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Boss

White fishy — Wed, 27 May 2009 09:10:15 +0800

My friend boss would like to buy company insurance (1 year ) for her. She dont like the job and want to resign. But she havent got any job yet. She asking me what she should do now ? The boss is very kind and good heart man.

Boss.

White fishy — Wed, 27 May 2009 08:47:23 +0800

My neighbour aunty

White fishy — Wed, 13 May 2009 16:21:34 +0800

Last week we celebrate my man birthday.. i put cake, mee hoon and BBQ chicken in 1 plate to give to my neighbour aunty. When i wanted to give to her ...

I call the aunty but her daughter come out. Then her daughter calling her mother... almost few seconds .. still calling. actually the distance between the daughter and the aunty is not far. At last she appear..

Me : aunty ... this is for you ( holding plate)
aunty : ohh... i already ate my dinner... and standing only..
Me : uhhh ? (in my mind).. then i say we celebrate birthday.. this plate for you aunty.
aunty : ohhh... i already ate dinner lah...
Me : For you aunty...

At last taken and say thanks and regards to my man for his birthday.

This morning she return the plate with rendang chicken. If next time any celebration or if i cook anything should i offer/ give her ? Do advice me.

Breast

White fishy — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 01:57:23 +0800

My friend told me that after become mother of 2 kids, her breast really saggy and not firm anymore. She feel really shy on it. Feel the breast not normal anymore. Heard there are so many types of lotion to apply on breast to make it firm. Anyone have tried before ? Is that really work ? If yes can recommend me the product ? or is there any traditional way to firm up the breast ?

A question..

White fishy — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:27:22 +0800

My friend told me she really feel " very happy, feel so free, feel back to her single life again when she go out with her friends or working mates ... she feel very happy going out without her husband.... no third party...recently she going out with her friends to a trip and not even bother to ask her husband to go along. She say she have no heart to ask husband to come along.. She asking me..does that mean she dont love him anymore?
what you all think ?

SE T700

White fishy — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 13:06:25 +0800

Is it a 3G phone.. i have go through SE website.. and some shoppers say it is 3 G and some not. Im so confuse. Do let me know. thanks.

nokia 6700

White fishy — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 09:02:10 +0800

anyone know when nokia 6700 will be available in malaysia... i really like this phone...

mother or wife ?

White fishy — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 19:19:37 +0800

married man or guys who gonna married... if you in the middle of mother and wife situation ... what you will do ?
when your mother and your wife complain each other and you not sure who is right or wrong.
Or you just dont care and just keep quiet. telinga kanan masuk kiri keluar?

He & She

White fishy — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 09:55:05 +0800

P/S : nothing bout me.

She married for 5 years. Dont have parents support. 5 years gap between them. Within this 5 years everytime they quarrel.... each month she cry... and after that life goes on .. become normal couples... fight again then be together again... till shit happen.. no third party.. too much misunderstanding till he hit the wife.

Husband : educated, working not much time for family, not romantic person = dont know how to talk sweet, good in supporting family financialy, good guy, sincere, never talk openly anything to wife about his feeling... never shows much care to wife....
Wife : sincere, educated, emo type, too much love husband, romantic, housewife recently - used to earn high salary,

after too much misunderstanding recently wife feels to tired / no interest to even talk to her husband...yet there have another discussion.

She : do your know that our relationship got problem ?
He : yes.. i saw you not happy for past 4 days...what happen ?
She : All the while im talking too much... now you tell me.. you talk to me.. what you feel in our relationship ?
He : I feel normal
She : I still cant forget that you have hurt me.. i think i already forget but yet it comes back to me...
He : you have too much FREE TIME to think all this...
She : Fine. She keep quiet as she think this cant lead anywhere.

another day.. when go out ..
She have spend a bit money to buy cloth for kids.
He : you never buy anything for you...
She : I dont enough money. (housewife)
He : Good, this teach you .. how you can save the money.
She : Ok.. we go now... to buy household things...

Deep in her heart, she felt like crying.. but she never.. she just hide it from her husband.
She : why you say that..
He : im joking.. you dont know how to differentiate between joke and real ?

on valentine dinner...

the hotel waitress give gift to the wife and husband, he told that is the gift he ask the hotel to prepare. She was so happy for 1 second... when she ask back again.. he say im just joking. She feel.. ok fine.

Sometimes when she sleeping on sunday afternoon, the husband say.. oh this is how you sleep everyday at home uhh?

She think he never appreciate her. when someone always beside you ..you never know the value of the person til you lost them.
So brothers and sisters here.. please advice...

should she carrying on with her life with him as normal like nothing happend or should she give priority to her OWN LIFE and move on ? any other suggestion beside go for counselling ?

A Kiss

White fishy — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 09:48:47 +0800

When you kiss your gf or bf which one is good way ? Ask like give me a kiss then kiss or straight away kiss ?
These refering to daily kisses - like good morning, good night and before leave the house.

If you love someone you wouldnt hurt them ?

White fishy — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 20:00:03 +0800

My dearest good friend.. Her marriage based on love. After few years of marriage life one day her husband hit her (slap hard) coz of some their family problems and that time he is drunk. After that her feeling towards him have change... the love, the trust, the hopes and the believe she put in her life is totally down. its like a big scar in her heart... she never believe is the person who she love can hurt her most.

when he say he love her... she still dont believe is that really true love or not. Because before the day she got slap the husband still sms her that he love her.

i dont understand, when people say i love you but yet have heart to hurt you.

How far is that true " IF you LOVE someone you wouldnt hurt them "?

Housewife

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

How many of you here can stand ?

White fishy — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 01:47:28 +0800

Hi, just would like to knows how many of you can really stand when your husband or bf coming home late cause of work ?
My sister married to a businessman. In a week he will be late back home about 3-4 times. sometimes 2 am.. 4 am... or 5 am..Sometimes he need to entertain clients and sometimes attend annual dinners of other organisation. Even after the annual dinner meeting end up, he most likely will spend extra 1 hour 30 minutes either there or other place with clients. Normally drinking. If ask he will say business talk. Weekend saturday working and (sunday only) he will spend time fully with the family.

He think the wife is really understanding type. But he never know that she is crying inside herself. She know she trust him but woman's heart ... She cant discuss this to her husband as he always says its for business purpose.

I think she really have a strong heart that able to being "understanding". She have two kids with her and she really cant go out and spend time with her friends due to taking care the family. She is a working woman.

Do you think she thinking too much ?

I would like to know from females as how many of you can really stand for this kind of life ? any suggestion for her on how to survive married a businessman. All ideas and advices appreciated.

How many of you here can stand ?

White fishy — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 01:39:15 +0800

Hi, just would like to knows how many of you can really stand when your husband or bf coming home late cause of work ?
My sister married to a businessman. In a week he will be late back home about 3-4 times. Sometimes he need to entertain clients and sometimes attend annual dinners of other organisation. Even after the annual dinner meeting end up, he most likely will spend extra 1 hour 30 minutes either there or other place with clients. Normally drinking. If ask he will say business talk. Weekend saturday working and (sunday only) he will spend time fully with the family.

He think the wife is really understanding type. But he never know that she is crying inside herself. She know she trust him but woman's heart ... She cant discuss this to her husband as he always says its for business purpose.

I think she really have a strong heart that able to being "understanding". She have two kids with her and she really cant go out and spend time with her friends due to taking care the family.

Do you think she thinking too much ?

I would like to know from females as how many of you can really stand for this kind of life ? any suggestion for her on how to survive married a businessman. All ideas and advices appreciated.

Need to know what man's think !

White fishy — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:35:02 +0800

Sometimes my man do work late and need to entertain clients. He do tell me when, with whom and where he will be when he need to back home late. When i ask what time you will be back home ? He will say i dont know. When i ask estimated time then he tell me. Its a "WHY" everytime i need to ask him leh ? If i never ask him he would not tell me. Cant he just tell me. Sigh tired man

anyone here married ?

White fishy — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 16:24:24 +0800

anyone here married with more than 1 kid ? feels really have no time to being as couple instead of family ? kids always attach to them whenever they feeling want to go out to relax their mind as couples...? feel no heart to leave behind the kids when planning to go out as couples ? anyone here? if yes.. how to manage the time ? i know this phrase : when there is a will there is a way... but the will here must be come from both sides...
today is so called "eve" thou.. for new year...

Flirting Husband / Bf

White fishy — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 13:13:46 +0800

HI... need you girls and guys for help and advice ....

For ladies who as mother / housewife there... how much trust do you put on your man ?
For mans... how much trust do you put on your woman ?

Is a married man will flirt with girls even his marriage life is happy ?

I have my friend... She have install mirc in her pc. The husband use it to chat. When she track the chat she just come to know this fishy things...

" This is my contact no. Give me your contact no, promise me you wont call me. I will sms you later."

She really dont know what her husband meant on this chat. All the while she think her husband is very good, person not even flirt with woman out there.

When she discuss with her husband he deny it and lie to her he never give his contact no. And already forgot what he have chat too.

What your guys and girls advice for her?? is the kind of guy can still be trust ?

Marriage life

White fishy — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 10:54:57 +0800

Hi, friends.. Just would like to know your advice on divorce issue. Non muslims couples. If a woman is housewife and the man is working man. If
they get divorce. Who will get the custody or to take care the childrens. Childrens age is 4 years old.

Need you guys advice... serious one... thanks

Confuse + Searching for Hint...

White fishy — Wed, 01 Aug 2007 08:11:40 +0800

Its all bout my best friend...

Here goes the story... My best friend married to a business man.. he is early 30's. In a month 3-4 times he will be back to home late.. around 4-5 am in the morning.. if my friend ask he will say meeting up with customers + with working mates... the beauty is he will let know the wife if he will be late home... There is nothing for her to suspect on her husband and the husband always tells her that he love her and he working hard to give better life for their family.. Whenever the husband back home late, my friend not able to sleep well. One thing in marriage life is a TRUST. She do trust her husband at the same time feel hurt when he is back home late. She cant sleep well because of this.

Too many question in her ....Is all the business man like this ??? or is this is the way to do business ?

Friends, give some advice here and please give some hints on how to know wherether the husband playing around outside ?

Legal Busines using 50K ?

White fishy — Tue, 12 Jun 2007 10:53:26 +0800

im interested to involve in business line... can anyone help me to advice.. using 50 K or less can start up a business ? Kindly give me suggestion on any type of home based business ? anyone experience in the business line .. pls give suggestion..