Will you tolerate with such husband?

lsy_alicia — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:19:24 +0800

Just some checking on what others will think...it's going to be a long long story...

I have met this guy 3 years back in my college.. He was my director of student councils and I was quite amired him that time, but not that kinda love. After a few weeks, he left the council but he still having my contacts at msn.

One day, he chatted with me. Through msn and friendster, we started our r/s but he never know how i look like. Finally, one day we decided for a meeting. Our r/s started and for me, he was a very sweet guy. He very romantic, he wrote poems for me, he sing for me... Everyday during my break, i will buy him lunch.. never missed once. For him, he will stay at home, playing his computer game -- DOTA, WOW... He never went to college for lectures or tutorials. I never complained on anything and keep buying him lunch.

Half a year later, i left to Aust. He stayed in Malaysia. In that one year, he has betrayed me and found another gal as my substitute and claimed that is my fault for leaving him alone. They went together for half a year and i wasn't informed about it. July, 07 i came back to Malaysia. I met his friends and all his friends wondering why i was still with him. They tot i know everything but i don't. When i went back again to Australia for my 2nd semester, on the day i reached Sydney, he called me and asked for break up. Fine, i said ok.. he feel surprised for my reaction and started telling me that he was forced to be with that gal and asked for forgiven. Ok, I forgave him.

Now, i'm back to Malaysia and graduated last year. He stayed in my house for temporary because he got some fighting issue with the ex-gf. My mum worry about his safety and asked him to stay in our house. We started to quarrell everyday. Last year, we got engaged and bought a new house. Now, money issue came in. His mother decided not to help him on this. Well, as a wife, i do help him.

This year, our wedding is coming, end of Dec. We are still quarrelling everyday. We even fight. He started to act like an devil. He can just leave me alone when we quarrell in shopping mall. There is once he fetch me to meet his friend. In front of his friend, he can asked me to take taxi back home by myself. When shopping half way, he can just go back by himself. All these because when i said something that he's not happy with, he'll get mad very easily. What he want is something supportive, regardless of whether i agree with it or not.

Yesterday, we went to IKEA and we quarrell again. He left me there and wait at car park. He refused to leave even after i have paid for the ticket. He rather stayed in the car and sleep there, playing his hp there. He just refused to go. He is purposely touturing me because he locked the window and i felt difficult to breath. Then, I said something... He doesn't like it and he choked my neck and slap me in the car and called me as rubbish. Finally i decided to call my mum and he told me that's what he wants, to tell my mum and end this r/s. Then only he willing to leave.

All these 3 years, i have cried so many times because of him. 3rd party, betray, lie... I wonder why am i still so stubborn and stupid. Yesterday, I awoke. My mum decided to make a report to police. Even his mum also ask us to do so... I've been supportive to him all these while, but once i disobey him, he will take me as ntg.. he never appreciate me as a wife...

He complained that i'm crazy... i wonder is i crazy or his problem. Really hopeless now...

The Legend of 1900

lsy_alicia — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 11:39:38 +0800

Anyone here that heard of The Legend of 1900? Did you all know can get the VCD or DVD of this movie? Anyone of you have the piano notes for all the songs in this movie? I need this urgently as a special gift for my loves one..

The Legend of 1900

lsy_alicia — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 16:24:41 +0800

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Will you tolerate with such husband?

The Legend of 1900

The Legend of 1900