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Luno crytocurrency

-mystery- — Tue, 02 Jun 2026 10:53:51 +0800

Anyone is using luno to store trade or invest money?
the email replied me, I'm not sure this email is scam or not
because they asked me to verify my account

Hata cryptocurrency

-mystery- — Mon, 01 Jun 2026 20:12:46 +0800

I have problem verifying hata crypto account
how to get across this? Thanks

My final ephipany about dating and relationships

-mystery- — Sat, 30 May 2026 13:04:13 +0800

I started enter this dating scene quite late
not because I'm ugly looking or what
but I was extremely clueless with how girls think
a girl looks innocent, yet like a foreign creature in front of me
I have always not knowing what I'm speaking about
when I entered his online arena
I had a skepticism about men and women dating marketplace
I was curious about why women like to cheat on men
why would they choose to ditch the guy after she able to fully capitalize her own sexual market value

it was a constant angry and depressed state
because the truth is finally slowly revealed to me
yet my recognition and belief system plus field experiences not able to be on par with the new reality
hence I have this dilemma in my part
I want to have more success with women
yet the superego tells me women can suck so bad
and it lasted at least a few years...

fast forward awhile ago
I started to have some success
women started to react towards me
I was being more like an asshole cold icy type so called "alpha" male
because the book says, it's supposed to be what typical girl likes
most women cannot figure out how I think especially my feelings
because I've always been this mysterious guy who comes and go
so I have lost many girls in the process
some better looking and sweet
yet my mental state wasn't there with them
I have dated a lot of women, yet I could count how many I had a more meaningful conversation

so the more I date
the more I deeply realize there's something I want to prove
not necessarily to myself,
but I want to prove to outsiders that I'm able to date some hot girls
It could also mean from a place or scarcity
that if I do not date any girls
does it mean I'm not good enough as a man?
along these years, I've finally realized that
women, money or success cannot be binded to your own personal sense of value
otherwise you will unconsciously entrapping onto chasing these endless tails

I'm not saying money isnt good, women may not be wonderful
but to bind our sense of identity onto these impermanent factors of life, is destined to make our life suffering
and I agree, most people would choose to suffer most of the time, because this is what gives them a meaning

and when you are so busy chasing these external things in your life
like my dead father who sacrifices a lot to this family
maybe your old belief system is not working anymore
that's why psychology says
your subconscious protects you in your childhood
but if it doesn't transcend, you may not be a fully free spirit eventhough already had a lot of materialism

and I see the there are a lot of materials online nowadays
teaching people how to improve themselves
the more we read, the more we paralyze ourselves what to do
because deep down we still feel we ain't good enough
so better to watch out what people is mentally feeding us
because sometimes it's not about add in more
but learn how to 断舍离

Peace out,
a long time forumer.

why we feel the urge to spend a lot of money?

-mystery- — Sat, 30 May 2026 10:52:55 +0800

everyone says it's look trendy to spend a lot of money
people say it's dopamine aka happy hormone
but scientific research has shown that it's desire aka addiction hormone
when you satisfy one urge, the feeling immediately reduced
if you buy a new car, within 48 hours you will think to buy the next one
so it's a never ending stimulus

there's nothing wrong with spending money
it's either unconscious or consciously
but what is sad, is most people they don't even deeply realize why you they spend money

It can be due to lack of self esteem or safety
feeling the need to control people
or feeling the urge to make ourselves being looked up

sila bincangkan.

How to protect phone battery health?

-mystery- — Tue, 19 May 2026 10:46:48 +0800

how to protect phone battery health?

the problem with B40 people

-mystery- — Wed, 13 May 2026 11:52:18 +0800

the problem with B40 always asking for tongkat
it's because they don't have that mindset and skillset to generate more income, and then the result is the government keep giving away freebies to secure the seat

It's like being own parent, when your kid throws tantrum on you, you just give them sugar to ease the pain right away, but deep down you know the bad side effect will surface or last even longer. Just look at the whole economic situation now

It looks like previous 10 years we don't have a system to solidify the rakyat skillset to be able for them to be more prosperous. So it's like this unending cycle that we have been relying on short term gratifications

just look at these guys who go for ktv girls, instead of focus themselves on building gym, they know burning cash on girls feel fun but they underestimate the bad karma effect of it

Thoughts?

What time close for mrt rave party

-mystery- — Sat, 02 May 2026 21:09:47 +0800

What time last train for mrt tonight? Going pavi rave

Do you believe in KARMA?

-mystery- — Tue, 28 Apr 2026 16:50:16 +0800

Do you believe life is a karma?
like things are just meant to be happening
like your parents, the parents you cant even choose
The family upbringing that sucked
even the job your chose, the nagging wife
The ex gf that greenhat you, and the unstoppably noisy children

like a lot of times why we are dealt the hands we are dealt
is there a proper answer to it?

Dbkl summon

-mystery- — Sun, 12 Apr 2026 01:58:45 +0800

I use pay@kl it says uder maintenance
Pbtpay has issue enter car plate and ic number

any thought how to fix it? I don't want go physical counter pay first

Is it better to pay for chatgpt?

-mystery- — Fri, 10 Apr 2026 10:08:25 +0800

Is it better to pay for chatgpt?
any user here?
I see like rm1000 subscription out there

Touch N Go ewallet

-mystery- — Thu, 02 Apr 2026 13:51:18 +0800

Is tng ewallet safe to put more money inside
For example I want to put 10k into the investment there (selected)
will my phone number get blocked out of no reason and cannot withdraw money thanks

kepong mana lepak at night?

-mystery- — Sat, 28 Mar 2026 17:49:02 +0800

I plan to bring my girl friend lepas around this time
where to go other than desa park city and united point
prefer somewhere cozy not so much people
thanks

If no driving license cannot use budi95?

-mystery- — Fri, 27 Mar 2026 08:46:14 +0800

If no driving license, cannot use budi95 automatically?
or need to register online

fuel price so high already! Why salary still..

-mystery- — Thu, 26 Mar 2026 11:49:10 +0800

why salary still 1700?
let's say if budi95 removed, should we entitled for minimum rm3000 basic salary, I think it makes sense right

If you have 50k saving, where should you put?

-mystery- — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 11:04:54 +0800

if you have 50k saving, where should you put?
A lot say epf has higher return now but it's not easily withdrawn
any thought thanks
I'm talking about life saving and investment

how to preserve car speed when going down hill?

-mystery- — Sun, 22 Mar 2026 16:27:10 +0800

how to preserve car speed when going downhill genting?
last time I think changing to D-2-L gear
within few months later my gear box spoilt already
sakit woi

how to protect gear box and avoid bergulung ke bawah bukit like kungfu panda?

Why man and woman like to do unnecessary spending?

-mystery- — Tue, 17 Mar 2026 16:37:54 +0800

why men like to go ktv?
why men like to smoke?
why men like to drink?

why women like to post selfies online?
why women like to buy handbags?
why women like to be small three?

according to a study
most human beings do not know what they want
they can be consciously know what they want
but their subconscious say the other thing

most people do not feel good enough since the first few years they born, it's like a systematic download into their subconscious mind, that they need external stimuli to prove themselves they're good enough

your parents tell you are charsiew
your peers tell you are loser
your boss tell you are a salty fish for being lazy

these people never care about you
they only care about your performances
so throughout these bad experiences
they start to refocus that "people just want to use one another"
so men start to treat women like sex object
women start to treat men like ATM machine

hence we have this gender war in macro sense
thanks to the message that "we are not good enough"

to start unwire this deep seeded thinking
start to feel you're good enough
I know this is very tough for you guys out there
but trust me, Buddha will always be within inside you.
Sekian

What's wrong with ambank?

-mystery- — Mon, 09 Mar 2026 15:16:30 +0800

What's wrong with ambank?
I log in with 2 different phones it's still the same
type in password already cannot log in

Orange 🍊 juice at ktv!

-mystery- — Tue, 10 Feb 2026 19:51:19 +0800

I just now saw some Facebook post
the ktv port kena sapu found out the cheap juice as cheap as rm250 one shot, seriously what made these people so rich and addicted to this play?

OKU: My dad is disabled, how can I apply?

-mystery- — Sat, 07 Feb 2026 18:13:08 +0800

my dad is disabled on his foot
how can I apply for the monthly allowance thanks