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            <title>Moderation</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4513165</link>
            <description>Here is the story:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;[Background]&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My girlfriend went to Zouk with her colleagues after company diner, and im totally cool with it.&lt;br /&gt;Its her first time going to club at the age of 25, and i told her to give me a call to pick her up after the fun regardless the time when it ends. She said it wont be late, approximately latest by 1AM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Story&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I fetched her to dinner place(nearby Zouk) and went back home. Texted her around 9pm to see hows the dinner going, she read but didnt reply(understandable, rude to focus on phone during event, cool with it). So i have stopped texting her until she texted me back around 11pm saying she is heading to Zouk(without much information but only say colleague will fetch her back). Asked her to becareful, dont drink too much and have fun. Around 1am, texted her to checkout her condition but she didnt read. Quite nervous and worry at this point, but still wait for awhile more. Made a few calls to her at 1.30AM, she pickup my call after 4th attempt, she sounds high tho. Without talking much she ask me to go sleep without waiting her back home. At that point im quite angry. She got home at 3.30AM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Boom&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So the next day, i confronted her being inconsiderate that i will be worry about her(i couldnt reach her), and how she will feel if i go clubbing till late night without letting she know my status? We had a fight on this, and i said something terrible like i will do exactly the same thing to let her feel the shoe im wearing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So... am i behaving like a control freak? I&amp;#39;ve throw away all the clubbing, night outing and bad habits(only gaming now), to make her rest assure as im serious in this relationship. What trigger me the most is that she take it like its my fault to be mad. I mean, who wouldnt be worry if you lose contact with your GF/BF who is in the club without you&amp;#33;? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What should i do btw? &lt;br /&gt;Sorry long post and thanks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</description>
            <author>SesameBun</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 29 Jan 2018 18:13:50 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Valentine Gifts-Perfume</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4507996</link>
            <description>Valentine coming soon, thinking of buying perfume for girlfriend.&lt;br /&gt;Any recommendation? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks in advance.</description>
            <author>SesameBun</author>
            <category>Girl&amp;#39;s Club</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2018 11:31:20 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Any good game for recommendation?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4476861</link>
            <description>Hi All,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It has been awhile since my last gaming experience(3-4 years back then).&lt;br /&gt;Just bought a gaming rig, currently looking for games on Steam.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Got my eyes on Witcher 3 Wild Hunt, Tom Clancy&amp;#39;s The Division and GTA V.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any others recommendation other than above 3?&lt;br /&gt;Other platform also ok.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you in advance&amp;#33; &lt;!--emo&amp;:clap:--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/rclxms.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='rclxms.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt;</description>
            <author>SesameBun</author>
            <category>Gamers Hideout</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 11 Dec 2017 11:18:00 +0800</pubDate>
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