan preciseness, refinement, fastidious love of cleanliness, hygiene and good order, conventionality and aristocratic attitude of reserve. They are usually observant, shrewd, critically inclined, judicious, patient, practical supporters of the status quo, and tend toward conservatism in all departments of life. On the surface they are emotionally cold, and sometimes this goes deeper, for their habit of suppressing their natural kindness may in the end cause it to atrophy, with the result that they shrink from committing themselves to friendship, make few relationships, and those they do make they are careful to keep superficial.

But the outward lack of feeling may, in some individuals born under this sign, conceal too much emotion, to which they are afraid of giving way because they do not trust others, nor do they have confidence in themselves and their judgments. This is because they are conscious of certain shortcomings in themselves of worldliness, of practicality, of sophistication and of outgoingness. So they bring the art of self concealment to a high pitch, hiding their apprehensiveness about themselves and their often considerable sympathy with other people under a mantle of matter-of-factness and undemonstrative, quiet reserve. They are still waters that run deep. Yet in their unassuming, outwardly cheerful and agreeable fashion, they can be sensible, discreet, well spoken, wise and witty, with a good understanding of other people's problems which they can tackle with a practicality not always evident in their own personal relationships.

Both sexes have considerable charm and dignity, which make some male Virgoans appear effeminate when they are not. In marriage they can be genuinely affectionate, making good spouses and parents, but their love making is a perfection of technique rather than the expression of desire, and they must be careful not to mate with a partner whose sex drive requires a passion they cannot match.

They are intellectually enquiring, methodical and logical, studious and teachable. They combine mental ingenuity with the ability to produce a clear analysis of the most complicated problems. They have an excellent eye for detail but they may be so meticulous that they neglect larger issues. Also, although they are realists, they may slow down projects by being too exact.
They are practical with their hands, good technicians and have genuine inventive talents, Thoroughness, hard work and conscientiousness are their hallmarks, and they are such perfectionists that, if things go wrong, they are easily discouraged. Because of their ability to see every angle of a many-sided question, they are unhappy with abstract theorizing. Appreciating the many different points of view as they do, they find philosophical concepts difficult, and they vacillate and have no confidence in any conclusions at which they arrive.

With these qualities, they are better as subordinates than leaders. Responsibility irks them and they often lack the breadth of strategic vision that a leader needs Virgoans are essentially tacticians, admirable in the attainment of limited objectives. Their self distrust is something they project on to other people and tends to make them exacting employers, though in the demands they make on those under them they temper this attitude with justice. They have potential abilities in the arts, sciences and languages. Language especially they use correctly, clearly, consciously and formally, as grammarians and etymologists rather than for literary interests, yet they are likely to have a good memory for apt quotations. Although they are well suited for careers in machine drawing, surveying and similar occupations, they are better fitted for a job in a library or office than a workshop.

Their minds are such that they need the stimulus of practical problems to be solved rather than the mere routine or working to set specifications that need no thought. They are careful with money and their interest in statistics makes them excellent bookkeepers and accountants. They also make good editors, physicists and analytical chemists. They may also find success as welfare workers, ministering to those less fortunate than themselves. They can be doctors, nurses, psychologists, teachers, confidential secretaries, technologists, inspectors, musicians, critics, public speakers and writers especially of reference works such as dictionaries and encyclopedias. Both sexes have a deep interest in history, a feature recognized by astrological authorities for at least two hundred years. If they go in for a business career their shrewdness and analytical ingenuity could tempt them into dishonesty, though they usually have enough moral sense to resist temptation. Female Virgoans may find a career in fashion, for they have a flair for dress, in which they can be trend setters. In any profession they choose the natives of this sign readily assimilate new ideas, but always with caution, conserving what they consider worth keeping from the past. They love country life but are unlikely to make good farmers, unless they can contrive to carry out their work without outraging their sense of hygiene and cleanliness.

Their faults, as is usual with all zodiacal types, are the extremes of their virtues. Fastidious reticence and modesty become old-maidishness and persnicketiness; balanced criticism becomes carping and nagging; and concern for detail becomes overspecialization. Virgoans are liable to indecision in wider issues and this can become chronic, turning molehills of minor difficulties into Himalayas of crisis. Their prudence can become guile and their carefulness, turned in on themselves, can produce worriers and hypochondriacs.

Libra

Diplomaitic and urbane
Romantic and charming
Easygoing and sociable
Idealistic and peaceable

On the dark side....

Indecisive and changeable
Gullible and easily infuenced
Flirtatious and self-indulgent

LIKES
The finer things in life
Sharing
conviviality
Gentleness

DISLIKES
Violence
Injustice
Brutishness
Being a slave to fashion

Libra is the only inanimate sign of the zodiac, all the others representing either humans or animals. Many modern astrologers regard it as the most desirable of zodiacal types because it represents the zenith of the year, the high point of the seasons, when the harvest of all the hard work of the spring is reaped. There is a mellowness and sense of relaxation in the air as mankind enjoys the last of the summer sun and the fruits of his toil. Librans too are among the most civilized of the twelve zodiacal characters and are often good looking. They have elegance, charm and good taste, are naturally kind, very gentle, and lovers of beauty, harmony (both in music and social living) and the pleasures that these bring.

They have good critical faculty and are able to stand back and look impartially at matters which call for an impartial judgment to be made on them. But they do not tolerate argument from anyone who challenges their opinions, for once they have reached a conclusion, its truth seems to them self-evident; and among their faults is an impatience of criticism and a greed for approval. But their characters are on the whole balanced, diplomatic and even tempered.

Librans are sensitive to the needs of others and have the gift, sometimes to an almost psychic extent, of understanding the emotional needs of their companions and meeting them with their own innate optimism - they are the kind of people of whom it is said, "They always make you feel better for having been with them." They are very social human beings. They loathe cruelty, viciousness and vulgarity and detest conflict between people, so they do their best to cooperate and compromise with everyone around them, and their ideal for their own circle and for society as a whole is unity.

Their cast of mind is artistic rather than intellectual, though they are usually too moderate and well balanced to be avant garde in any artistic endeavor. They have good perception and observation and their critical ability, with which they are able to view their own efforts as well as those of others, gives their work integrity.

In their personal relationships they show understanding of the other person's point of view, trying to resolve any differences by compromise, and are often willing to allow claims against themselves to be settled to their own disadvantage rather than spoil a relationship. They like the opposite sex to the extent of promiscuity sometimes, and may indulge in romanticism bordering on sentimentality.
Their marriages, however, stand a good chance of success because they are frequently the union of "true minds". The Libran's continuing kindness toward his or her partner mollifies any hurt the latter may feel if the two have had a tiff. Nor can the Libran's spouse often complain that he or she is not understood, for the Libran is usually the most empathetic of all the zodiacal types and the most ready to tolerate the beloved's failings.

The negative Libran character may show frivolity, flirtatiousness and shallowness. It can be changeable and indecisive, impatient of routine, colorlessly conventional and timid, easygoing to the point of inertia, seldom angry when circumstances demand a show of annoyance at least; and yet Librans can shock everyone around them with sudden storms of rage. Their love of pleasure may lead them into extravagance; Libran men can degenerate into reckless gamblers, and Libran women extravagant, jealous and careless about money sometimes squander their wealth and talents in their overenthusiasm for causes which they espouse. Both sexes can become great gossipers. A characteristic of the type is an insatiable curiosity that tempts them to enquire into every social scandal in their circle.

In their work the description "lazy Libra" which is sometimes given is actually more alliterative than true. Librans can be surprisingly energetic, though it is true that they dislike coarse, dirty work. Although some are modestly content, others are extremely ambitious. With their dislike of extremes they make good diplomats but perhaps poor party politicians, for they are moderate in their opinions and able to see other points of view. They can succeed as administrators, lawyers (they have a strong sense of justice, which cynics might say could handicap them in a legal career), antique dealers, civil servants and bankers, for they are trustworthy in handling other people's money. Some Librans are gifted in fashion designing or in devising new cosmetics; others may find success as artists, composers, critics, writers, interior decorators, welfare workers or valuers, and they have an ability in the management of all sorts of public entertainment. Some work philanthropically for humanity with great self-disciple and significant results. Libran financiers sometimes make good speculators, for they have the optimism and ability to recover from financial crashes.

Scorpio

Determined and forceful
Emotional and intuitive
Powerful and passionate
Exciting and magnetic

On the dark side....

Jealous and resentful
Compulsive and obsessive
Secretive and obstinate

LIKES
Truth
Hidden Causes
Being involved
Work That is Meaningful
Being Persuasive

DISLIKES
Being Given Only Surface data
Taken Advantage of
Demeaning Jobs
Shallow Relationships
Flattery and Flattering

Scorpios are the most intense, profound, powerful characters in the zodiac. Even when they appear self-controlled and calm there is a seething intensity of emotional energy under the placid exterior. They are like the volcano not far under the surface of a calm sea, it may burst into eruption at any moment. But those of us who are particularly perceptive will be aware of the harnessed aggression, the immense forcefulness, magnetic intensity, and often strangely hypnotic personality under the tranquil, but watchful composure of Scorpio. In conventional social gatherings they are pleasant to be with, thoughtful in conversation, dignified, and reserved, yet affable and courteous; they sometimes possess penetrating eyes which make their shyer companions feel naked and defenseless before them.

In their everyday behavior they give the appearance of being withdrawn from the center of activity, yet those who know them will recognize the watchfulness that is part of their character. They need great self-discipline, because they are able to recognize the qualities in themselves that make them different from other humans, and to know their utterly conventional natures can be used for great good, or great evil. Their tenacity and willpower are immense, their depth of character and passionate conviction overwhelming, yet they are deeply sensitive and easily moved by their emotions. Their sensitivity, together with a propensity for extreme likes and dislikes make them easily hurt, quick to detect insult or injury to themselves (often when none is intended) and easily aroused to ferocious anger. This may express itself in such destructive speech or action that they make lifelong enemies by their outspokenness, for they find it difficult not to be overly critical of anything or anyone to whom they take a dislike.

They can harness their abundant energy constructively, tempering their self-confidence with shrewdness and their ambition with magnanimity toward others provided they like them. They relate to fellow workers only as leaders and can be blunt to those they dislike to the point of cruelty. In fact they are not above expressing vindictiveness in deliberate cruelty. They are too demanding, too unforgiving of faults in others, perhaps because they are not aware of the shortcomings within themselves, and extravagantly express their self-disgust in unreasonable resentment against their fellows. They do, however, make excellent friends, provided that their companions do nothing to impugn the honor of which Scorpios are very jealous. Part of the negative side of the Scorpio nature is a tendency to discard friends once they cease to be useful, but the decent native is aware of, and fights this tendency.

They are fortunate in that their strong reasoning powers are tempered with imagination and intuition, and these gifts, together with critical perception and analytical capacity, can enable the Scorpions to penetrate to profundities beyond the average. They have a better chance of becoming geniuses than the natives of any other sign.But charismatic "twice-born" characters such as they can sink into the extremes of depravity if they take the wrong path, and the intensity of their nature exaggerates their harmful tendencies into vices far greater than the normal.
Rebelliousness against all conventions, political extremism to the point where hatred of the Establishment makes them utterly unscrupulous terrorists. Brooding resentment, aggressive and sadistic brutality, total arrogance, morbid jealousy, extreme volatility of temperament, these are some of their vices. At the other extreme is the procrastinator, the man or woman who is capable of so much that they do nothing and become indolent and self-indulgent, requiring extravagant praise and flattery from those whom they make their cronies.

Being so gifted, they can find fulfillment in many employments. Their inner intensity can result in the ice-cold self-control and detachment of the surgeon, the concentration of the research scientist, and the heroism of the soldier. Any profession in which analysis, investigation, research, dealing with practicalities, and the solving of mysteries are relevant, can appeal to them. So police and detective work, espionage and counterespionage, the law, physics or psychology may attract them, and they can become masters of the written and spoken word. They may be most persuasive orators and find fulfillment as diplomats or preachers and, if they make the Church their profession, their inner intensity can express itself in the spiritual fervor of the mystic or the thaumaturgy.

Scorpio is the symbol of sex and Scorpios are passionate lovers, the most sensually energetic of all the signs. For them, union with the beloved is a sacrament, an "outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace.". Their overriding urge in loving is to use their power to penetrate beyond themselves and to lose themselves sexually in their partners in an almost mystical ecstasy, thus discovering the meaning of that union which is greater than individuality, and is a marriage of the spirit as well as of flesh. They are thus capable of the greatest heights of passionate transport, but debauchery and perversion are always dangers, and Scorpios can become sadistic monsters of sensuality and eroticism. Their feelings are so intense that even when their love is of the highest, and most idealistic kind, they are nevertheless frequently protagonists in tragic, even violent romances, "star-crossed lovers".

Sagittarius

Optimistic and freedom-loving
Jovial and good-humored
Honest and straightforward
Intellectual and philosophical

On the dark side....

Blindly optimistic and careless
Irresponsible and superficial
Tactless and restless

LIKES
Traveling
getting to the heart of the matter
Freedom
Laws and meanings
the general 'feel' of things

DISLIKES
Off the wall theories
being tied down domestically
Being constrained
cooling your heels

Sagittarians have a positive outlook on life, are full of enterprise, energy, versatility, adventurousness and eagerness to extend experience beyond the physically familiar. They enjoy travelling and exploration, the more so because their minds are constantly open to new dimensions of thought. They are basically ambitious and optimistic, and continue to be so even when their hopes are dashed. Their strongly idealistic natures can also suffer many disappointments without being affected. They are honorable, honest, trustworthy, truthful, generous and sincere, with a passion for justice. They are usually on the side of the underdog in society they will fight for any cause they believe to be just, and are prepared to be rebellious. They balance loyalty with independence.

Sagittarians are usually modest and are often religious, with a strong sense of morality, though they tend to overemphasize the ethical codes they follow and worship beliefs about God rather than God Himself. This means that, negatively, they regard rigid, unloving, intolerant adherence to ritual and conventional codes as more important than the truths they symbolize or embody. They sometimes pay lip service to religions and political parties in which they have ceased to believe because the outward forms satisfy them, yet they may not hesitate to switch allegiance in politics or change their system of belief if they see personal advantage to themselves in doing so.

They have both profound and widely ranging minds, equipped with foresight and good judgement, and they can be witty conversationalists. They love to initiate new projects (they make excellent researchers) and have an urge to understand conceptions that are new to them. they think rapidly, are intuitive and often original, but are better at adapting than inventing and are at their best when working with colleagues of other types of character that compliment their own. They are strong-willed and good at organizing, a combination that gives them the ability to bring any project they undertake to a successful conclusion. Their generosity can be balanced by their extreme care at handling their resources.

Sagittarians are ardent, sincere and straightforward in love, normally conventional and in control of their sexual natures. Yet if thwarted, they may easily allow their failure to embitter their whole lives or they may revenge themselves upon the opposite sex by becoming cynically promiscuous. They are more apt then the average to make an uncongenial alliance.
If their marriages are successful, they will be faithful spouses and indulgent parents; but their innate restlessness will inspire them to use even the most satisfying ménage as a base from which to set out on their travels. They need to fell free and are often faced with the choice of allowing their careers to take over their lives at the expense of the love of their spouse and family. Sagittarian women are the counterparts of their men; even if they have no career to rival their love, they find it difficult to express affection and may run the risk of being thought frigid.

In other personal relationships they are reliable, seldom betraying any trust given to them. They can, however, be impulsively angry and both male and female Sagittarians know how to be outspoken and exactly what expressions will hurt their adversaries most. On the other hand they are magnanimous in forgiving offenses and are responsible when looking after the elderly in the family.

Their gifts fit Sagittarians for a number of widely differing professions. They are natural teachers and philosophers with a talent for expounding the moral principles and laws which seem to explain the universe. This gift enables them to be successful churchmen on the one hand and scientists on the other. The law and politics also suit them, as does public service, social administration, public relations and advertising. Travel and exploration naturally appeal to such restless souls and, if their opportunities are limited, they may find something of travel and change of scene in the armed forces or through working as a travelling salesman. Others may make fine musicians and, in the days before automobiles, they were said to be successful at horse trading and all activities, including sporting ones, concerning horses. This has been translated in modern terms into an interest in cars and aircraft - and again with emphasis on the sporting side racing, rallying etc. They are said to make good sports coaches, but their tastes in this direction may lead them into imprudent gambling, though the gambling instinct may be sublimated by carrying it out professionally as a bookmaker.

The vices to which Sagittarians are prone are anger they tend to flare up over trifles; impatience - they want to rush every new project through immediately and demand too much of colleagues who cannot work at the pace they require; and scorn of the inadequacies of others while expecting fulsome recognition of their own efforts. They may in one sense deserve recognition, because in completing a major project they will sacrifice their health and family relationships; in their family's eyes they may merit condemnation.

They can be exacting, domineering and inconsiderate in the work place; and boastful, vulgar and extravagant in their private lives. Their restlessness, if excessive, can jeopardize more than their own stability. some Sagittarians risk becoming playboys, wasting their lives away in frivolous pursuits. Others can develop a moralizing, religious fanaticism or else turn into hypocrites, their inner prudishness disguised by an outward appearance of joviality. Another side of the religiosity which is a danger in Sagittarians is superstition.

Capricorn

Practical and prudent
Ambitious and disciplined
Patient and careful
Humorous and reserved

On the dark side....

Pessimistic and fatalistic
Miserly and grudging

LIKES
Reliability
Professionalism
Knowing what you discuss
Firm Foundations
Purpose

DISLIKES
Wild Schemes
Fantasies
Go-nowhere jobs
Ignominy
Ridicule

Capricorn is one of the most stable and (mostly) serious of the zodiacal types. These independent, rocklike characters have many sterling qualities. They are normally confident, strong willed and calm. These hardworking, unemotional, shrewd, practical, responsible, persevering, and cautious to the extreme persons, are capable of persisting for as long as is necessary to accomplish a goal they have set for themselves. They are reliable workers in almost any profession they undertake. They are the major finishers of most projects started by the 'pioneering' signs; with firm stick-to-it-ness they quickly become the backbone of any company they work for.

Capricornians make of themselves, resourceful, determined managers; setting high standards for themselves and others. They strive always for honesty in their criticism of self, they respect discipline from above and demand it from those beneath them. In their methodical, tough, stubborn, unyielding way, they persist against personal hardship, putting their families and/or their work before their own needs and welfare to reach their objectives long after others have given up and fallen by the wayside. In fact when practical ability allied with the drive of ambition are required in employees to make a project succeed, Capricornians are the people to hire. They plan carefully to fulfill their ambitions (which often include becoming wealthy), they are economical without meanness, and able to achieve great results with minimum effort and expense. Because of their organizing ability they are able to work on several projects simultaneously.

They have a great respect for authority but may not, if they reach high rank, be willing to listen to other opinions on things they are directly responsible for. As the ranking authority figure in a given situation they expect their underlings to be as self disciplined as they themselves are, and to perform every task undertaken to the highest standard.
They are, nevertheless, fair as well as demanding. Among their equals they are not always the most pleasant of work fellows for they are reserved and too conservative, valuing tradition more than innovation, however valuable the latter, and they are often humorless. There is also a tendency to pessimism, melancholy and even unhappiness which many Capricornians are unable to keep to themselves, especially if they fail personally. In the extreme this trait can make them a very depressed individual; ecstatic happiness alternating with the most wretched kind of misery which is so subconsciously buried that he or she should seek help if such emotions become frequent. For the above reason, capable Capricorn should spend many hours in meditation, gathering the strength to control such inner emotions.

The swings in mood are not the only reason some Capricornians deserve the adjective based on their name - capricious. They can be surprisingly and suddenly witty and subtle for the quiet, reserved individuals they seem to be, and they also have a tendency to ruin things by unexpected and utterly irresponsible bouts of flippancy. In certain individuals in whom the characteristic is strong, the temptation to do this has to be resisted with iron self-control. Another unexpected quality in some Capricornians is an interest in the occult which persists in spite of their naturally skeptical turn of mind.

Their intellects are sometimes very subtle. They think profoundly and deeply, throughly exploring all possibilities before deciding on a 'safe' alternative. They have good memories and an insatiable yet methodical desire for knowledge. They are rational, logical and clearheaded, have good concentration, delight in debate in which they can show off their cleverness by luring their adversaries into traps and confounding them with logic.

In their personal relationships they are often ill-at-ease, if not downright unhappy. They are somewhat self-centered but not excessively so, wary and cautious around people they do not know very well, preferring not to meddle with others and in turn not to allow interference with themselves, thus they tend to attract people who do not understand them. Casual acquaintances they will treat with diplomacy, tact and, above all, reticence. They make few good friends but are intensely loyal to those they do make, and they can become bitter, and powerful enemies. They sometimes dislike the opposite sex and test the waters of affection gingerly before judging the temperature right for marriage. Once married, however, they are faithful, though inclined to jealousy. Most Capricornians marry for life.

Their occupations can include most professions that have to do with math or money and they are strongly attracted to music. They can be economists, financiers, bankers, speculators, contractors, managers and real estate brokers. They excel as bureaucrats, especially where projects demanding long-term planning and working are concerned, and their skill in debate and love of dialectic make them good politicians. They are excellent teachers, especially as principals of educational establishments where they have the authority to manage and organize without too much intimacy with the staff members. If working with their hands, they can become practical scientists, engineers, farmers and builders. The wit and flippancy which is characteristic of certain Capricornians may make some turn to entertainment as a career.

Aquarius

Friendly and humanitarian
Honest and loyal
Original and inventive
Independent and intellectual

On the dark side....

Intractable and contrary
Perverse and unpredictable
Unemotional and detached

LIKES
Fighting for Causes
Dreaming and Planning for the Future
Thinking of the Past
Good Companions
Having Fun

DISLIKES
Full of Air Promises
Excessive Loneliness
The Ordinary
Imitations
Idealistic

Aquarians basically possess strong and attractive personalities. They fall into two principle types: one shy, sensitive, gentle and patient; the other exuberant, lively and exhibitionist, sometimes hiding the considerable depths of their character under a cloak of frivolity. Both types are strong willed and forceful in their different ways and have strong convictions, though as they seek truth above all things, they are usually honest enough to change their opinions, however firmly held, if evidence comes to light which persuades them that they have been mistaken. They have a breadth of vision that brings diverse factors into a whole, and can see both sides of an argument without shilly-shallying as to which side to take. Consequently they are unprejudiced and tolerant of other points of view. This is because they can see the validity of the argument, even if they do not accept it themselves. They obey the Quaker exhortation to "Be open to truth, from whatever source it comes," and are prepared to learn from everyone.

Both types are humane, frank, serious minded, genial, refined, sometimes ethereal, and idealistic, though this last quality is tempered with a sensible practicality. They are quick, active and persevering without being self-assertive, and express themselves with reason, moderation and sometimes, a dry humor.

They are nearly always intelligent, concise, clear and logical. Many are strongly imaginative and psychically intuitive, so that the Age of Aquarius, which is about to begin, is much anticipated by psychic circles as an age in which mankind will experience a great spiritual awakening. The Aquarian philosophical and spiritual bent may be dangerous in that it can drive the subjects into an ivory-tower existence where they meditate on abstractions that bear little relevance to life. On the other hand it can help the many who have scientific leaning

Hey My Dear

stacial — Sun, 18 May 2008 02:46:52 +0800
Hello all,

i would like to hear from u all about the following questions :

1.who will you call as 'my dear' ? ( frenz?the person that u like? handsome?pretty?trying to flirt with anyone?so so so so ?)
2.when and who will u sweet talk to ?

thanks yeah !

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Friend : Hey my dear , u look really sweet when you smile !
Me : Oi! u juz had a glass of honey juz now izit? mouth so sweet ! Trying to flirt ar? i won't let u successful one ok. stop your sweet talk !
Friend : I never drink honey . its so natural for a guy to sweet talk when he meets the right person.
Me : Oi ! You have potential to be top sales person if you work in sales line brother.
Friend : Talk Sales got one la. Well,maybe i gave u an impression that i am flirtatious but i am not honestly.I oni sweet talk to person who i have good feel for her.Not everyone u know , so don't get me wrong .

Me : Oi ! enough la ! i don't want to listen already ! shut up & eat your rice !
Friend: Well,you can try to ask your frenz whether what i was saying juz now was right or wrong .
Me : Oi ! close topic close topic ! diam diam !

Date a smoker/drinker?

stacial — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 16:08:51 +0800
Would you date someone who drinks/smokes?

for me..
smoker -> nope .. coz i can't stand the smell
drinker -> occasionally drink is alright but if they are alcoholic - no way . (kaki mabuk -> wife beater ) lolz

Zodiac Signs Corner

stacial — Fri, 15 Feb 2008 20:30:58 +0800
Learn about yourself/your other half/potential lover/so so so...

What it's like to date an Aquarius woman:

The Aquarius woman is the ultimate independent woman.She is funny,smart,adventurous,never clingy or jealous,never demanding and not overly emotional.She is unpredictable and craves excitement.Anything goes with this woman and any man that she chooses will have an amazing relationship.Court her and woo her,she expects this ladylike treatment,she is old fashioned in that sense but be known that her mind is already made up and if she is not interested,she will never be interested.The relationship will progress slowly because she does not get emotionally involved very easily and she is not one for showy displays of romantic affection.The man who is trying to win her heart has to treat her with respect and treat her as an equal.Communication is key,this is how a relationship with Aquarius woman evolves.Once she trusts you and you two grew closer,she is an amazing loyal and kind-hearted person.She will always seem to be detached,she fears losing her identity in a relationship so do not be surprised if even in a long term relationship she seems more like a friend than a romantic partner.Do not press her emotionally or tie her down with demands and obligations because this will cause her to run.Never be jealous,this is a big red flag to her and she will leave right away,the Aquarius woman can never be tied down,she is free as a bird.If you give her all she needs,she will be completely faithful so you should not worry when she is out on her own,give her space and respect,her privacy and all will be well.Aquarius woman is for the man who loves a challenge and adventure.

What it's like to date an Aquarius man:

This man is all about intellectual stimulation.You can be the prettiest girl in the world but if you do not stir his mind,he won't bother.Communication is so important to this man.Deep inside he longs for love but this causes him inner trouble because of his inability to understand emotion so an Aquarius man in love often stumbles on his own words,be patient with him and don't hold it against him because deep inside,he is having fun.Beware that an Aquarius man can fall out of love as easily as falling in love.The woman has to be able to adapt to him,he will not change for anybody and demands respect and understanding for the way he is,no matter how eccentric his ideals are.He needs stimulation and a partner to share life's adventures with,not just someone to sit on the couch and watch a movie all the time.Do not press him emotionally or tie him down with demands and obligations because this will cause him to run.Never be jealous,this is a big red flag to him and he will leave right away,the Aquarius man can never be tied down.If you give him all he needs,he will be completely faithful so you should not worry when he is out on his own,give him space and respect his privacy and all will be well.Aquarius man is for the woman who loves a chanllenge and adventure.

What it's like to date a Pieces woman:

Pieces women are very captivating and fascinating.She makes a man feels like a man because of her need for a protector and leader.She is charming,soft and feminine.The ultimate enchantress.She can see right through a man and she is not easy to fool,so any man better be straight with her and not lead her on,because instead of confronting him,she will simply disappear.She needs to nurture and will give the man orders,but only for his own good.She will make sure he is eating properly and getting enough sleep,sort of like a mother nurturing a child.What she needs in return is a man to protect and cherish her,make her feel like she is needed and loved.She might almost be clingy and dependent but never overbearingly.Her partner will become of better half.She needs patience and sympathy and you have to be gentle with her.Don't poke fun or tease and definitely do not reject her harshly because she can't stand rejection.She is extremely romantic and will lose herself in the relationship.The Pieces woman is the ultra feminine nuturer,the ideal woman for the right man.

What it's like to date a Pieces man:

Pieces man is the ultimate romantic,the sensitive man who feels with a woman.Pieces male is the ideal zodiac sign for the woman who complains that men are not sensitive enough,this man is.However,he has such an ideal of romance that is unrealistic and will fall out of love when he realizes that there is no such thing as the perfect woman.This man lives in the world of dreams and he needs a woman to keep him grounded.He always seem to choose the wrong woman,or a woman he can't have like a married woman that way there is no worry about becoming emotionally attached.He needs a woman who can dominate him,but very subtly.She has to be able to help him steer clear of bad habits and bad thoughts.Pieces man needs sensitivity,generosity,and compassion,nurture him and he will nurture you back.A fulfilling emotional relationship for the strong yet sensitive woman.

What it's like to date an Aries woman:

Dating an Aries never lacks excitement.She is hot-blooded,and forceful,so you had better be able to handle the heat!The Aries woman is for the person who like an independent self-driven woman who can fend for herself and is not clingy and needy.An Aries woman requires freedom.For the Aries woman,the best part of relationship is the beginning,then the spark is there and she is trying to catch you to be hers.She will find happiness in a long-term relationship because she enjoys sharing everything with her partner.She will not only have a romantic partner but a best friend too.She has a great need for love and passion but she will never let a man become the master,she considers her partner to be equal.Aries woman are not for domineering men.She will be faithful but she expects the same in return.She can be jealous because she wants a man to give her all of his attention,''all or nothing'',so her jealousy is rooted in her possessiveness,she has to be number one in his eyes.She will always encourage and give strength to her partner so an Aries woman is great to have in times of despair or need,she will always be there for you.In order to have this happy ending,she needs to feel aprreciated and loved.

What it's like to date an Aries man:

An Aries man has a lust for adventure so if you are thinking about having a relationship with an Aries man,be prepared for fast-paced adventure,novelty and excitement.He is always eager to try new things including relationships.That is not to say every Aries man will only provide an exciting and short-lived relationship,but this is usually the case.He might stick around if you are the type of woman that enjoys having the man take the lead and basking in the glory.He enjoys challenge so if you are the woman to offer challenges to him-like playing hard to get-he might stick around longer.Remember,this man is all about the thrill of the chase.Do not however act as if you don't care about him.He needs you to be 'swept off your feet' by him.Appear innocent-hard-to-get and he will be wrapped around your little finger.Never take advantage of the Aries man because his short temper will turn into a fury of anger and he way leave and never look back.

What it's like to date a Taurus woman:

Taurus women are masters in the art of seduction.She will get what she wants but her patience is incredible,she will wait for what she wants.She needs stability and security and will not tolerate a man who is straight with her and leads her along with uncertainly in the future.She is the old-fashioned type,the type of woman who is associated with the drive-in soda shop days of the 60's.
She is down to earth,protective,supportive,loving,devoted and loyal.She is openly affectionate in a relationship.Taurus woman is perfect for the man who likes to be nurtured and pampered,providing you are loyal and devoted.She has alot to give but she requires alot in return.Remember,the Taurus woman is very sensitive although she might not seem so on the exterior.Court her and constantly try to impress her and you will win her heart and she will be yours.Cross a Taurus woman,and her temper will flare,she will become extremely stuborn.If you ever break her trust,it will be nearly impossible to gain it back again.

What it's like to date a Taurus man:

The Taurus man is very sensible,he is not the man to sweep you off your feet.He is practical and down to earth.He wants a high quality woman.He will survery cautiously before he makes his approach.He is very patient when it comes to a relationship.He will survey the situation and make sure the woman has something to offer him,before he offers himself.Taurus man is a romantic man,he will put his woman on a pedestal,protect her and cherish her.Once he has chosen his woman,he will be very generous,loyal and faithful.He is not a boring man,but he is not for the woman who craves adventure and excitement.Taurus man is for the woman who craves stability and comfort,he is an incredible provider and is a very fine choice as a partner for the right woman.He is in it for the long haul so commitment is no problem for this man.

What it's like to date a Gemini woman:

The Gemini woman is truly enchanting.However,dating her might feel more like a friendship than a real relationship due to her casual nature.This is not necessarily a disadvantage for the casual man who is shy away from overly romantic emotions,she is the perfect woman.Since she is the astrology sign of the duality,she offers quite the challenge.On one hand,she needs to be nurtured,loved and catered to and on the other hand,she needs stimulation and novelty.She is very demanding and if you do not provide what she wants,she will be off onto the next adventure pretty quickly.To keep her interested is a challenge,not completely impossible so she is the perfect woman for the man who likes stimulation and a challenge.She needs a partner with a quick mind,she tends to poke and prod at the emotions and the minds of those who are mentally slower than her,make sure you can keep up to her wit or you will briskly be left behind.She is prone to keeping men on a string,not completely heartlessly,she is evaluating if the man is worth her attention and her time.She has no time to waste with a dull man.Once you have her approval,she can easily become jealous.The reason for her is jealousy is that if she is going to open up to a man,when she rarely completely opens up to anyone,she does not want to risk her being deceived or hurt.If you are with a Gemini woman and she becomes jealous,you are on the right track to true love!Gemini women are so exciting that they are worth the effort,you will remember her forever.

What it's like to date a Gemini man:

He is a great date - charming,witty,funny,clever,talkative,creative,adventurous,just make sure you can keep up with him!Women are drawn to Gemini men because of their zest for life and their vitality and enthusiasm.You may have competition to if you are trying to win his heart.Do not expect to win him and keep him all to yourself.He is flighty and dictates his own.He will not allow himself to be pined down and ruled by a woman.You are going to be his sidekick,not his passionate lover.He loves woman and is very good at persuading them and manipulating them with his cleverness getting them into bed,he will say anything to get what he wants.He is the master of seduction.If you are looking for a great fling,the Gemini man is your top choice.

What it's like to date a Cancer woman:

The Cancer woman is a very sensual woman with deep emotions and passion brewing underneath the exterior.To reach these will require time,patience and tenderness.Do not expect to have her open up to you right away and jump into a relationship.She will not make the first move and will not be forward with you.You have to do all the work.Do not try to lead her on because Cancer woman is very in-tune with a person's motivations and she will see right through you.Trust is the single most important thing to Cancer.If you ever betray her trust,you might as well move on.She needs love and security.Cancer is the perfect woman for the man loves to sweep a woman off her feet with romance.She is sensual,sweet and flirty and you two will engage in a gentle,flirtatious dance together while the relationship builds.Once there is a solid,secure foundation,the richness of the relationship will emerge.She is old fashioned,feminine and sensual and patient,if you are the man who can give her what she wants,a relationship with a Cancer woman is wholesome and rewarding and can last a lifetime.

What it's like to date a Cancer man:

The Cancer man will not be direct with you.He will approach you cautiously and slowly.He will be very romantic and flirty and attempt to court you and win your heart with lavish gifts and attention.The reason he will never direct with you is that he has a strong underlying fear of rejection.If you are interested in a Cancer man,you will probably have to make the first move and ask him on a date.He falls in love easily and will make you his whole world.Once you ''belong to him'',he wil hold on to you and can become quite jealous and possessive.This is because he is worried he will lose you to another man and that would crush his spirit.He needs you to be loyal and faithful for he is the same,in a strong and close relationship,Cancer men are the most loyal of the astrology signs.They make excellent lovers for the tender woman who loves romance and being swept off her feet.Cancer is very affectionates and thrives on holding hands all the time,and constant physical contact as he absorbs the situation and experiences with his feelings.The cancer man is all about feeling.He might not show it however and might portray a calm and cool exterior but underneath,he feels deeply and intensely.Cancer men are easily offended so do not jokingly make fun of them for they will take offense and get hurt,but once again,this will not be known to you.He will simply sulk on his own while he tries to figure out and dissect what you said.Cancer men are excellent male protectors,they are like knight in shining armor.If you are the kind of woman that likes being looked after and cared for,and loves affection and devotion,this romantic,sensual man is perfect for you.

What it's like to date a Leo woman:

The first step is to give her praise and adoration.The relationship will never work if she does not receive this from you.Do not look at other women when you are with her,she has to be the only one in your eyes.The thought of competition with other women completely turns her off,for she is marvellous and grand and better than other women (in her eyes)!Be prepared however to compete with other men.She attracts men,deliberately or not,because of her dazzling personality.She makes a good partner because she gives undying affection and love and makes you really mood about yourself.She is kind and supportive with an adventurous streak,she is always fun to be with.Leo woman will dominate,but not completely for she still needs the man to lead the way and give her the desired sense of approval,she looks up to her man.Leo woman is perfect for the man who is affectionate and has a strong character but not too controlling.She needs someone who is passionate about everything in their life and who strives for the best in everything,because so does she.

What its like to date a Leo man:

The Leo man falls in love easily and it usually does not last.This is because his emotional ideals of grand and magnificent love affair quickly turn into reality.Leo man needs a woman who is grounded and in-tune with the realities of life so she can help him keep his feet on the ground.He may seem like he is casual and detached about love but this is not the case,he needs adoration and approval and if he receives this,he feels quite passionately inside and will treat her with amazing affection and be a wonderful cheerful companion.The Leo man appears to be a rock solid unemotional king but thruthfully,he is very sensitive.He wants a woman who caters to him,not in a demanding way but he thinks he is entitled to this because of how great he is.Leo men are prone to be self-centered but underneath they are gentle and have lots of love to give providing the woman can give him what he wants.Leos get along with just about anyone and just about any type of girl is suited him.The woman who caters to him and overlooks his faults (he thinks he does not have any) and the woman does not nag at him will obviously have preference and a chance at a long term relationship.If the relationship lasts,eventually she will have to teach him that he is not the only great thing in the world.

What it's like to date a Virgo woman:

A Virgo woman is earthly and she may seem cold and detached,but underneath the timid,reserved surface lies the real woman,a strong,passionate woman with a great capacity for strong devoted love.She will play hard to get,she is hard to get for she is worried about exposing her emotional vulnerabilities and getting hurt.She requires patience and you will have to court her and work hard to impress her.Once she is in love,it is for the long term.She will be devoted,loyal and make you very happy and even put a little order in your life.Virgo woman is conservative and old fashioned,a typical woman who is perfect for the man who loves a challenge and likes to take relationship slow.

What it's like to date a Virgo man:

The Virgo man has a cool exterior with a sensitive interior.He has tremendous respect for a woman and will treat her like and equal.He likes woman who stir his emotions because he is reluctant to express his own emotions,which he tries and this often causes conflict not just inside himself,but it spills out into the relationship.This man takes patience and understanding.He will not get extremely close so do not try to enter his psyche and become closely entangled,this will make him feel threatened.He needs a classy woman who is not impulsive or unconventional.He leads a predictable life and a predictable woman will make him feel safe.He is perfect for the down to earth,conventional woman.He won't be romantic and sweep you off your feet,but he will be by your side and be very loyal.This man's sensuality comes out with time.For the woman who wants a stable,solid relationship with a visible,smooth sailing future is perfect for the Virgo man.

What it's like to date a Libra woman:

Libra woman is enchanting and charming,she is the master of the art of seduction.The environment is important for Libra,make sure the first date is somewhere classy and elegant with posh surroundings,such as lunch at an elegant bistro then a walk along the tree lined pathways of a ravine in the summertime with the flowers blooming.Libra will feel at peace and love it.Give her compliments and tell her how much she is appreciated.She may reply bashfully but with each compliments,the radiant glow inside her will shine brighter and brighter.Once the initial seduction is over with and the relationship has become more stable,she will stop her sweet seductive ways,not because she has completely lost interest,but it is because she is lazy in love.She may need a few days away without you,this is like pressing the reset button on the relationship.Be romantic with her and she won't lose interest.Be dramatically romantic,sweet love notes tucked in her pocket,flowers,these things bring great joy to the Libra woman and they make her feel speacial,which is essentially important to the Libra woman.

What it's like to date a Libra man:

The Libra man is very popular with women because he is charming,harmonious and can relate to women on their level-a charateristic of Libra is the ability to see the world through the eyes of others.Libra men do this to seduce the girl and it always works.He always seems to be on the search for the perfect women,unfortunately,that does not exist.The closest thing a perfect woman could do is appreciate and be in awe of his stardom.Look up to him,admire him,he is a sucker for flattery.Do not nag or pick on his inability to make a decision,it will simply put pressure on him.You make the decision if he cannot,he will happily go along with you and deep inside will be happy that you took control.

What it's like to date a Scorpio woman:

Scorpio woman is very emotional,very demanding and very demonstrative.She is full of flair and intrigue,a fascinating woman that the strong A-type personality male will adore,for she presents the right amount of rewards.The Scorpio woman is ultimate seductive,flirtatious woman.She won't give a man her heart very easily because she is weary of trusting another person.The man will have to go through a series of 'mental testes' in order for the relationship to get solid and close.She may not show it,but she wants a close commited relationship.In order for this,this man has to be trusted,has to be affectionate and never try to control her.She is very possessive but the Scorpio woman is so full of mystery,sensuality and passion that most men do not mind being possesed by her.

What it's like to date a Scorpio man:

The Scorpio male is unlike any other men of any other astrology signs.He is so unique that a seperate section is needed to explain about dating the Scorpio man.Unlike most other zodiac signs,what it's like to date a Scorpio woman is very familiar to dating a Scorpio man.The main difference is that instead of presenting a powerful feminine force like the woman,the Scorpio man presents a strong masculine,sexual force.The Scorpio man is easy to seduce and take home for the night,it is much harder to form a real relationship with him.The Scorpio man is very sensitive and feels lonely and unfulfilled,but he will never let a woman know this.Behind closed doors,be sensitive and affectionate to him appeal to his emotions only if you want a close relationship with him,do not attempt to lead him on because he will see this and never forgive you.Toying with a Scorpio male is an unwise move.He will be jealous and possessive and will never allow a woman to control him.Let him take the lead because the Scorpio male is truly a fascinating person,you can never go wrong when he is planning the night.Scorpio men are very moody and their moods change like a pendulum on a clock.Stand by his side in these times and it will pass.Do not nag on him for he has a hard enough time understanding his own emotions.Scorpio men make excellent protectors and you will always feel safe under his radiating,passionate and energetic power.

What it's like to date a Sagittarius woman:

She has a great attitude and always seems to be on the go.Sagittarius woman is for the man with lots of energy and creativity.She likes unconventionality and change,so whisk her away last second to somewhere unplanned and uncharted and she will remember you forever.In order for her to stay,you have to keep her happy.If she gets unhappy or bored,she won't bother to fix any problems,she will just walk out and never look back.Fortunately,it is not that difficult to keep her happy.Be her friend,she does not take love to seriously anyway,if you are her companion,love will blossom after that.Let her have her freedom,flirt with her and take the relationship slowly,do not rush her.Be truthful,genuine,positive and adventurous and never play mind games.The lucky man will not only have a wonderful fun relationship but an adventurous companion as well.

What it's like to date a Sagittarius man:

This man may be difficult to pin down.He loves the thrill of the chase so he may off trying to get other women at the same time you are trying to get him.He is sincere when we says he likes you but he means it to other women when he tells other women the same thing.He is not showy or romantic,and he tends to attract women who like the thrill of the chase themselves,which is not too bad of a gamble.In order to win him over,be modest about love,do not engage him in emotional commitment like conversations about being together in the future.Sagittarius is for the woman who does not want commitment or is afraid of being tied down in a relationship.This man is perfect for the adventurous,fearless female.

What it's like to date a Capricorn woman:

Deep inside,she is romantic and loving but it takes the right man to expose this.On the outside,she may seem like she does not care much for love.The Capricorn woman is perfect for the man who likes challenge.It will take time to get closer to her,never make her rush into a relationship.Be patient because she is.Capricorn woman is very classy,upscale woman.You have to woo her and court her like a lady.Shower her with nice gifts (but not too expensive,she is a very conservative spender and expects you to be also).She will dominate and control the relationship but in her intriguing subtle way,let her take the lead.She won't steer you wrong.She will lead the relationship in the right direction because she is smart and practical.She will offer you a long lasting,real,loyal relationship with all the right ingredients for happiness.

What it's like to date a Capricorn man:

The Capricorn man is very physical and passionate but not emotional (on the outside).Deep inside he yearns for love but this takes a long time to become reality,he is very reluctant to place trust in another person.Show him how much you admire him and earn trust gradually over time.He is very faithful,probably the most faithful of all zodiac signs.Underneath his secretive mysterious nature is a romantic streak with a strong sensual side,this side is completely hidden and once unlocked,you will be amazed at the transformation this man has undergone!Patience and trust is the key with a Capricorn man,he has so much to offer to the right woman who will wait for him.

after you have read yours/lover/potential...share with us which one is your horoscope
share with us which sentences describe you / true or not (if u don't mind)

Thank you !

What do you miss the most from her/him?

stacial — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 08:27:37 +0800
Two Questions for all..
Come & Share your experiences la..
The one can be your ex,gf/bf,gf-to-be,bf-to-be,friend and so so so..

1.What are the things do you miss the most from her/him?
2.What are the things you did to her/him that you miss the most?

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let me,Stacial starts 1st :

i miss last friday alot coz i met this cute guy.

1.What are the things do you miss the most from her/him?
I miss his cute look,his voice,his cool look when driving,the way he stared at me,the way he smells my hairs and i miss his smell too. lol

2.What are the things you did to her/him that you miss the most?
I miss the way i disturb him until he felt annoying days before i met him,the moment i take his hand to see his palm (act like fortune teller),the moment i hold his hands.

i cherish that day.

k,thats all for now.i need to attend class edi.bye.

When someone same gender with you

stacial — Tue, 22 Jan 2008 14:20:37 +0800
Hi all,
I would like to ask about the topic stated.

What would you do when someone same gender with you wana tackle you?
How do you feel if this happen to u?
How to reject without hurting them?coz they are quite emotional.

My case:
I don't know why i attract girls but not guys.
This has been happened since i was in secondary school.Girls are the people who show interest on me.
The very first valentine day's gift i received was from a girl.A teddy bear coin music box + a rose when i was in Form 2.
I am not tomboy-ish look alike at all.Just a normal girl on the street.They are the same too.
I am not lesbian.Can't be.I just can treat them like sisters.They like to hold my hands & play with my hairs.I'm ok with that coz they r innocent.
Haizzz..feel like very abnormal.am i really invinsible to guys. speechless.. *scratch my head*

My friend wish to be his valentine

stacial — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 11:42:49 +0800
hi all,

do you help your friend to date the person she/he likes before?
any suggestion on how to help them?

my friend has a crush on this guy.They know each other since standard five but after they have finished their primary studies,they never see each other for years.They contact each other again two years ago via msn.Recently,my friend see him again in college but don't dare to say hi to him coz she feels very shy.She told me that she loves this guy very long time ago edi & wish to be his valentine.She sounds kinda sad+ hopeless.
I feel pity for her.I will see this guy every thursday coz we are in the same club in college.My friend call me to help her to invite him for a movie on this weekend.Coz she is my good friend,I will help her.

well,Valentine's Day is coming soon.1 month to go.So,other than movie,what else they can do?She really hopes to be his valentine this year.
I wish her best of luck!

ok,keep updates.i have to go college now.bye!

Mr. & Mrs. Romantic

stacial — Wed, 02 Jan 2008 14:15:30 +0800
Are you a romantic partner?Is your partner a romantic person?

Well,what is the romantic thing that you wish your partner will do for you?

or

What is the most romantic thing you did for your partner / your partner did for you before?

Mind to share?

Well,there was once i went to Sg.Wang Plaza.There was an event held by 98.8 radio fm.The dj asked any couple would dare enough to go on the stage for a challenge.And there was a daring couple went on the stage.The dj ask the guy to sing a love song & deliver touching words to his girl.This guy accepted the challenge.He sang a chinese song 'ni shi wo zui ai de nu ren' (You are my lovest woman) for his girl.After he has finished singing the song,this is what he said to his girl ...
* God knows me well.God knows what & who i love the most. Football & You.If one day God ask me to choose either football or you,although its a hard decision to make but from the very 1st day i know you,i have already known the answer.I can live without football,but I can't live without you.I NEED YOU & I LOVE YOU,sweerheart!! * wahliao..melting wey!

its real touching & romantic!everyone was clapping hands. ~clap clap clap whistle whistle whistle~ lol
speechless..what is only appeared in my mind was 'Wow,the girl is sooooo lucky to have this Prince Charming'.. i want too!!! lolz...
well,i would salute him for his Hero courage doing that on stage.there were so many audience watching. Awesome!

If u r the guy,do u dare to do so?
If u r the girl,does he melt ur heart?

2 thumbs up.. hehehe

Girl in Action

stacial — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 21:20:57 +0800
hi all,
i would like to ask guys about the topic stated.
how would u feel if a girl takes her courage asking contact number from you?
will you give her?will u be friends with her?
what is your impression towards this girl?
in your opinion,what is the best way to get number from a guy? (face to face,write your contact number in a piece of paper or so so?)

6 months ago i tried once.take number from a guy (he draws my attention) in college.
when i ask him,he give me a sweet smile and give me his number & also ask my number in return.then i pretend to be in rush,leave the place & say bye bye to him.really need a BIG courage to do this!!
after a few minutes,he called me saying in a very excited voice 'Hellooooo,Stanley here.Nice to meet you!Have a nice day!... woowww,happy sia!
we go yumcha sometimes & now we are kinda close friends already.

Curiosity on how a guy feels

stacial — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 23:47:46 +0800
hello guys,i have always been hearing those friends (guys) said sex make them feel greater than in heaven.
really dont understand hows the feel is really like...coz i am not a guy...
Guys,mind to share hows the feel here?wat syoik?wat high?wat heaven?wat paradise?wat nice?n blablabla...
Curious curious...
thanks alot..