http://forum.lowyat.net/ Thu, 25 Jun 2026 19:03:26 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4977988 Hello, I have recently used an online dating app for the first time. Call me nit-picky, cause i filter thoroughly instead of liking many. I came across this lady, giving me great first impression so i went ahead and like her without much expectation to be respo back. After a day i got a notification that she respo back, i was like damn from feeling hopelessness to a little bit of surprise and nervous at the same time. <br /><br />I went ahead to start the conversation and she replied, so it was a beginning of a new friendship. We chatted continuously, to my amazement we have quite some stuffs in common. Chatting felt comfortable and we proceed on have a meet up (I&#39;ve hinted her about asking her out to see any green light, and i could feel the green so it happened, we met up).<br /><br />During the meet up, no joke am having butterflies in my stomach as this is my first time doing this (as in knowing someone through online and doing meet up). Tried my level best to be myself, started the conversation and hopefully it&#39;ll go well. Not long after, i could feel the peace on a stormy ocean. Everything went well. Talked about stuffs etc throughout the meet and we part off after.<br /><br />We are both working. Prior to the meet up, we chatted everyday (i suppose to get to know more about each other). After, wasnt much conversation going on. So i would drift away thinking, yea we&#39;re just friends, we&#39;re both busy with works and stuffs, having our own lives to live. Occasionally i would send a text to ask about how&#39;s her day and such. I do get replies, but only responses. Not much going on. So maybe i would think i might have disturbed/texted her too much (but im still thinking about the former which is the just friends,....)<br /><br />Right now, im stopping the initiative as the latter might also be true. She&#39;s someone that i could be comfortable with, as in talking my heart out, the real stuffs.<br /><br />What do you guys think? On how to get this going.<br /><br />Ohh ladies out there, a question for you. Would you meet up with a person you&#39;ve never met before, only knew each other through the dating app in less than a month time? As i believe, women&#39;s sense are always right. As in knowing if the intention is right and a wrong one.<br /><br />Thank you for the read. lurker77 Cupid&#39;s Corner Fri, 12 Jun 2020 11:18:51 +0800