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My advise to humanity as a chosen one

somewhataut — Wed, 30 Jul 2025 09:49:43 +0800

Action Plan
1) Show god our ability to love, not our intelligence or capability. Make it touching and warm. Realign mainstream ideology back to human right, environment etc

2) Let go of pride, strive to do good for the ones we love, not for proving ourself in the eyes of others or respect. Never make decisions out of pride

Humanity’s Mistake
1) Targeting the Chosen Ones. The chosen ones’ perception and what we felt have impacts on the world. Isolating, containing, denying us is a huge mistake. You should not have cheated god by containing our feelings, thinking this will show god a blank paper thus stabilising the world. It is equivalent to showing god the middle finger, you do this because of your pride.

2) Replacing mainstream ideology with the law of jungle. If we reduce civilization to the law of jungle, we are no different than animals. The world is not as simple as the strong survive.

Conclusion
I have never experienced love, but I have witnessed it. Therefore I still love humanity no matter how they treated me, this is what I will say if god ask me.

Any other targeted/chosen individual feeling weird

somewhataut — Tue, 29 Jul 2025 21:44:17 +0800

I heard that our time has come, we are leaving soon?

I can't do anything, extremely tired, blood work all normal, sleep alot eat alot still tired, i think near the end ady, they said 2025 is the end.

How to volunteer for humanitarian efforts in war

somewhataut — Tue, 15 Jul 2025 00:09:21 +0800

Preferably Taiwanese base, I more comfortable communicating in my mother tongue

What to do with my finances? I have 20k cash left in bank account, 100k car loan And 250k house loan. I not planning to come back

Would you rather get oku diagnosis or struggle?

somewhataut — Mon, 02 Jun 2025 21:21:27 +0800

Here’s the dilemma

Why need diagnosis: to receive all the help you need. There are pretty sophisticated programs designed to give meaning and dignity to autistic people’s lives. End the struggle, and stop getting villainised

Why you may not want a diagnosis: it is not a disease that can be cure. And, it becomes impossible for you to get a decent date, I have never seen an attractive girl dating mental oku, and you become a DEI employee that only deserve certain amount of pay.

The way I see it I see no point of enduring all the struggle, I’m already an incel (not having anyone romantically attracted to me). But there’s something scary about the diagnosis as a death sentence to your dream of romance. There is no going back. You give up that little bit of hope for comfort

Weird encounter at mental health institution

somewhataut — Wed, 28 May 2025 07:56:48 +0800

2022: went there for antidepressants, diagnosed as major depressive disorder, prescribed two drugs, one of them typically used for schizophrenia, they said it is just booster, I questioned and refused, they said ok

Stopped going for two years

2025: went there looking for anxiety drug, doctor prescribed another schizo drug alongside the anxiety drug, I asked why schizo drug, he said I’ve been taking this all along. I said I never came for two years. The doctor confused and asked the nurse. She said i came few months ago, I said no. The record shows I’ve been taking this schizo drugs for don’t know how long. I acted like nothing then paid and left quickly.

What could be the reason behind this? They mixed up?

I have a lot of creepy theories

Where to find oku vs pinoy vs Vietnam date

somewhataut — Fri, 11 Apr 2025 08:16:46 +0800

So I have dated many girls ranging from attractive to fat, they have all blocked me eventually for no reasons after two or three dates sometimes six, I couldnt get an explanation from them because they ceased contact with me without any warning sign, this pattern is consistent regardless of whether they are attractive or fat. as a timid and weak soul it is natural for me to seek options that are more likely to be accepting

I approached organizations of autism and Down syndrome and similar form of dysfunction, but the persons in charge said they this is not something they can help with

I also approached a Vietnam agency, they demanded a large sum and they have a tendency of stealing your money on top of the sum paid then run away, how is this risk managed?

Since I have also read somewhere about dating pinoy maids so I’m wondering where to find them? I have no idea where to start

A bit tired of all these, I spent too much time and energy over these years so I really appreciate some guidance

Surviving 5 years of psychological warfare

somewhataut — Sun, 06 Apr 2025 20:25:12 +0800

Let’s celebrate with a speech

Listen here
https://files.fm/f/kh9srmckkx

How to lower the bar for dating?

somewhataut — Sat, 05 Apr 2025 12:47:19 +0800

I tried dating fat girls and they all ghosted me after some time

So I’m wondering what are the more accessible options?

Perhaps OKU? Where to find?

ACT therapy for Incels. Does it work?

somewhataut — Mon, 24 Mar 2025 06:48:24 +0800

Incel: someone who can’t get a gf despite wanting one

ACT: Acceptance and commitment therapy

ACT framework is designed to help patients cope with circumstances they can’t change, so that they handle life adversaries better

In the case of incels, it the loss of youth, the meaninglessness of life that is fading into nothingness accompanied by the brutal march of time

It can be very hard to accept it

But when you look at it further, if non-billionaire can accept not being a billionaire, why is it so hard for incels to accept being an incel? is it because love companionship or oxytocin-stimulating activity is a basic human necessity? in such case isn’t relationship a human right? why do we ignore the human right of incels?

How cum scam city victim life so fruitful?

somewhataut — Wed, 19 Mar 2025 19:05:31 +0800

I thought raided ady

https://www.facebook.com/61573925927503/pos...W47gQKCU7eipGl/

What If Reality Revolves Around Mr. Nobody

somewhataut — Tue, 18 Mar 2025 22:19:37 +0800

Most theories about simulated realities, higher beings, or hidden controllers focus on celebrities, world leaders, or people with obvious influence. But what if reality is actually shaped around someone completely unknown, just an ordinary person going through life, unaware of their significance?

Movies like The Truman Show and The Nines explore this idea in different ways, but they still focus on people who stand out in some way. What if the real subject of a grand design isn’t prominent? What if they’re just… someone?

Would they ever realize it? How would it change their perspective? And if you were that person, how would you even know?

What would you do if you are starring Truman Show?

somewhataut — Sun, 16 Mar 2025 23:46:39 +0800

when you have found out it's all fake, your job, financial obligations, family, do they still matter?

How likely for incel terrorism to occur here?

somewhataut — Fri, 14 Mar 2025 20:28:53 +0800

If we support the losers of free market (poor people),

Why are the losers of the dating marketplace abandoned?

From social science perspective, the aid given to poor people is to stabilise the society, so that the bottom don’t flip the table and destroy the system

With the number of incels on the rise, are you worried about the resentment from incels?

How many of us are incels?

somewhataut — Fri, 07 Mar 2025 21:09:35 +0800

I believe my last thread got removed because of terrorist recruitment, this time I don’t mention terrorist, if violation again pls let me know

Satisfying ALL of the following makes one an incel:
- 28 and above
- never had a gf
- want a gf

I don’t know how other incels are sustaining. Personally I’m bored af, i find nothing interesting and i have no one to spend time with, fapping also lack sensation already, I don’t even care if I die

Help a targeted individual

somewhataut — Sat, 23 Nov 2024 08:25:43 +0800

Total isolation

I’m only allowed to talk to people arranged by them, namely colleagues family, whenever I know someone outside, they eventually ghost me, it’s really frustrating

I don’t want to live like this anymore, it’s like jail

What targeted individuals/chosen ones need to do?

somewhataut — Tue, 05 Nov 2024 19:35:31 +0800

I’m isolated from any form of relationships

Do the chosen ones remain single their whole life?

somewhataut — Mon, 21 Oct 2024 23:19:29 +0800

Since some years ago I’ve been experiencing something so other worldly that I cannot explain in a few words. For some reason without actually searching or even knowing about the chosen ones, my feed was suddenly filled with such content. I became fully convinced that I’m a chosen one because something as rare as my experience was being described in those content.

If the descriptions of the content were correct, there are plenty of souls who are aware of our existence and can recognize us, so I do not need to explain further about the chosen ones.

My question is for those who are aware

Since the day I became aware of being chosen, l have gotten zero genuine match on dating apps, to make it worse ive been isolated because my friends ceased contacts with me, and i lost my sex drive. I have exhausted all options including real life match making, women reacted positively at first and even went out a few time, however it was always after a while they would give reason like they have no time, or they are not my ms right, or simply blocked me. They always went from extremely positive reaction to extremely negative without anything happened in between. It has become conclusive to me that there is a greater force at play.

Some chosen ones content did mention that we are kept single on purpose for a greater purpose. It really bothers me about wasting my youth on not dating

My question is do we ever find love before 30? Is there anything we can do to be granted one quickly?

Incel should be classified as a disability

somewhataut — Wed, 17 Jul 2024 00:07:29 +0800

Anyone wants to work with me to make my manuscript citation-worthy? if social science students cite it to justify their study on incel in asian context, we reinforce the legitamacy

1. Debunking
1.1 Myth: incel does not exist, they are lazy bugger who refuse to improve themselves.
1.2 Truth: incel exist because of natural selection, in animal kingdom this is propelled by traits that help you survive and reproduce (typical through mating). In human world, we have nothing threatening an individual's survival, it is driven purely thru mating. Our gene pool continues to improve, this is evident from children's charisma & intelligence, exponential innovation, as well as height and other physical appearance. Which indicates the existence of genetic selection, not everyone wins, the losers have their gene discarded from the pool because of failure to find a mate, they are the incels. but they are allowed to live a lifetime if they are productive, salvaging their productive energy as much as possible to serve as ROI for the resources invested in sustaining them (which is brilliant), if they aren't productive they become homeless, starve till malnutrition etc, putting themselves in situation where they die early (sickness, lack of shelter, risk-taking due to lack of motivation to sustain life etc etc). Even if they are productive, they are prone to mental illness leading them to high-risk living. If you look at human society this way you can really see the evolution mechanism in every corner, everything falls in place to propel the human race into the dominant species.

2. Justification for disability status
2.1 Introduction
it's a violation of human right, prevent radicalization.

We all face stress/misery for the sake of pursuing a life with dignity which i believe is a human right, sometimes it is just survival. We deem stress as necessary, it occurs in all stages of life. Stress/misery is countered by acts that release dopamine (addictive) or oxytocin (love). For example, addictive narcotics are prescribed to sustain miserable patients' motivation. Your life is not sustainable without the mentioned biochemical release.

2.2 Management of life adversaries differentiated by life stage
When you were kid and overwhelmed, the stress/misery can be managed by transferring to your parents or playing fun things while your dopamine receptors were sensitive (easily feel content).

When you were adolescent, it can be managed by masturbation, effectively releasing dopamine and oxytocin due to puberty.

When you were young adult, it is managed with the embrace of girlfriend, incel may still masturbate cuz still in late puberty where the brain is wired to mate

In adulthood, it is managed by genuine relationship, wife, or kids. You have left puberty and not easily satisfied by masturbation because your system does not release as much dopamine oxytocin by simply masturbating. There is an absence of counterweight for Incels. There should education campaign to change people attitude toward incels from disgust to sympothy.

2.3 Conclusion
The anhedonic life of Incel is already a ground for disability status. It is even more inhumane to put incels through stress/misery that we deem as normal for everyone while everyone else has means of managing it, incels don't.

3.0 Recommendations
3.1 Proposed Admission Framework
Symptoms Development Stage: One must use dating apps and follow advisory board's suggestions to build their profile to get it approved, if the ELO score (google it) falls below certain score, he/she is deemed not fit for dating.

Diagnosis Stage: Unfit persons must engage registered consultants for official diagnosis, and attempt to 'cure' it, in a fashion that mimic cancer stages, for example stage 4 illness = Incel (not curable). If an incel is seen dating someone secretly, it is considered as misdiagnosis or fraud (if alleged incel failed to declare)

Treatment Stage: Stage 1-3 = lifestyle modification etc to make them attractive (measured by changes in elo score). Stage 4 = no cure, goal of treatment is to improve quality of life.

3.2 Proposed palliative care
A) Special Treatment: Enjoy the same privilege with other OKU
B) Dignity assistance: similar to Enabling Academy for autistic professionals, there should be a special workplace designed for incels, doing works that dignifies them without stress
C) Recreation Drugs Prescription: with careful schedule, to release dopamine that will sustain them.
D) many more...to take reference from other categories OKU

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