http://forum.lowyat.net/ Thu, 29 Oct 2026 08:47:15 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5412049 I just had a huge fight with my long term significant other and it wasn’t great and I started to reflect on things. And sometimes I feel suicidal thinking about it.<br /><br />My gf [24] just can’t take it when I keep talks about work. I’m [27] a seriously hardworking guy who works more than 12 hours a day, 6 days a week. I have a business so I tend to work a lot harder compared to regular people. Just recently I bought an expensive house which will be done by 3 years so I can settle down with my gf. The reason I bought such an expensive house (almost 2M) is because I want to share a good life with my future wife (current gf). <br /><br />Unfortunately my business took a slump and the profit slashed to 70% so I’m extra stressed about it. So I went to create a business with my gf and it went viral. But it destroy our relationship. I’m ok with working long hours but my gf isn’t. Previously my girlfriend just work 4-5 hours weekdays for my previous business compared to the current business which may take double of her time. Although the new business is running well, she clearly wasn’t happy.<br /><br />I’m a completely boring guy and my whole mind is to create more business so I can enjoy my life later - but my gf disagree and think I’m a boring dude. I never enjoy going out with my friends to drink and rather just stay at home playing games or working which suffocate her (I live with her at her parents house currently). Every week is the same mundane stuff going on and it’s driving her crazy to the point where she said she’s bored of our long 8 years relationship. <br /><br />I feel shattered listen to those words. I gave up my hanging out with friends and family so my business could thrive. I’m really not sure if this is worth it anymore. Sometimes I wish I could just sleep through everything. The one person who is closest to me is slowly doesn’t want me in their life anymore. I feel hopeless. She always complained that I’m a banana and singing kaorake for Chinese songs is not an option for her. And we got no friends to hang out with. She keep mentioned that when she’s with her friends, she feel more relaxed and when I’m with her, she feel that it’s all about work. <br /><br />What should I do? <br /> Wtflol67 Cupid&#39;s Corner Fri, 06 Oct 2023 23:34:13 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5119296 I’m 25 and out of luck, my business and investment made me a multi-millionaire to the point I wouldn’t have to work a single day anymore and can fully rely on my investment to survive. <br /><br />Don’t ask me what field I’m in because I’m not trying to discuss about work related stuff. But I’m here to talk about my mental issue. <br /><br />Everyday my life has been pretty boring, my business is fully automated by employees and all I need to do is monitor them from time to time. My day to day job is to read on investment on stocks/bitcoin news or monitor my employees. Probably 2-5 hours of work per day only.<br /><br />I started to feel a bit useless as a human being as in I do not have a clear goal to work on. I felt like I lost the sense of urgency and will to live. <br /><br />Like, what is the purpose of life anymore? <br />When I was little, I want to achieve financial independence and I really did it.. but what’s next? <br /><br />Now most of the hobbies I found exciting no longer excite me anymore. <br /><br />I feel bored<br /><br /> Wtflol67 Serious Kopitiam Wed, 17 Mar 2021 18:19:34 +0800