In need of advise.

ShatteredDreams — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 20:59:46 +0800

Hi there.
I have a younger brother who sat for his SPM paper 3 years ago.
Needless to say, he failed every subject except 'Perdagangan' and Science.
Because of some problems in the family, and he is a very emotional person ... Unlike me ... I guess?

Now after working full time of odd jobs for 2 years+ , he is regretting everything, and he wants to continue his studies.
He wants to do a Business or Communications Course.
But with his SPM results, is there anything he can do?

He seriously regretting everything and he is dead set on continuing back to study.
He wants to continue and go for a Tertiary studies.
Most people everywhere are looking down on my brother and calling him useless because of his qualifications.
He wants to change his life, and I want to help my brother.

I checked out some colleges, but those courses need at least 5 or 3 credits ...
Which he doesn't have at all. He just have a Credit and a Pass.

Is there any hope at all?
Or he has to retake the whole year of Form 5 again?
I am sorry if I posted at the wrong category.
Thank you and I apologise.

Underarm Hair~

ShatteredDreams — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 21:34:44 +0800

Hi~!
I am not sure if I am suppose to be posting it here or under Fashion & Beauty..
So, If I made any mistakes, please forgive me ... and move this thread to where it should belong.

Girls, I just want to ask how you remove your underarm hair?
Or in other words, your armpit hair.

I heard shaving isn't really good.
Most will use a tweezer, but it cause in-growns and sometimes make the underarm look dark/black?

May I know how to reduce the in-growns/bumps and erm ..."whiten" the underarm?
Not sure of the proper term.

I heard some use waxing ... for the underarm, but is it really safe?

Thanks for reading, and any input is appreciated.

[Updated] Please help...? Advice Needed

ShatteredDreams — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 22:46:50 +0800

Update~
Emm ... Yesterday was his birthday....
He promised me a month ago that we will celebrate together.
Bish...

Due to the upcoming exams I stay with my 'akak' at my home , so I decided to celebrate his birthday there.
My family went back to my hometown.

Emm... So, I really couldn't think what gift to give to his as his birthday present....
So I decided to cook first time in my whole entire life.... [No I am not trying to poison him D:]...
With the help of my 'akak' maid, to watch over me ....
Make sure I don't burn the house into the ground or anything ......
And to teach me what are those complicated utensils are for.
(>.<)" I am quite spoiled ... Never cook and clean in my whole life until yesterday. Bleh.

A wonderful experience I must say .... Though the chicken came out burnt (;_;)
Anyways, the designated time he was suppose to come over to my house was 8pm....
After wait for him 2 hours, still haven't come.
Called him, he was with his friends.

.....

(@_@) In my mind.... I was thinking ... yeah ... friends are really important ...
I understand why he want to celebrate with them... I shouldn't be angry.... Must give space.........
(;_;) .... But I was really sad.... I tried so hard ....
I actually cook and clean ... ok ...... at least tell me earlier?
I don't care he forgot .... Actually, it's even worst if he did.....

So....while thinking all of those, tears stream down while I was still on the phone with him...
Then he said something along these lines ... ' Big girl still want to cry? ' or something.
Bish .... I am sure it was just an innocent statement....
But then, I felt like I was being mocked.... So I got angry...
Sad mixed with angry kind of feeling.

I... then said some harsh words....... [No mood to scream..]
Like .... 'Don't worry, you want hear it again........We breakup de.......You sure got another girl anyways.........."
..... something along those lines.............
And slam down the phone.

I guess I was really reckless ..............................................
And I was stupid to do such things...............
But I just wanted .... aih nevermind...

Bish bish bish.... Bish.
So I deleted him from msn and etc etc....
But the ironic thing is .... I want to burn some stuff that reminded me of him.... But there is none (._.)...
He never really give me any gifts afterall....
I didn't want him to waste his money in the first place.
I off my handphone the whole day yesterday ...

Bish....... Today ... I find 32 miss calls ................. (o.o)"?
I guess he want to call back and say something like stupid girl and etc.

.... Ish.....
No no idea what to say or do d.
Haha....
Emm............
Any advice or whatsoever is appreciated? ....
(;_;)?

*Edit* Sorry for the green code~!!! (>.<)". Change d!
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Heys, I am kind of new here. I do apologize if I am breaking any rules. Please remove this thread anytime if I violated the rules. Once again I apologize if I did do so.

So here it goes~
I am 19 years old, Chinese female~. Currently studying Law, from a average family.

There is this guy, 25 years old....he confessed to me and we became gf/bf.

Yeap.
However, after 1 year of the relationship...
I don't know, a lot of my girlfriends say he is just using me.

For 1 whole year of the relationship, always going out dating, I pay....
Since he is only earning ... RM600 a month .. Highest education he has is SPM.
It is fine with me paying every time we go out ...
But I will really like it, if once in a while he actually did something for me?

For Valentines Day, he was too busy playing games, to even talk to me...
He even spent most of his income on online games.
But I brush it off.... I didn't want to restrict him from doing things he like to do.
Every time I also always call him ...
The only time he called me is usually he ask me to send a message to a certain someone or ask me to buy him Top-Up card for a game called Ran Online.
He did called me once though. That was memorable, since he wasn't asking for anything. Haha.

Btw, I recently found out he is Chinese mixed Malay, meaning he is a Muslim.
No offence to anyone or trying to be racist or whatsoever...
But My parents really do not want us to be with a Muslim.
Since it will definitely bring a lot of problems....

Haih, I really love this guy... But, what should I do?
Should I stay with him? Or stop...?
His birthday is coming up...Haha.. Wonder what should I get him?

In truth, I also feel that he deserves a better girl than me ... More prettier, smart and kind one.
I feel like I should break the bonds, so he would not waste his precious time on a plain, ugly and stupid girl like me.
Writing this post certainly made me feel like I am some sort of materialistic demon....
But I really love him, first time a guy actually confessed to a ugly girl like me?
Haha.

Hehe. Thank you very much for reading. I really appreciate that you took your time to read it.
Ahh. Felt that I just took a load out of my mind.
Hehe. Thanks and sorry~!
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In need of advise.

Underarm Hair~

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