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Must must must camp for her!

KirklandLee — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:53:50 +0800

I am seeking advise again.

please help me this time. I been in pain for the last few days. Yes spannar king is in pain.

I promise to post up the convo.

I'll take up where i left off.

below is the story

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1092587

I'm schememing to spanner her back!

KirklandLee — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 12:29:23 +0800

Alright. I lost the battle but not the war.

I am gonna fight for her and get her back to me.

Based on my previous thread, i had another plan instead but now im reverting to the original plan. I'm going to hunt her down.

2 days ago she actually told me her father confirmed has arranged the marriage of her to another man in shanxi.

I am very bitter now and i will spanner her from him. I will ruin the wedding and burn the father by throw money in his face. Since chinese culture is about money, i will do whatever it takes in my power to get her back even if it take me 5 to 10 years.

I will spanner her back!!!

Any advise?

I need help: Should I go ahead or let go?

KirklandLee — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 01:09:06 +0800

Good day to everyone here.

Alright, I been holding back to create another thread but this time I am pretty serious in asking opinions and i hope my haters or mods could just give me this opportunity to seek for some advise or opinions. This is not a rant or anything, I just need to gather some information or opinions in order to execute my next move.

Here it goes, I'll try to make it short and simple and precise.

I been dating a girl and we are in a LDR relationship, everything has been good for the last few months when I first met her until a couple of days ago.

What actually happen is that last week or two weeks ago I haven't been communicating with my girl via QQ as often as before as I am pre-occupied with work. However, I did do my part to call her as often as I can whenever I could.

So what happen is that every time I call her recently, she said she is very troubled and didn't want to talk much to me cos she is busy looking for work which is fair enough. However, what happen recently, is that last sunday evening i gave her a call and somehow we got into a small heated conversation. Finally she told me not to call her anymore, then i said why, cos i mean, everything is too overwhelming for me. Then finally she said to me, that her father back in her hometown wants her to return back to home and marry some guy there. When she said that to me, My heart fell down 100 floors down to the ground and shattered into pieces. Her voice was reluctant but she just told me not to call her anymore after that.

I tried to persuade her however, all I can remember she said to me this "你在马来西亚,我在中国.你觉得我们可以吗?我想不可能." (for banana's which means "You're in malaysia and I am in china. You think we can make it? I think it's impossible". That sentence is like a death sentence to me, my heart just stop beating when she said that.

I am still trying some ways and somehow to change her mind cos I know something very wrong has happen and I don't believe that what she said it the truth. I got my airplane ticket ready and been planning to visit her, but now all this came up and somehow all my plans are ruined and crushed.

Then I logged into her QQ and I saw this

" 我选择我爱的。。我爱我选择的。。

既然已经选择了。。我就要努力爱到底。。。

如果爱到只剩下责任感。。那还不如让彼此都退出。。

没有爱的责任感只是一个空套子。。只要深爱着对方。。

这种责任感就会静悄悄的降临。。啊天哪。。。。。。"

which means:

I choose my love. . I like choosing. . Since I have chosen. . I must love diligently. . . If love is only about a sense of responsibility. . That might as well the both of us let go. . Has not loved the sense of responsibility is only a spatial sheath. . So long as is loving opposite party deeply. . This kind of sense of responsibility will eventually come. . Oh. . . . . .

It's hard to directly translate it into english but you get the rough meaning.

Now she doesn't pick up my calls or reply my sms. I am thinking now, what should I do? Should I go there and find out what's going on and pursue this or just let go as she wants it to be. I am a fighter but sometimes things are beyond my control due to other factors like her family and sort cos tradition comes into the picture now.

Should I pursue or let go?

I just don't want to continue another cycle of looking for another. I'm trying to kick the playboy or spanner status. (Yes, I am trying to do so nothingzz )

I am serious here. So need some opinions. Thank you very much for hearing and reading this.

Which morning beverage is better?

KirklandLee — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 10:18:41 +0800

We all grew up with these beverages but somehow I couldn't find my horlicks at certain mamaks but mostly in kopitiams.

I am a huge fan of horlicks cos I been brought up with horlicks. So which do you prefer horlicks or milo?

I have a crush on my girlfriend's friend. ahaks

KirklandLee — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 00:00:06 +0800

God please help me....As per title.....She so nice to me....ahaks

so cute

TF 2 Movie

KirklandLee — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 15:04:16 +0800

i don't care about spoilers.

Optimus prime mati in this movie. wahahahaha

Why not ube the dream person of the relationship?

KirklandLee — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 09:38:49 +0800

Dear Friends, Haters, enemies or whoever you are,

I been going through CC over and over again and everyone is always in the mood for love. Each and everyone here has their lovely POV on love and relationships.

Honestly, I do enjoy CC cause they're so many wonderful and interesting characters here. It's like playing Fallout 3, you meet different characters and they all respond either smartly or stupidly to you. Which makes the whole ball game interesting.

Today I am just going to touch on the common issue as most yuppies today are facing in CC. "I am in love with this dream girl of mine. How do I obtain or get her to notice me or something like that" topic.

Many of our posters or the list of topics will be titled - "seeking advise" on how to approach this certain girl. Many views were given and constructive advise and sarcasm too.

But I got a better solution for these yuppies. Why not you be their DREAM MAN/WOMAN instead of these girls/guys being your dream thingy. Wouldn't it be easier that way? There are many benefits being their DREAM PERSON.

benefits are:

- no more sleepless nights
- a relationship without worry
- unconditional love from him/her
- less money problems
- more attention
and more i have not mention cause being a dream man/woman of that person you get more perks.

Why try so hard to please the other party when you are gambling your time and money away. It's like playing Russian roulette, a lethal game of chance with a revolver in hand.

But hey, maybe some of you guys out there have different opinions to share or explain and I sure do accept constructive criticism or comments. Please share.

You know I do enjoy a little flaming here and there.

how to 9 local girls. hehe

KirklandLee — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 12:03:48 +0800

It's been months that i visited LYN CC.

Anyway, I just join this company and saw a few cute looking accounts girls but i think they're really young but heck like I really care.

There this one accounts girl i mean 2 or 3 keeps passing along my cubicle area. Kinda cute to me.

Anyway, how to approach them ar?

I always have no luck with local malaysian chinese girls so i end up not bothering about them at the end of the day.

I have a girlfriend who is currently overseas but i dont mind having a local girl cos it would be easier for me lah. I just want to have some choices before I get tied down.

So can give out some pointers ar? So hard to 9 local girls these days la...hahaha

断点

KirklandLee — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 11:00:39 +0800

靜靜地陪你走了好遠好遠
(I silently walk along with you for a long way)
連眼睛紅了都沒有發現
(I don't even notice that my eyes have gone red)
聽著你說你現在的改變
(Listening to you telling your recent changes)
看著我依然最愛你的笑臉
(Looking at my favorite smiling face of yours)

連這條舊路依然沒有改變
(This road hasn't change since)
以往的每次路過都是晴天
(It was sunny everytime I passed by)
想起我們有過的從前
(Recalling the past that we had)
淚水就一點一點開始蔓延
(My tears start streaming down)

我轉過我的臉　不讓你看見
(I turn away my face, not to let you see)
深藏的暗湧已經越來越明顯
(My inner feelings start to burst out)
過完了今天　就不要再見面
(After today, don't we see each other)
我害怕每天醒來想你好幾遍
(Because I'm afraid that I'll miss you everytime I wake up)

我吻過你的臉　你雙手曾在我的雙肩
(I kissed your face before, your hands had been on my shoulder)
感覺有那麼甜　我那麼依戀
(How sweet it was and how much I miss it)
每當我閉上眼　我總是可以看見
(Everytime I close my eyes, I can see)
失信的諾言全部都會實現
(that all the false promise are actually true)

我吻過你的臉　你已經不在我的身邊雖然你不在我的身邊
(I kissed your face before, but now you're not with me / Even though you're not with me)
我還是祝福你過得好一點
(I still wish that you are happy)
短開的感情線　我不要做斷點
(Our relationship breaks, yet I don't want to be the breaking point)
只想在睡前　再聽見你的　蜜語甜言
(What I wish is only to hear your sweet words before I sleep)

women, godsent or headaches? XD

KirklandLee — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:15:15 +0800

Wassup people..

haven't been in LYN for a long time so anyway just wanna get opinions again.

are women headaches or a godsent from heaven?

I been seeing another girl and she was all nice and all....yum yum....

but still keeping my distance and not making the same mistakes i used to do.

so what say u? headaches or godsent?

i decided to ask all the questions related to CC

KirklandLee — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 19:52:56 +0800

About how many guests attended your wedding?
How many guests would you invite to your wedding?
At what age do most people in your country get married?
At what age do you want to get married?
At what age did you get married?
Describe a perfect date.
Describe the appearance of the person you would like to date?
Describe the character of the person you would like to date?
Do women usually work after getting married in your country?
Do you "go Dutch" when dating?
Do you know what it means to 'go Dutch'?
Is it usual for people in your country to 'go Dutch' if you go out together?
Do older girls/boys have a problem dating younger girls/boys?
Do younger girls/boys have a problem dating older girls/boys?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Do you think some people know that they will fall in love with someone the first time they meet?
Do you know what a 'blind date' is?
Have you ever been on a blind date?
Did you ever arrange a blind date?
Do you drive or take the train when dating?
Do you get along with your in-laws?
Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Where did you meet your him/her?
What does he/she look like?
Do you know anyone who has had an arranged marriage?
Do you know someone who has gotten a divorce?
Do you know the difference between love and like?
Can you still love your partner and not like him/her?
Do you think a boy should pay for everything on a date?
Do you think arranged marriages are a good idea? Why or why not?
What is your opinion of arranged marriages?
Do you think fairy tales influence our choice of a partner?
Do you think getting married means giving up freedom?
Do you think if you get married that you will change?
Do you think it is better to be single or to be married?
Do you think it is good to get married?
Do you think it is okay for a couple to live together before getting married? Why or Why not?
Do you think it is okay to marry someone of a different race?
Do you think it is okay to marry someone with a different religion?
Do you think it's OK for a man to have two wives?
Do you think it's OK for a wife to have two husbands?
Do you think it's okay for a man to have a mistress?
Do you think it's okay for a man to hit his wife?
Do you think love is necessary to have a good marriage?
Do you think marriage is necessary?
Do you think marriages based on love are more successful than arranged marriages?
Do you think marriage is very stressful for women? How about for men?
Do you think people change after getting married?
Do you think religion influences marriage? If so, in what ways?
Do you think that all adults should be married?
Do you think that you can you find eternal love through the Internet?
Do you want a husband (or wife) who is older, younger or the same age as you?
Do you want to have children?
If so, how many?
Have you ever been to a school dance?
Have you ever had a crush on someone?
Have you ever hated loving someone?
Have your parents ever disapproved of any of your relationships?
How long do you think couples should know each other before they get married?
How many children would you like to have?
How often would you like to go out on dates?
How old were you when you had your first boyfriend or girlfriend?
How old were you when you went on your first date?
Where did you go?
What did you do?
Who did you go with?
How old were your parents when they got married?
If your husband or wife has an affair what would you do?
If your parents did not approve of a person you loved and wanted to marry, would that be a difficult situation for you? Why/Why not?
Is going out on dates important for you?
Is there a such thing as a perfect relationship for you?
If you could go out with anyone, who would it be?
If you are a man, and a woman asks you for a date, do you feel you should pay, or that the woman should pay?
If you had to marry either a poor man whom you really loved, or a rich man whom you did not love, which would you choose?
If you had to choose to live with someone who truly loves you but you don't love him back or to live alone for a rest of your life loving someone that doesn't love you who would you choose?
What advice would you give to someone whose partner hates their best friend?
What age do you think is best for getting married?
What are some dating and marriage customs in your country?
What are some of the main reasons people get divorced?
What are some popular places to go on a date?
What are some qualities that you think are important in a spouse or partner?
What characteristics do you look for in a girlfriend or boyfriend?
What do you consider cheating in a dating relationship?
What do you like to talk about when on a date?
What do you look for in a girlfriend or a boyfriend?
What do you think most people talk about when dating?
What do you think of people who get divorced?
Would you ever consider getting divorced?
What do you think of same-sex marriages?
What do you think of single mothers?
What is a wedding ceremony like in your country?
What is the best way to keep your spouse happy in the marriage?
What kind of boy/girl do you like?
What kind of clothes do you wear on a date?
What kind of man do you want as a husband?
What kind of person do you want to get married to?
What kind of woman do you want as a wife?
What makes a good husband/wife?
What makes a happy marriage?
What do you think are some things that contribute to a successful marriage?
What qualities are important to you in a boyfriend or girlfriend?
What qualities in a partner are important to you?
What was the most boring date you've ever been on?
What was the most interesting date you've ever been on?
What would you consider "the perfect date" for you?
What would you do if your soon to be mother-in-law seems to hate you?
What would your parents think if you don't get married?
When did your parents get married?
Where do you want to go for your honeymoon?
Where did you go for your honeymoon?
Where do you want to go on your honeymoon?
Where is a good pace to go on a date in this town?
Where would you like to go on a date?
Which is more important for you, your job or your marriage?
Why do people break up with their partners?
Will you continue working after you get married?
Would you date someone you really liked if your parents did not like him or her?
Would you ever marry someone who has been divorced twice?
Would you introduce your date to your family?
Would you live with your parents after you get married?
Would you marry someone from another country?
Would you marry someone ten years older than you? How about ten years younger than you?
Would you marry someone that your parents didn't like?
Would you marry someone who couldn't speak the same language as you speak?
Would you mind if your boyfriend/girlfriend went out to party without you?
Would you prefer to go out with a quiet or a talkative person?
At what age do you think that dating should begin?
Do you think there is any age when a person is too old to date?
Do you know a happily married couple?
Can you name a famous happily married couple?
What do you think is the most important ingredient in a good marriage?
How long is the marriage ceremony in your country?
Who designed the marriage covenant?
What do you think about dating a friend's ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend?
Does your first love still hold a special place in your heart? Do you believe that he or she will always have a special place in your heart?
What qualities do you look in your partner?
Do you think its possible to wait for the man or woman you love while he or she is in jail?
What is your definition of love?
Would you wait on a person you were dating for a long time if they joined the army?
How about if they went to prison?
What is the best season to get married?
Do you know anybody who has two families at the same time and supports them both?
How many families can you have in your country?
Are there any superstitions on making someone fall in love with you?
Have you heard of any successful "love potions?"
Have you ever returned a gift to your boyfriend or girlfriend and later find out that he has given it to his/her new mate?
Do you know of any superstitions connected with weddings?
Would it be important for you to have a "white wedding'?
Can you control your partner by playing games?
Why do you think the bride's maids wear white.
When should you introduce your boyfriend/girlfriend to your parents?--when you begin dating, after you have been together for a while, only when the relationship is serious? Why?
Do you like to have boy friend or girl friend in your school or in your classes?
Do you think it is right to continue seeing a person if he has not introduced you to his family yet?
In your opinion is marriage for life?
Do you think when people get married it is really until death?
How long does it take for dating to become a relationship?
Is it important to be punctual in your first date? Why?
Would you dress up for a first date? What clothes would you wear?
What kind of place do you think is the ideal for a first date? Why do you think so?
What are your country's norms or laws on displays of public affection?
Do you think it is okay for couples to kiss in public?

My current GF don't allow me to break up with her

KirklandLee — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 18:42:29 +0800

Alright another chapter of my love life story...

I told my current GF that I am dating another girl but did not tell her it was her friend....

So she said, why everytime you call me asking to break up...then i said can or not? then she said cannot...Then i said why not? give me a reason not to break up....Then she was so firm and egoistic saying no reason and i wont tell you so you cannot break up with me...

and i was like the fcuk....then she put down the phone and i called her back she didn't answer....then i smsed her said alright alright...you win..

next day called her and then i just listened to wat she said....damn so much for my manly pose....wat a wuss i am...

so my other gf i told her....she said slowly lo.....so i was alright.....sienz....

now i am forced to have 2 gf...." (change now I WANT TO)

I need some ideas or a reason to break up.

KirklandLee — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 16:06:16 +0800

Alright its official. I now have two GF. One is my current and the other is her friend who just became my GF on the 7/01/09.

Right now, I don't know how to bring the house down to my current GF.

My good bro told me to let it die of since she doesn't care about me.

Any ideas?

besides being honest and ideas?

What to get her? It's her birthday on tomorrow.

KirklandLee — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 12:35:55 +0800

From my recent thread I been seeing a girl whom is my girlfriend's friend.

So I haven't broke up yet but i already gave her some hints anyway. But back to topic.

It's her birthday tomorrow and she told me to find her on her birthday.

Suddenly one of my good bro suggest to me, why not see her at 12am tonight and give her a suprise at the same time ask her to be my girl.

so what should i get her? nothing expensive and fancy. cake maybe and a plush doll?

suggestions needed pls

Advice needed - Going out with current GF's friend

KirklandLee — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:29:08 +0800

Yo! As I am having my late night crackers I decided to ask some opinions.

You see, my girl is pouring the cold water on me. She is very uncaring etc etc. but I still am okay with that but now I am seeing one of her friend. Not a close friend of hers but I got to know she is a friend of hers.

Somehow she is very caring towards me and we been in contact regularly lately. I don't wanna make any hasty decisions now but I did pop a question to her.

I asked her:

Would you want to be my girl?

做你的女人朋有吗?

Then she replied.

I been waiting for you to ask me for a long time already.

我愿意.等你这句话我都瞪了好久了

So I was like...oh my my.....I am a bit confused well..not really cos she treats me better but it wouldn't be fair to my current girl. So any opinions?

Question: Posters in CC what is your age?

KirklandLee — Sat, 03 Jan 2009 22:09:33 +0800

I just want to find out what is the age group here?

So I can actually understand what sort of group or people I am exchanging views with.

This is a general question.

I'm asking age and not sex gender.

I'll start off first.

27 years of age here.

My Girl and I'm a bit frustrated.

KirklandLee — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 10:32:53 +0800

Alright serious stuff people and seeking opinions here.

You see I am in a relationship with my girlfriend for about a good year now and from the first day I met her she was very very nice and cute to me.

But sometimes when I am with her or talking to her over the phone she doesn't seem to care much about how I feel.

Of course after I grind and lecture her over the phone, then only the next day she starts to be nice to me again and treat me good but after a while it goes back to phase 1 and I have to re-educate her again and again.

You see, she doesn't like me to lecture her alot but from the way I see it if she had at least did some of the things I asked, then I wouldn't lecture her and for her to avoid me lecturing her, she just has to take my advice.

Yeah, I know I sound like Hitler or something but this is the only way I can see for her to improve.

I did try the caring boyfriend approach but from then she started to take advantage of the situation which I cannot tolerate. So, any advices or opinions here?

Oh yeah! She's a wild animal...At first she looked docile but later I found out my girl is into late night partying and takes K. Awesome huh! But I still love her and thats why I am asking some advices here.

没有你的日子我真的好孤单。。

KirklandLee — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 13:55:35 +0800

没有你的日子我真的好孤单。。对不对？

好想我的女人朋友。。。好想她。。。。

Which would you prefer? A or B or C?

KirklandLee — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 09:07:14 +0800

Seriously!

I need to find out.

Which do you prefer A or B or C?

___________________________________________________________________________

Alright...I'll make it more interesting.

Below are three of my ex's. Which would you prefer?

I will explain their personality later. I regret leaving one, please guess which one.

A

B

C

Mystery girl revealed!

KirklandLee — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 21:57:44 +0800

So there I was about 6pm + with my friend to pick her up for a drink.

We been smsing each other for some time then suddenly she came up to us and I was like OMG!

OMG! she is totally different how I expected her to be. She is 19 and has a kid 18 months old.

There were we in the car and my friend was saying "yes!!!" "yes!!!"

and I was so dissapointed but we still went for a drink, but she was so busy smsing her friend. Which my friend was a bit pissed off about.

Then, after today i decided to reduce my smses to her....sucks man....really sucks...

well sucks to be me at this moment.