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What physical trait appeals to u the most?

Sensualpassion — Sun, 18 Jul 2021 15:18:46 +0800

I would open a poll here but i can't it seems, for CC.

Am curious about the Msian Men, are you guys into face/boobs/legs/butt/etc when it comes to women's physicality? So far, i've never heard ppl say arms, wrist or hands but I've heard of feet fetish though LOL.

Like I'm sure if we could, we want a perfect combo of all ....however in reality cmon, nobody's got it all. Most of us usually will lean towards at least 1 fetish/must have. What does your eyes usually appreciate the most when it comes to checking out chicks?

Disclaimer: I am female. I always tot it was boobs/face for men, but some have surprised me.

Lessons learnt/Advice for 30+ year olds

Sensualpassion — Sun, 13 Jun 2021 20:41:36 +0800

I've got a few more years before i hit 40, and similarly when i was in my late 20s or hit 30, then i started reading up on life lessons for people in their 30s. Back then I wasn't really a part of LYN...so would like to open up to u guys and learn from u all:

Any advice for people who are going to enter their 40s soon?
Is it so different from being in our 30s?
Any other life lessons which u feel was impactful to u which u wanna pass along to us "young" uns?

When i was in my 20s, i thought i'd be real depress when i reach about 40+...coz i thought that death was coming soon. Yeaps, back then i thought 40s was like damn old liao plus my grandfather died at 48. But now, 40s dont seem that old thank goodness. Phew~
Hitting 30 was great tho, i think i had a real sense of self more in my 30s than 20s n hence enjoyed 30s way more.

Thanks in advance

Love each other a lot but it still ended

Sensualpassion — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 00:36:30 +0800

Yo peeps,

Soooo.. for discussion sake, have any of u ever been in a rship where both parties loved each other a lot (maybe too much?), chemistry is totally there, but in the end....it still didn't work out for watever reasons?

Please share your experiences.....

I'm just wondering, if there are some people who feel overwhelmed in emotionally-high charged rships? Because if it's too emotional, then even the problems get hyped out n overdramatised, rite? No?

~~and in relation to this, did this rship which ended - that person became the one that got away?

*Lets keep u-r-the-3rd party rships out for now and maybe even pure LDR rships (those that started and ended in LDR)

The unforgettable experience ! ;)

Sensualpassion — Sat, 20 Feb 2021 00:26:35 +0800

So i'm at that sharing/busybody mood... and also had been reminiscing somewhat..

Any of u have been (or is STILL) together with someone who had left an impactful n unforgettable mark on your life; made you feel all sorts of overpowering emotions u never thought you'd feel, who made u do things u told yourself you'd never do for anyone, where both of u were totally in sync be it mind, body and soul??

Ok sounds too good to be true. But anyone here went thru something close to this before? What do u think made the experience so impactful or wat made that person so special til the whole incident was unforgettable?

Come come, share share your fairytales/adventures/Romeo-juliet-tragic storiessss

Baby/toddler bottles

Sensualpassion — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 12:32:35 +0800

Anybody knows of very poor families who have kids 3 years old and below?

A friend of mine has quite a number of milk bottles (abt 25 bottles) and several drinking bottles (those cups but with teats) used by her kids and they do not need it anymore. I suggested that she gives it away for donation, to those in need.
The bottles do not come with teats tho, so for cleanliness sake, the families should buy new ones.

*Those who can afford, pls don't take advantage yeah. Lets help those who really need them!

Pls PM me if u know of anyone, with their background info and where they are currently staying TQ

How did you leave your spouse who refused divorce?

Sensualpassion — Fri, 29 May 2020 03:38:58 +0800

Anybody left their spouse who refused to divorce?
What should I expect? Esp emotionally. I'm in my mid-30s and I'm planning to move out of my marital home into my family's house, targeting some time this year.

I'm quite worried about these matters tho:
1. Financially. He doesn't exactly support me 100% financially. I do work, but you can say he's like a safety net. Some of my money is tied up in our marital house and I have another property due for completion next year. More commitments MCO doesn't make it any better for my line of work. I am self employed.
2. I feel guilty towards my in laws
3. Moving all of my things from my marital house *headache thinking about the mess and packing* AND also, I probably have to sneakily move out when he's away. I really don't wanna do it when he's home n have all that drama to deal with.
4. Our marital home, which has both our names. It's such a bad time to sell uuurrghhhh. We bought our house 5 years ago when prices were kinda at its peak.

It's going to be a big change, I expect and I already expect that I may fall into depression for quite some time after that. If only he also wanted a divorce then we could have joint petition, 3 years ago. No cheating or spouse abuse reasons fyi. I've been unhappy for a long time and tahan all i can tahan in this marriage. We have no kids... so i've been asking myself, "Who am i living for???" Why stay in a marriage where I'm so unhappy that i silently cry at night in bed, next to my "bedmate"?? Because of the stigma of divorce? Bah!

But it is tough taking that first step to leave a situation that i'm getting more used to as time passes by (but not any happier with). I'm mustering my courage. Would be helpful if other ppl who have had to walk this path share their wisdom. Thanks in advance.

Women's libido

Sensualpassion — Sun, 24 May 2020 23:16:22 +0800

I don't have a lot of close female friends and even with the ones i do have, not many will talk so openly about their "intimate" life (well at least the way guys do with one another )

So, for study sake and outta curiousity; for women out there, how high/low/average do you think your libido is?
And men, from your experience with women... usually yours always higher/lower than theirs, or vice versa?
It'll be helpful if u state the ages and the frequency of your intimate "Acts" because what is high for some, maybe average for some others.

I'm curious, esp for Msian women. Ppl always say men more likely to cheat coz of sex (or lack thereof from their wife), or men want sex more, men more hamsap ....blablabla. I've heard and read stories about husbands complaining that they only get action once a month etc or about wives who bluntly are not interested and rejected their husbands/partner's moves to be intimate. I know that the world generalises gender traits, but is this really true for you? It'll be great to hear from what you guys&gals have personally experienced.

As a female with a healthy appetite for sex and the like, i find it damn weird to hear of ppl who only wanna do it once a month or once in 2 months.

IMO,
high libido - everyday
average - 3x a week
low - 1x a week onwards

*Not inclusive of LDRs
*Not necessarily intercourse only, sex and other sexual acts.