http://forum.lowyat.net/ Mon, 08 Jun 2026 17:09:12 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4794211 *If you want more tips/ guidance as illustrated below, feel free to PM me. I will give you detailed steps on how I score these girls. I rate myself a 5/6 out of 10 only. With the right skills and strategies, anyone can achieve success. <br /><br />This is my modus operandi and I managed to sleep with 20+ girls on Tinder, maybe you guys can share your methods and success stories as well?<br /><br /><br />***<br />The number of matches that you have doesn’t mean anything. What matters is the number of conversion to bed action/ lay counts. Tinder is just a bridge between you and girls that are out there. Different girls have different goals (boyfriend/friend/chat buddies /FWB/ONS). What you want is to target girls that are DTF (key phrases on their profile- bored, here for a good time, non platonic, I don’t know why I’m here).<br /><br />Before Meetup <br />- Have some small talk with her before you pop the “are you DTF” question. If she’s hot, 100+ guys will be talking to her at the same time so your opening line is key. The best way to get her attention is to comment something on her pictures so that it’s unique. If you’re using pickup lines, chances are another guy is using the same pickup lines. <br />- If you see an instagram link on her bio/ she asks you to chat on instagram, chances are she’s just fishing for followers so ignore her. What you want to get is her whatsapp number. <br />- If you match her, you have passed her min looks standards. So you should set up a date after 5-10 exchange of messages. If you exceed this, generally she just views you as her text buddy, so ignore her. <br />- In one of your text, ask her whether she’s a morning/night person and schedule your meetup accordingly. Always schedule your meet-ups early so that you have some time buffer for some bed action afterwards. <br />- Choose your coffee/lunch/dinner venue wisely, ideally it should be near your bar/place/her place/hotel to sustain the attraction level and reduce any potential self-guilt for the girl. <br />- Choice of the day is important if she’s working. Friday nights are generally not the best as she’s already tired from work. Saturday nights are ideal. <br />- If you have to do it at a hotel (both parties are staying with family or whatever), make a refundable booking at a nearby hotel or check which hotels have the highest vacancy rates. Ask her to sit on the couch/wait in the car while you settle the hotel booking yourself so she will feel that it’s spontaneous and not planned.<br /><br />During Meetup <br />- The key is to play cool and to not look desperate. Agree with everything she says but do it naturally. Let her do most of the talking. Tailor your interests to her so that she feels connected to you. For example, if she likes dogs but you like cats, please do not tell her that. Instead, ask her questions like which dog breed does she prefer, how old is her dog, etc. <br />- Do not portray yourself as too nice or too badass, keep it somewhere in the middle. If you portray yourself as too nice, she might want a relationship with you instead/ you get friendzoned. If you’re too badass you’ll get the fuckboy label. <br />- Near the end, try and arouse the girl/spike attractiveness levels by touching/engaging her. You can start by saying that you are good at palm reading. Hold her hand and increase the body contact from there. Choose a good bar (sofa seats, small tables with close seats, not too crowded- avoid Friday nights if you can) <br />- Execute the pull. Ask whether she wants to check out your pet/personal collection at her place or your place/ check in to a nearby hotel.<br /><br />- Some typical difficult questions: <br />Question: Tell me why are you on Tinder/ what are you looking for right now?<br />Suggested Ans: I just broke up recently but I miss the intimacy so that’s why I’m here/ My ex-girlfriend cheated on me (try and gain sympathy here but don’t overdo it)<br /><br />Question: How many people have you slept with? <br />Suggested Ans: Tell her it’s &lt;5, if she presses on further, tell her 3. However, the suggested figure is highly debatable and will increase over time as society becomes more open minded)<br /><br />***<br />Disclaimer: My post should not be construed as sexist as this is my personal experience/viewpoint as a man. I love and respect women to the fullest extent. johnsonlim777 The Museum Of Kopitiam Mon, 17 Jun 2019 00:26:03 +0800