http://forum.lowyat.net/ Thu, 11 Jun 2026 11:30:23 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/442399 hi i am new here and i really need some adv<br /><br />I have been with my bf for almost 4 years and i am living with him.This problem accure last week.I am cheating on my bf.I have change my job without telling him.And i don&#39;t know whether he knew it or not he just treat me cool.I feel so sad.I know that i did cheat on him the first time we meet but i have change a lot for him.Sometimes he just don&#39;t trust me and i know that i am to blame.Each time we quarrel he will sure bring up the past issue although each time he will say it&#39;s ok.I really don&#39;t understand.He always say that i did not contribute anything to the house and even sometimes i wanted to go out and meet my friends he will sure said that i waste money.My income is far less than his.And sometime i do ask whether he need some help and he just say no.I really don&#39;t know what he wants sometimes and he do control a lot in my life.I feel that i do not have freedom.My heartache when i think bout it.I am all grown up and i know what i am doing and everytime i wanted to do something i have to go through him first.That&#39;s why sometime i dare not tell him what i am doing because i am scared that we will quarrel.And i really don&#39;t want that to happen.Adv need how to make him trust me and treat me better.<br /><br />THNX Jo3y Cupid&#39;s Corner Sun, 15 Apr 2007 15:05:58 +0800