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I got rejected!

microdot — Sun, 30 Dec 2007 02:23:35 +0800

Sigh, kena rejected by the one i love. Say not ready for relationship wor...now things like so awkward. Want to sms and call her oso scared she thinks im a nuisance. What to do ..

Anyone else got encounter this kind of dumb problems before? come come share

[WTA] Good urologists in SJ/PJ/KL area?

microdot — Thu, 15 Nov 2007 21:47:14 +0800

Anyone know of any good experienced urologists around the neighbourhood?? Preferably experienced in surgery and such...Got some problems with my manhood that i need to fix =p ..

And also what is the procedure of surgery and normally how long it takes to recover from a minor one?

Thanks!

Confession Time...help me

microdot — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 22:12:24 +0800

Hey ppl of CC....i have a problem of the heart that id like to share with u all..last time i posted a thread about some girl i liked about 1 month ago...http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/532104

Makes thing short, i like the girl alot and we're close to each other...i was hesitating on whether to confess to her and was confused if she felt the same way about me too. ( Read the prev thread, lazy to type all over again). Anyway, shortly after i posted the last thread up, something happened and we argued and well i made her quite upset...we argued about some stuff like almost everyday..so she got fed up and I got fed up as well and we'rent on speaking terms since then.

Just lately, our relationship got better and we did get back to talking to each other..however we werent as close as we used to be and i somehow felt she did it on purpose...didnt want to get to close to me probably cos i hurt her before....i still like her alot and i feel like i had to have a talk with her and tell her what i felt...but i really dont know when or how to tell her..im not the smooth-talking type and we dont really meet each other that often anymore...less just 2 of us even...so i really need some suggestion on how or when is the time to tell her....i already tried asking her out on a few occasions and she turned me down saying she was busy with stuff...i also expect a rejection la but at least now she knows what i feel...

What say u guys/gals who had experiences of the heart before...what should i do??

*EDIT* Maybe i left this out...the girl is fine...we're fine...just that we arent as close as we used too...and the reason im posting this is because i cant get to ask her out..u know just the 2 of us to have a talk about it...she always reject my invitations..ive thought about calling her and telling her over the phone but god knows what ill say...confessing over the phone is even more difficult than talking in person....so i dont know..what u guys think?

How to tell

microdot — Sat, 06 Oct 2007 00:19:02 +0800

Keep matters short and sweet, i met this girl and which i like ( obviously ). Met her for abt 4 months ago. We got along fine and she was very friendly and funny to me. Our friendship got closer and we enjoyed each others company...constantly texting and calling each other.

the one thing that really got me to fall for her was that we have this sort of intimacy between us. (this is what i feel la..dont know about her) Example when we talk to each other, we stand very close to each other and almost to kissing distance when talking...also we always got eye contact with one another and also she doesnt feel uncomfortable when we're close to each other. ( too close for normal friends) Another thing is that she always share her personal problems with me which i dont think she'd share with any other guys that she is close to.

Anyway the thing that im worried about is that since she is a very friendly girl, she might just be 'friendly' to me. Alot of time when i call her or something, i keep having this thought that she is just been friendly and entertaining me ...not really liking me and stuff...sure you guys gone through some stuff like this before. Girls you know la, one moment can act so friendly towards you, cuddle together with you and next thing she said when u confess is 'i just take you as a good friend'.

So i really want to know how to tell if our feelings for each other could be mutual or its just me been one-sided and stuff...Really appreciate any advice especially those from girls ...how to tell if she sincere and not just been 'friendly'.

PS: Please excuse my insecurity la...dazed and confused atm.Hoping for LYN to shed some light for me