In Love with Thai Girlfirend

incognito9981 — Mon, 19 Apr 2021 10:32:51 +0800

Recently i fall in love with a Thai girl about 1 month ++, we known each other online, yesterday night i told my parents, my mom has very big reactions against it. Keep arguing that why not find a local, why find someone who cannot communicate with her. She don't even bother to know she is good or bad, just keep syaing all other country is not good for me especially Thai girl, they all just cheat and lie, why i simply know someone online. My mom even said to me which i want to choose, girl or family. I really feel sad about this. Parents are my family, but now my girlfriend is also part of my family.

All i want to do is i don't want to make my parents upset, but i also don't want to hurt my girlfriend. She came here study as exchange student for 3 months, just went back thailand and i go hang out with her overnight without going home but stay in hotel for just 2 days (5, 7 April), . My mom keep said why we go hotel, why she so easily to go with me together, she feel like she is a person who cincai and no good. But she is my girlfriend, and she is about to leave, then this become my mom excuse to saying is bad. Maybe is really my bad, why i not bring her back my house to let all my family know at first.

Plus one more thing, she has already pregnant after going back, this is why i start to tell my parents i have a Thai girlfriend. I don't dare to tell them at first as i scare their reaction, and since we just in a long distance relationship, i want to wait until we really stable enough only i officially tell my parents. However, since she is pregnant, i feel i have to take the responsibilty and tell my parents. The worst is i not yet tell the pregnant part, they already scream and reacted like this, i really scare my parents will very sad and cry because of my choice. But i really cannot let my girlfriend to face this alone.

Yesterday monring my girlfriend tell me if she really pregnant, we will have to break up. She want me to have good future and don't want me to in any problem with my family. She said she will manage by herself. I really touched with i heard this, i will take the responsibilty, i really cannot just let her to face this alone. I tell her what my parents reaction when i said i got thai girl friend, and my girlfriend just ask me to leave her if i really love her. My girlfriend now already stop accepting my facebook call, we chat call. I can feel she is so love me and care of me, i feel like i am not a man, even i already 25, we both 25. I know it really hard for us, long distance, different country, now got a baby somemore.

My mom strongly disagree i married with a thai girl, my mom even said if my girlfriend said she is pregnant, she sure lie to me, just want to lie me to marry, lie all my money. But i just know my girl friend go do the pregnant test herself alone, paid all by herself, she don't even ask me to send her anything, any money. My feeling tell me she is good to me, i admit at first i doubt on her may lie to me as well, but time by time i know she love me as much as i do. I really don't want to hurt my girlfriend, and my baby. If i choose to leave them now, i know i will regret in some other time in future, but my parents already feel upset, my mom cry and cannot sleep, threathened me if i choose my girlfriend, she will just ignore me as a son, cut the relationship with me as a son.

I am really don't know how to handle this situation. i wish i strong enough, earn enough, to tackle all this problems. I hope i can find any advice from here, but i know it really hard, if i still cannot find a way to convince my parents, i will have no choice to leave my girlfriend even she has stop talking to me. I know she want me good, i know my parents want me good as well. But i really in a very hard way now, i don't want to lose either side.

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In Love with Thai Girlfirend