http://forum.lowyat.net/ Sun, 21 Jun 2026 21:41:59 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/609159 Hi guyz, I am kind of confused here<br /> <!--emo&:blink:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/blink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='blink.gif' /><!--endemo--> <br /><br />I am having salary basic pay RM 3,400 per month<br />which my employer will deducted RM 51.xx for the PCB monthly<br /><br />In Dec 2007, I receive a contractual bonus 1 month so totally I gained RM 6800 this month, however I noticed that the PCB I gona pay is RM4xx.xx<br />it is kind big different..&#33;<br /><br />hmmm izzit anything wrong?...please bear with me...cos I never receive bonus (Orang yg kehidupan susah) a_passerby Jobs &amp; Careers Fri, 11 Jan 2008 02:04:24 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/605693 ok the story goes as this<br /><br />About 7 years ago I met her in coll days. We were good friend , always hang in one gang..<br />She was a kind of guyz magnet due to her outstanding characteristics and of course la pretty.<br />Finally, she got into relationships and went abroad working.<br /><br />So we were less in communication, however I would still send her birthday gift or card during occasions such as CNY. <br />Until recently she back Msia for her career. However, to my surprise that she broke up with her bf.<br /><br />Undeniably, I&#39;ve fond of her since long-long time ago but just that feeling it was very impossible as she is out superior than me in everything such as career, family background etc. And I don&#39;t want break up the friendships between us. Thus I don&#39;t really express my feeling to her...<br /><br />Since she is not familiar and adapt to the life in KL, and more to get bored with the life here, I have offered my time to accompany her.<br />Such as finding places makan, minum, workout and shopping together......<br /><br />One day over IM, we were chatting, I were not sure why ..our topic went into that my expression to her, what if I am serious and would she give a me a chance? <br />She smiled and replied that we can become good friends and she was not into relationships yet cos there is uncertainity in her direction (stay/abroad). &lt;-- hmm most common ways 2 reject a guy , I think.<br /><br /><br />Well, I know I&#39;ve thought too far....<!--emo&:(--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif' /><!--endemo--> but luckily seems everything remain in normal, I mean we are still able to hang around together...<br /><br />However, sometimes confusingly or you would name it &quot;Syok Sendiri&quot; lar, I noticed that she is like bit observing me...like started to ask me bout my past relationships or like jokingly promoting herself to me.. or even asking me 2 join her family dinner....<br /><br />I have asked is that anybody wooing her...she pula answer no ...hmm jokingly asking &quot;Don&#39;t I..?&quot; She pula replied in smile ,&quot; This is called wooing meh..&quot;...<br /><br /> <!--emo&:stars:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/rclxub.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='rclxub.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:stars:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/rclxub.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='rclxub.gif' /><!--endemo--> <br /><br />But then when come to gathering...she would purposely sit in a distiance from me.....and...in the normal IM chatting..she is like keep hinting that we are good friends....<br /><br />I don&#39;t thnk she is using me as most of the expense we going AA cos she insists on that..<br /><br />I really in confuse..........<!--emo&:(--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif' /><!--endemo--> ...should I continue???Just keep the current situation with the little hope she may accept me one day...?She doubt my sincerity??? a_passerby Cupid&#39;s Corner Sun, 06 Jan 2008 13:05:20 +0800