http://forum.lowyat.net/ Tue, 21 Jul 2026 04:57:36 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4544223 Beware, my english is so-so, but I&#39;ll try to minimize spelling/grammar error.<br /><br />First of all, <br />Im Male, 30 (31 this Dec), Malay, and still not experiencing &quot;first love&quot;, never dating...NOT EVEN CINTA MONYET (school, college, work..NONE)...not GAY btw <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> <br />Sometimes, 1-2 girls asked me, and when I told them, I never had a 1st love/girlfriend...they often mocking me &quot;get lost..all guys same only la, gatal la, imposible la not fall in love once&quot;. TBH, I do want to experience 1st love like everyone did, dating somewhere, watch movies and all, sharing &quot;inner&quot; feeling...but at the same time, I dont want the &quot;girl&quot; wasting time on me, coz I decided to find them when I&#39;m ready to get married, I got scared when I think that I push that girl to wait, wait, wait...I feel guilty somehow eventho I dont even found &quot;her&quot; yet <!--emo&:sweat:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/sweat.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sweat.gif' /><!--endemo--> <br /><br />My decision is I wait for the rite moment, when Im 100% ready..then I find one, then marry her (tho MAYBE i&#39;ll feel broken, seperated and till my time to meet the &quot;real&quot; one). Is guy with no 1st love is considered as weirdo these days <!--emo&:confused:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif' /><!--endemo--> ? Sometimes, I wonder if I ever feel how love feels, how couple dating, how sweet are them..before Im gone <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif' /><!--endemo--> <br /><br />If Im ready to go the next phase.....how u guys chatting? like basic question &quot;apa khabar&quot;, &quot;wat r u doin&quot;? And how we can get to know that she&#39;s really single? Dont want la if I terngorat someone&#39;s girlfriend/fiance/wifey..lol <!--emo&:sweat:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/sweat.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sweat.gif' /><!--endemo--> <br /><br /> brohsem Cupid&#39;s Corner Wed, 14 Mar 2018 21:54:36 +0800