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Recommend me speakers around 600 budget ?

Deadslack — Thu, 12 Jan 2023 11:37:13 +0800

Hello, can i get recommendations for one of the best or the most value in money for speakers at around 600+ budget ? I'm using it mainly to listen to music and sometimes watching netflix. More priority on music though.

I try not to go with too many choices, please do help me narrow it down to the best speakers for music I can get at 600+.

Thanks !

Should a guy ALWAYS pick up his girlfriend ?

Deadslack — Fri, 23 Oct 2020 19:24:09 +0800

Before anyone starts to flame me or troll me, I'm not a stingy guy, and I have been picking up my girlfriend since the beginning, and I'm not tired at all in terms of picking her up every single time we meet. But, just to open up this for discussion, as I want to hear from both gender alike, do u think a guy should always be the one that picks u up no matter where u go, how far it is, etc ? Or would u depending on situation, offer to drive him instead, or drive to the destination that u guys are meeting ?

A little back story, this is not a whining post, just sharing my experience, my current gf and i have been together for a few months, still fresh, and she wants to meet every single day, i understand that because me too, we are still in the "honeymoon" period, and again, im in no way whining about picking her up, even though the distance is quite far, it's about 30+ minutes from my place to her place on a good day, anyway, between me and her, we never really discuss or communicate about who will be the one that picks up who, because as usual and as always, i'm the one who picks up my gf, even when I was in my past relationship, I also know there's couple out there who actually the roles are reversed, whereby the gf picks up the bf and drives more than the bf, so im just asking out here, what are ur thoughts ? And assuming ur gf knows how to drive, yet expect u to pick her up every single time u meet, what will u think about that ?

What a small small world

Deadslack — Thu, 27 Aug 2020 13:13:58 +0800

This is probably going to be weird or maybe, intriguing, but PLEASE, DON'T JUDGE ME, YET. I created a new account just for this matter and I sincerely hope that I could get some useful advice from the people in this community.

Few days ago, I got to know this girl from Wechat's people nearby, let's call her girl A I'm from JB, she's from Penang but used to work in singapore, but came back to malaysia recently, she just finished her quarantine at JB, and plans to work in JB since her brother is here as well. So I added her, she accepted my friend request and we started chatting, everything went well, we did met 2 times, and the feeling is so far mutual. We both expressed that we are looking for a sincere partner and a serious relationship, not those typical just for fun.

We talked a lot of stuff, including deep stuff such as her past relationships, where she got abused by her ex, who's a boxer, where he pushed her in the public inside the MRT, slap her etc. We talked a lot a lot during those few hours that we met for the first time. The second time we met, she wanted to go to the supermarket and asked if I can accompany her, so I did, it's all the norm. Now here comes the "fun" part where everything suddenly changed.

On the 4th day of our "getting to know each other" phase, her so called good friend came to her place to visit her, let's call this girl B, as they are going to hang out along with her brother as well, she texted me " Wow, I didn't know you slept with my good friend " So, the reason she said that, is apparently her good friend is a girl that I've slept with last year when I broke up, and was feeling all the emotions and well u know, met this girl, and things naturally took place and we slept with each other. All of this, obviously without knowing that girl B is good friends with girl A. And of course, it was just a one time thing. Never can anyone expect that many many months down the road, girl A and girl B knew each other, and what more, they are good friends, so when girl A showed girl B my picture, and told her that I'm currently wooing her, girl B well, being who she is, told girl A that I slept with girl B, and everything came crashing down.

Yes, it's my fault for sleeping with another girl, but that's not the point here. The point is, at least to her, is that she cannot accept the fact that I slept with her good friend, if it's just any other girl for that matter, she wouldn't care. Now that I am in this yellow river, how do I get myself out of this ? I did explained to her, what has happened, and it takes 2 hands to clap, and why I did it etc, she said she just couldn't accept the fact. Few hours later, she texted me, as far as she's concern, she's ok with being friends, then I said, no I'm serious about u and I want to take this slowly and through my actions and time, u will know who I am, I'm not the guy she currently thinks I am, all of this just because I slept with girl B, who is her good friend, and who at that time, I never could have knew.

So later on she said Ok, let's use time and actions to prove it to me, so I said of course, but then she's been cold and having the attitude of not replying and only replying whenever she wants to, now I don't blame her, and make no mistake, I'm not blaming anyone or pushing the blame, it's literally my fault as a guy, and I admit that. But I did message her and said, didn't u say u want to use time to let me prove it to u ? If u are being like this, how can I prove ? So far she hasn't reply anything. At this point, what else can I do ?