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            <title>Anyone gt any rent in prominence condo or any othe</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5372833</link>
            <description>Bukit mertajam but bm city i heard is gt electricity and water unsafe problem and gt suicide, so i dare not go there rent&lt;br /&gt;Can anyone help me quickly to rent a place in bandar perda bukit mertajam near lorong perda utama /selatan 1&lt;br /&gt;Walking distance since j didnt have personal transportation&lt;br /&gt;🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢😢&lt;br /&gt;I do find the rent initially in prominence condo but it is taken other rent since i am wait for second interview&lt;br /&gt;Frustrated&lt;br /&gt;Cant find any safe place single female rent in penang&lt;br /&gt;If any of you have rent in bandar perda condo, or house single female room aroun rm 450&lt;br /&gt;Please contact me at icyrabbito@gmail.com&lt;br /&gt;Thank you&lt;br /&gt;Really need penang people help&lt;br /&gt;Cause i am travel from kampar to penang wit budget rm 150</description>
            <author>Jojo kim</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 16 Apr 2023 10:49:22 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Fuck this person fuck this who sabotage me</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5368874</link>
            <description>Lot of stress take it out on me by swear at me and disrespect me i feel offended and hide a lot of information from me keep me in dark i didnt want to tolerate him anymore he take iut out on sister swear and disrespectful to sister and verbal abuse in joke manner and sister take it out on me like a cycle, also sister is in contact with abuser narc and so she behave like her also verbal abuse me in joke manner as well, and i cant tolerate it i feel offended but i did t know if apologu is real or fake i just cant stand his insincerity and he talked behind my back with sister negatively&lt;br /&gt;I try to create distance from them by loiter in commom area and didnt want to sleep in room and in room causs i know i feel outcasted and negatively laughed at and make fun of in jole manner i didnt knkw if it is me or it is then the moment i walk into the room i feel ignored in subtle&lt;br /&gt;Feel uncomfortable&lt;br /&gt;Negative&lt;br /&gt;Should i confront narcissist?&lt;br /&gt;Is narcissist&lt;br /&gt;Am i sensitive&lt;br /&gt;Am i crazy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am try to escape emotionally abuse while rent tgt with abusive psychologically and emotional vampire sibling, while i try to keep surface peace act like i like them&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I try to live in other house common area rent free while wait job interview, and while i use the electricity and water homelessly without pay, i didnt know who reported me to the management and fucked those fucker tell them go die, i now have to move back with abuser and live with them and act all happy while tolerate toxic behaviour, should I communicate about their toxic behaviour and this might affect how we interact in future and  this concern me cause sister want to try to pry my salary while i didnt want to tell her and she try to fish information while act stipid and maniulate me to divulge information&lt;br /&gt;So Now i want to retaliate the person who reported me while i was homeless and steatlily stay at other people house common area&lt;br /&gt;I just want them to fuck die, i find job no avail, toxic parent and abusive sibling, didnt tell me to seek help, they will only feel you are conplaining and just tell you to endure it&lt;br /&gt;All these organisation is useless and claim to help you but in the end it is all you and will create more problem&lt;br /&gt;I just know this world is cruel to people&lt;br /&gt;I also want to retaliate the fucker housemate currently that reported our dirty dish but just a few not very dirty, those fucker is try to sabotage me&lt;br /&gt;Fuck those housemate, if they so like report, i will also report them back on their minor like their clothes all on floor when hang&lt;br /&gt;I should have diss back them if i really want&lt;br /&gt;Fuck all those fucker&lt;br /&gt;I just want to move from this rental toxic sibling that i didn know if i can tolerate any longer, i just now they talked negatively behind my back while i am no there and i have recorded their conversation, and every night i need to listen to them rent their negative emotion to me while they didnt listen to mine, and after know they didnt really care about me, i have to sleep with sibling who betrayed me and hated and suspected me while i am gone these few days witout inform them and they didnt concern or ask about me or where i am, i know that they didnt really care about me, and now i moved back i have to sleep and fuckin face them while i hate them and they knkw it while we all play pretend on surface&lt;br /&gt;Now i just have to hide how i hated them everyday causs they didnt really cared about me sincerely, yet i have to put on pleasant face to act like i like them while i didnt kn if confrontation is useful in face of people with unknown intention cause i cant figure their intention out and they hide information from me while want me to reveal job plan and salary while manipulate me emotionally tell, while i will stipidly give them information cause i feel so helpless and make me dependent on them&lt;br /&gt;Now supposed i want to live rent free on other house just to get away from toxic rent, i am homeless now, yes, i can still live with toxic sibling if i have to but now i feel like i hated them secretly and i know they are jealous of me secretly and see me as conpetetion and subtle sabotage me emotionally to make me dependent on them while used me and dump all their shit on me, is communicate wise or will it make them butthurt, i try to move out quiet ly but it is unsuccessful this time&lt;br /&gt;I just want to retaliate the fucker that reported me when i live there causs i ady have no where to go i am near mental breakdown try to live with toxic sibling that are dishonest to me about their plan while want me to reveal everything so they can compare&lt;br /&gt;I just didnt trust them now and didnt revela any important information, previously i am so trust of them and reveal any information&lt;br /&gt;Am i too focus on other peopme flaw&lt;br /&gt;Sister try to physically block door when i try to avoid her when i refuse to tell her salary and job plan causs i didnt know if she has bad intention to ruin your plan and move in silence about your money and job plan cause narcissist will ruin it, keep your money, future plan and confidential information hide, am i asshole i didn&amp;#39;t trust sister? Ungrateful?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We escape abusive home and rented a house but i thought but sibling start to be verbally abusive and sister keep in contact with toxic parent without let me know and met with her while she want to know my whrbout is this relationship one wy and when i asked her she like to silent treatment me when i refuse to answer her she can intimidate me like block door and i shove pass her in rent room&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes she behaves like love abuse cycle&lt;br /&gt;Trt me nicely one day buy me food next day mean and jerk and controllin&lt;br /&gt;If i didnt give in to her request about my job detail future plan and salary she will try to manipulate me into give her information about salary but i stan ground and not let guard down&lt;br /&gt;She will give negative consequence indirectly when i didnt tell her about salary like emotional overreact make me feel fearful and use hand to close door to trap me in discussion whete i didnt want to tell&lt;br /&gt;Cause i didn trust her&lt;br /&gt;I have recorded a conversation where i am out of room and they will talk behind back&lt;br /&gt;See whaf you guys think&lt;br /&gt;I didnt know if i am crazy one&lt;br /&gt;I hate how i must tolerate trap live with abuser and brainswash lie to myself i need to live with some i hate and didnt trust me and kne wy relationship where they never cared about my emotion and cared about me when i was sick is it cause i nned to accodate them cauze they are wkrking? I cant find job cause last job is emotionally abuse boss and i stay trap with emotjonally abuse sibling after escape from toxic parent but less severe, but i feel like&lt;br /&gt;I cant tolerate the stress from work and gone back rent room still need to face all this shit&lt;br /&gt;Brother apologised but i didnt think he is sincere is he just to keep surface peace but talk behind back cause i pretend to forgive him but still try to maintain create distance to him cause he like to vent to me and talk to himself while let me hear it while i didnt want to hear about him ramble about his life all day cause he never listen to mine, so i just want to stop one wy all my attention and energy to him and just loiter outside commom area&lt;br /&gt;So he will stare at me and sneak observe me in suspecious look make me very uncomfortable cause i now refuse to give him attention and contrll over me and he now started to feel upset about me and will stare at my every move and feel suspicious which make me hate it&lt;br /&gt;He stared at me like enemy but still talk to me like act frien&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fuck him tbh&lt;br /&gt;I should have let him die in toxic parent house and just move out on own instead&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really dislike his stare&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So i loiter around common area and one day i hear they talk shit behind back smear me so i angry and cant sleep in same room as them as i have to tolerate their controllin and interoggation and hostility as to why i create distance or act distance is cause i hate them and i have tolerate their&lt;br /&gt;Bs&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So i just go to other house around area with no lock and just sit and sleep in other people house commom area&lt;br /&gt;And i went undetected and regain peace&lt;br /&gt;But i live rent free while try to find work cause last job ks abusive and boss push me physically and emotionallh abuse me with swear word and sabotage me like withold information to let me do wron task&lt;br /&gt;I cant tolerate it and fuck boss deduct my salary no notic&lt;br /&gt;So now it is been 3 months job search and no avail and now i feel like going crazy stuck in room with verbal abuse sibling should it out and make it akward&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I live rent free in other people house commom area, if it is the housemate thag reported me, i want to retaliate&lt;br /&gt;Cause why one small space also didnt let me live a while while k try to find job to no avail&lt;br /&gt;I am homeless if i try to live not with rent sibling&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sbould i go live at the sports complex grass field?&lt;br /&gt;To avoid see them and avoid their bs and emotional violation, physical violation minor, and hostile stare&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to retaliate that house by throw&lt;br /&gt;Bicycle lock into rubbish bin&lt;br /&gt;They deserve it&lt;br /&gt;Whh make me so homeless&lt;br /&gt;If i see a stray dog i will let it in&lt;br /&gt;But people are disgustin&lt;br /&gt;Only care about money&lt;br /&gt;I have no where to go&lt;br /&gt;But to loiter around the area grass field and mc donald to dreaded see them&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or should i just put up a smily face to them i know what they falk behind back and still smile and tolerate while know that you are sleep with enemy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It make my blood boil&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to vomit blood&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Should i tolerate their abuse while try to job search and live with them after job search and tolerate job stress and their bs stress on me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel i will collapse and rage&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So i try to create distance&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While i will not say it to face is because of i hate&lt;br /&gt;But is causs i lie i want to relax at out&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But real reason i didnt tell causs i fear will narcissit rage and revenge me if i show i hate him&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So i try to act surface peace while minimise talk while the stare js get on my nerve&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</description>
            <author>Jojo kim</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 31 Mar 2023 15:24:05 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Where should i move to work? Johor nusajaya</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/0</link>
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            <category>Serious Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>What job position to recommend biotech graduate?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/0</link>
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            <category>Serious Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Where should i move to work? Johor nusajaya</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5361545</link>
            <description>Should I choose penang bukit mertajam since i heard penang quite safe, buy johor i wan to work at biocon is the area around there safe? Is penang or johor safe i have no friends and family there, so or should i choose malacca?</description>
            <author>Jojo kim</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 05 Mar 2023 09:31:51 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>What job position to recommend biotech graduate?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5361523</link>
            <description>I choose subang jaya but googled search all the website the rent near the research assistant job is pjs and very dangerous area there with lot of immigrants and if i were to find a place safest city in malaysia, where do you guy recommend single female to work in without personal transport? What do single female need to know, like the rent i only realised subang jaya that area is unsafe, the review is 3.3 but very dangerous, what should i consider when rent and to look out? I am innocent, i only recently kn immigrant is usually rent apartment, so now i kn not to rent apartment or high area, and also the rental is expensive in high area, so these are factor to be considered&lt;br /&gt;I heard malacca is safest city in malaysia, where do you recommend with amneties and rent? I plan to job in malacca in thermo fisher is it safe city?</description>
            <author>Jojo kim</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 05 Mar 2023 02:37:09 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Where to rent rm 400 near subang jaya pjs7/21?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5361514</link>
            <description>Any hostel that near taylor uni that rent to working adult so it is affordable and any safe landaded house as compared to apartment?&lt;br /&gt;Is pjs 7/9b landed house safe? Anyone here have rent that can live with other student so to feel safer?&lt;br /&gt;Near pjs 7/21 pjs 9</description>
            <author>Jojo kim</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 05 Mar 2023 00:08:42 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Is dis friend ignorant or am i ungrateful?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5228105</link>
            <description>Ignorant treat me like pet&lt;br /&gt;Put mear in my bowl and im not a child i can do it i know she is caring but i feel suffocating and uncomfortable, is like only she can give me unsolicited help but i cannot ask her for help,when i face wit a problem, i didn even dare to ask for her help, but her help seem non understanding, did she didn know job link she sent to me is non helpful, i feel like i cannot confide in her, i like people who help me when i really nid it and not when i dont nid it, throwing her kindness at me like im a beggar, i didn ask for it, so please.&lt;br /&gt;I dislike her dat she tell me to tie up my hair when i literally didn ask for her or say anything about it, yes observe it but dont tell me &amp;#39;tie up your hair, use dis one&amp;#39; when i didn really want to becauae we are havinb photography, tie up hair look ugly, so i lie to her hair tie is too small fear it break, so i didn tie it, and she like to ask me did i get a job after graduation on messenger, but you know what, i tell ber not yet and when she see how i joined a group on social media and she will hit me up on messenger and say oh i accpeted you in group, she will messege me some work vacancy in those area and also pretty much useless and unsolicited and appear to help before understanding my need? It feels fake, but after she sent me, i seem to be ungrateful but if ahe actually tale time to ask me what kind of job i want or in which area is suitable for you, i know it mighg show her like an act of kindness from her, but what she do is just ignorant plain old &amp;#39;help&amp;#39; blindl, so it is like i must be grateful to whag she give to me, like forcing what is not suitable for me to me, and simply just find a vacancy job and sent a link to me, but i dont want a friend like dis, i wan a friend to share daily life with, not talk about all dis superficial work stuff when i didn ask for it, dont sent all link to me dat deem me unuseful, becauae dat job vacancy is not somethinh i like and ahe didn ask what job i like, she sending it to me seem like want to control what job i get, and not useful help because it is not even in my area because i have transportation problem yer she didn know about it, did she ask me do i wan to tie my hair, no it is like tell me to tie it and i feel obligated to obey her without considering i want it or nid it, plus you dont have to fake care if you want to half ass care, is she caring or just controlling me like a pet she want?</description>
            <author>Jojo kim</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 27 Dec 2021 22:11:05 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Driving during covid?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5211123</link>
            <description>Driving institute must vaccine?</description>
            <author>Jojo kim</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 31 Oct 2021 10:28:11 +0800</pubDate>
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